What to do with a 12-year-old boy during the rebellious period?Dear parents, have you ever encountered such a problem: a well-behaved and obedient child suddenly becomes rebellious, disobedient and even sometimes talks back to his parents when he is about 12 years old. This is a common phenomenon in the child's growth process and is known as the "rebellious period".
So, in the face of the child's rebellious period, how should we carry out home education?Today, I'm going to share with you some practical homeschooling methods.
First of all, we need to understand the rebellious period of the child. The rebellious period is an important stage in the child's transition from childhood to adolescence, when children will have an awakening of self-awareness, they will begin to pursue independence, and their dependence on their parents will gradually decrease. At the same time, they will also begin to have their own thoughts and views on society and life. As a result, children at this stage will become more sensitive and irritable, and will rebel against parental discipline.
So, what about the rebellious period of a 12-year-old boy?Parents take a look at the following:
1.Establish a good communication mechanism: Communication between parents and children is very important during the child's rebellious period. Parents should try to understand and accept their children's thoughts and feelings, and at the same time educate their children on how to express their thoughts and feelings correctly. Only in this way can a good communication mechanism be established and reduce conflicts between children and parents. I used to be at a loss when facing the problem of children's education, and I didn't know how to communicate with my children, but later I found Gaotu Beautiful Family, which has a lot of practical experience and methods in educating children, which has helped me solve a lot.
2.Set reasonable rules: During the child's rebellious period, parents need to set some reasonable rules to let the child know what can and cannot be done. These rules should be clear and enforceable, not vague and unenforceable.
3.Lead by example: Parents are role models for their children, and children will imitate their parents' behavior. Therefore, parents should lead by example in front of their children and show a positive and healthy attitude towards life and behavioral Xi.
4.Encourage children to think independently: During their child's rebellious period, parents should encourage their children to think independently and develop their critical thinking skills. In this way, children can better understand society and life, and better cope with life's challenges.
5.Provide proper guidance: During their child's rebellious period, parents need to provide appropriate guidance to help their child solve problems and guide them on the right path. However, parents should also respect their children's choices and give them enough freedom and space.
What to do with a 12-year-old boy during the rebellious period?In general, in the face of their children's rebellious period, parents need to be patient and understanding, but also need to have wisdom and methods. Only in this way can family education be carried out effectively and help children successfully pass the rebellious period and grow into a healthy and independent individual.
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