Many children cry heartbreakingly at the entrance of the kindergarten, and some have even been crying for more than a month, and the separation anxiety every morning makes parents feel distressed and helpless. So, what if your child doesn't want to go to kindergarten?
1. Preparation before entering the park.
Before the child enters the kindergarten, parents can take the child to the outside of the kindergarten to have a look, so that the child can feel the atmosphere of the kindergarten. At the same time, parents can introduce their children to various facilities and activities in the kindergarten, so that the children are full of curiosity and anticipation for the kindergarten. In addition, parents can also prepare kindergarten supplies with their children, so that children feel that they have grown up and need to go to kindergarten to learn more knowledge and skills.
2. Cultivate children's self-care ability.
Before the child enters the kindergarten, parents should cultivate the child's self-care ability as much as possible, such as eating, dressing, and going to the toilet by himself. In this way, the child is able to take better care of himself and reduce anxiety in kindergarten.
3. Communicate with your child.
When a child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, parents should communicate with the child to understand the reasons why the child is reluctant to go to kindergarten. It may be that the child is not adjusting to kindergarten life, or because he has no playmates, is bullied by other children, etc. Parents should take steps to help their children solve the problem on a case-by-case basis.
Fourth, insist on sending children to kindergarten.
Once you decide to send your child to kindergarten, you should insist on sending your child to kindergarten every day and not give up because of your child's crying. When the child first enters the kindergarten, the child's time in the kindergarten can be appropriately shortened, so that the child can gradually adapt. At the same time, parents can give their children some small gifts, such as candy, toys, etc., before sending them to kindergarten, so that children feel that going to kindergarten is a happy thing.
5. Communicate with teachers.
Parents should communicate with the kindergarten teacher to understand their child's performance and situation in the kindergarten. If a child has a problem in kindergarten, the teacher can help solve it. At the same time, parents can also learn about the educational philosophy and methods of kindergarten from teachers, so as to better help their children adapt to kindergarten life.
In conclusion, children's reluctance to go to kindergarten is a common problem, and parents should not worry too much. As long as appropriate measures are taken to help your child adapt to kindergarten life, your child will be able to adapt and enjoy kindergarten gradually.