It is often said that happy families are all alike, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes. Actually, it's the same with marriage. Successful marriages are all similar, but failed marriages have their own reasons.
Today, I will discuss with you what are the states of modern marriage.
The first type is the happy type. Such a family is very harmonious, and the atmosphere will be particularly good. Everyone in the family will always feel the happiness of the family, and of course, they will always work hard for a happy family. Such a family is an example for everyone to learn from Xi.
The second type is the type of having nothing to say. In this type of marriage, the husband and wife are no longer in spiritual communication, and even if they sit together, there is nothing to say. They may have lost common ground or have become emotionally estranged. This type of marriage is often due to poor communication between the two parties, or lack of interest in each other's lives and hobbies, resulting in the inability of both parties to resonate spiritually.
The third type is the busy type. In this type of marriage, both spouses are too busy with work and other affairs to have time to take care of the family and each other. They may have achieved a lot at work but neglected the importance of family. Such marriages are often the result of both parties' excessive pursuit of work and neglect of the value and meaning of the family, which is generally materially wealthy. It is a matter of using the importance of work, money, or status to cover up the meaning of marriage without knowing it.
Fourth, the cheating type. In this type of marriage, one of the spouses has already cheated on each other, or both have cheated on each other. This type of marriage is often the result of the unfaithfulness of the relationship between the parties, or the dissatisfaction of the other party. The act of infidelity can have a great destructive effect on the trust and affection of both spouses, leading to the breakdown of the marriage.
The fifth type is the patience type. In this type of marriage, both spouses are no longer emotional, but there is no divorce for various reasons. They may have lost love for each other, but are still married for children or other reasons. This kind of marriage is often caused by the helplessness and compromise of the relationship between the parties.
Sixth, unlimited pay. The beginnings of this type of marriage must be touching. After marriage, there is a situation where one party strives to make progress, while the other party enjoys the marriage in place. In this kind of marriage, one party pays infinitely in order to give each other happiness, even if there are grievances and regrets, they will work hard to support the marriage because of the original promise, hoping that the other party will be able to change one day. The other party is enjoying the happiness brought by marriage and forgetting their respective responsibilities and obligations in marriage. As a matter of course, I asked for it from the other party. Even, they will accuse each other unreasonably. Such people belong to the category of people who become more and more selfish and unaware in their happiness.
The above several normalities of modern marriage all reflect the current situation of modern people in married life. For these marital statuses, we need to think deeply about how to solve the problem by improving the relationship between husband and wife, improving the quality of marriage, and strengthening communication and understanding. Only in this way can we make our marriage better, more stable and happier.
The above types of marriages are encountered or heard in real life. What kind of marriage status do you belong to, or do you still know that state of marriage, you are welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.