Li Xiaolai introduced the scientific method of meeting nobles in "The Road to Wealth and Freedom", and I think the most important thing is that nobles are more likely to meet nobles.
In other words, if you want to meet a nobleman, you must first be a nobleman, and you must have the value of being exchanged.
Many people around me have the mentality of having dates and not playing with dates, and are busy attending various activities. Show your face and mix up familiar social occasions, the purpose is to meet your own noble person one day. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but they regard "meeting a nobleman" as their goal, but they don't know that before "meeting a nobleman", you must first "become a nobleman", and this behavior is a bit of putting the cart before the horse.
Think about it carefully, "meet the noble" is actually to complete the transaction at a low cost, for example, you have a product on sale, and the nobleman is matched, and you get a big order, saving you 500,000 marketing fees. On the other hand, why should the noble person help you to pull the line, it must be that you are valuable, or he thinks you are valuable, otherwise he can turn this opportunity into 500,000 yuan.
This is just a simplified example, value is originally pluralistic, it may be future value, it may be more than monetary value, there are many other value elements in the real world.
Isn't there such a saying?If you're not good, you won't be able to socialize effectively.
"Meeting a nobleman" is essentially an act of asking for help, and the deeper meaning implied is trading. Since it is a transaction, it requires reciprocity.
When you have no value (which can also be potential), no matter how humble you are and keep your voice down, you will not meet noble people to help you.
If you want to "meet a noble person", you should focus on building your own value, especially your long-term value.