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In recent years, there has been an increase in reports of domestic violence, and celebrities are no exception.
Even in this era of encouraging female heroism and independence, there are still men who use violence to beat those around them.
Don't you feel a little remorse and fear when these men abuse women in their homes?
In fact, domestic violence often leaves a mark.
It was said. "Every domestic abuser has two fists ready to swing at you and two legs ready to kneel at you. ”
Domestic violence generally includes the following situations:
Emotionally unstable or more emotional.
Maybe one moment you're talking and laughing, but for some reason the next moment your attitude changes 180 degrees. When it happened, I started to get irritable, anxious, and couldn't think of any solution. This is to solve the problem. The problem did exist, but he began to lose his temper in desperation.
This kind of moody, fickle person is the most troublesome and powerless. It's especially good when you're in a good mood, and there's nothing you can do when you're in a bad mood.
Studies have shown that more than 95% of men with domestic violence beat their wives after drinking too much. They choose to verbally attack their wives during an argument, no matter how rude or hurtful the words may be. While they can vent their emotions, some people prefer to torture critters to spark their inner quests.
There are also a lot of xenophobic men.
We have entered the 21st century, but our thinking is still stuck in the 60s and 70s of the 20th century.
For example, he yelled at his wife as soon as he got home. When his wife brought it up, he said that traditionally women were not responsible for laundry or cooking. Why are you doing so much at home?
In addition to the above-mentioned types, there are men who are always full of negative energy, think the worst when they encounter things, and always sigh or complain to those around them if the result is not as good as they want.
This type of person does not seek reasons and does not make any effort to change the status quo, so they are surprised when the moment of emotional collapse happens.
The people most to watch out for are those who are extremely selfish, refuse to think from someone else's point of view, and are self-centered.
This type of person needs to get what they want quickly and be satisfied, and likes to use violence to resolve any discrepancies. It can range from minor arguments to serious illnesses leading to admission to the intensive care unit (ICU).
Whether you are an unmarried woman or a married woman, you should be more careful if you experience the above symptoms. After all, life is our own, and we must love ourselves.
So how do you protect yourself from domestic violence?
When it comes to power, a lot of women are at a disadvantage, which hurts them fundamentally. It's okay to meet a kind man, but be careful when you meet a man who likes to solve problems with violence.
There are two things that many women need to remember when they experience domestic violence for the first time:
First of all, don't choose tolerance.
Many women tremble with anger after being violated by their husbands. However, if your husband later regrets it and starts apologizing, he will relent and ask you to forgive him. But in reality, this approach is wrong.
Because if you forgive and don't resist, saying it's okay, men will think you're a bully in their hearts. In addition, domestic violence is either zero or countless. A moment of patience only leads to the next thing. Domestic violence will be even more severe in the future.
The second is to look for opportunities and choose to resist.
Women are generally not as capable of fighting as men, so if many women resist immediately, they may experience more severe violence.
Therefore, women should aim for the right moment when men are subjected to violence. Don't just shy away from it, and if that doesn't work, hit where it hurts the most. After all, a man can hit you until your nose is knocked out. I had bruises on my body and my face was swollen. Please forgive him too. I'm not a man anymore.
So how should we properly protect our interests after encountering domestic violence?
Our laws are all about evidence. When confronted with domestic violence, we need to preserve as much material evidence as possible that constitutes domestic violence.
For example, we use mobile phones and other camera devices to record situations and record relevant audio. If you run to the door in time, many neighbors will come out to persuade you. will be a witness.
Alternatively, you can go to the hospital to diagnose the injuries caused by domestic violence. If you have these, your opponent won't be able to escape even if you want to.
The situation will only get worse if domestic violence is condoned.
Why do so many women choose to forgive men after experiencing domestic violence?Because they don't want to get divorced because of that. They just want men to change. As long as he changes, we can continue to live together. I think it's for the kids. Kids go to college, kids start families, and wait for their careers to begin.
I've been waiting, but men don't change, they don't repent, they just change. It's getting worse and worse.
Violence is a cycle that, once unleashed, never ends.
So girls must be calm!
Don't assume that the other person is usually nice to you. This time, I attacked myself because I couldn't control my emotions. In fact, everyone knows that you are deceiving yourself.
From the moment he starts beating you, you have to be independent and can divorce and leave the house at any time.
Because his actions show that he is dangerous.