Indispensable in the development of students is the ritual called "self-introduction". Almost from junior high school, students are asked to present themselves by their teachers as they move into a new environment.
This practice is designed to encourage students in the class to get to know each other and quickly establish connections, which has a positive impact on class cohesion. Some students appear to be very outgoing and willing to introduce themselves and present themselves. This type of student is loved by teachers and is also given important tasks.
There is also a group of students who are naturally more introverted and who feel like they are in a socially awkward situation whenever they need to introduce themselves, eager to find a place to hide.
In addition, there is a group of students who, despite not being introverted, are deeply disgusted by self-introduction. The reason for this is that they are a little shy about saying their names.
As the saying goes, times make heroes. As many post-90s generations step into the role of mothers, their unique education methods have repeatedly become a hot topic and hilarious.
In addition, they exhibit a unique trait, which is a tendency to have a unique personality, which is reflected in the choice of names for their children. In order to avoid children having the same name as others, many parents consider using a five-character name instead of a four-character name.
Some parents even create fictitious compound surnames in order to make their children appear unique. Rather than giving students self-confidence, they were ridiculed as they grew up because of their names.
A girl once complained about her name on the Internet and said that she felt cramped and uneasy every time she introduced herself when she was growing up. In elementary school, teachers even avoided calling her name because her name was "Bao Shuang". Maybe her parents didn't think much about it when they chose her name, but for children of the same age who like to joke, the name is simply a "disaster".
Whenever the teacher mentioned her name in class, the class erupted in laughter. In order to maintain order in the classroom, the teacher finally chose to avoid mentioning Bao Shuang's name.
The student confessed that every time she introduced herself because of her name, she felt very ashamed. She sincerely thanked her parents for giving her the name that embarrassed her in social situations and asked, "Have you considered my feelings?"”
Nowadays, many parents adopt various methods when choosing a name for their child, and do not seem to think deeply about the future development of their child. This incident has prompted parents to reflect on the need to be careful to avoid names that cause laughter when choosing names for their children. It may not be intentionally indifferent when it was first named, but that doesn't mean that others won't be ridiculed for it. Therefore, it is important for parents to be cautious when naming their children.
Parents need to choose their names carefully and avoid the following two situations:
The first is the ambiguous name. The word "Jiao" has been discussed on the Internet before, and it has a derogatory meaning in Guangdong. Although parents in other regions may not be aware of it, they should try to avoid using ambiguous names to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. For example, a name like "Bao Shuang", for some malicious people, may cause students to be ridiculed and affect their growth process.
The second is overly complex names. In order to show the cultural heritage of the student, some parents may deliberately choose a name with more strokes. A student once reported that his name made him suffer a lot, it turned out that his name was Xuan Jinglu, and he had 103 paintings in just three words. The parents asked someone to calculate before the student was born, thinking that it was a name with profound meaning, and its Cantonese pronunciation is "circle and step", which means soaring and prosperous. Because these characters are relatively obscure, students have been nicknamed "Lei Lei Lei, Long Long Long" by their classmates since they were young. Therefore, while pursuing culture, parents also need to consider the memorability of the name to avoid unnecessary distress to their children.
Therefore, although the name seems to be full of cultural connotations, it brings quite a bit of confusion to the growth of students. Therefore, when choosing a name for a child, parents should try to avoid choosing such names that can cause problems.
Sometimes, a simple and meaningful name is more suitable for students. A name is not just a code name for a student, but something that accompanies them for a lifetime. Therefore, there is a need to be cautious when choosing a name, and parents should really think about it.
Of course, students should also learn to respect others and not give their classmates nicknames easily, because bad nicknames are just a mockery. As they grow up, students should develop good values, think actively, maintain a sense of independence, and learn basic respect instead of blindly ridiculing others.
Today's topic: Have you seen any other strange names?