There is a figure known as the "diva" in the Chinese sketch industry, and that is Cai Ming. Her hearty laughter and humorous performance always make people laugh, no matter whether she appears on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala every year, she is a classic in people's hearts.
On stage, she is charismatic;In life, she has a happy marriage. Her husband willingly plays the role of a "housewife" at home, and her son, who has shown excellent academic and Xi grades since he was a child, is now a well-known screenwriter in China, and his masterpiece "Thai Embarrassment" is widely known.
Although Cai Ming felt relieved and happy about her son's successful career, there was one thing in her heart that had always bothered her.
Cai Ming, born in Beijing to a family of high-level intellectuals, his father was a university professor and his mother was a chief physician, although their profession had nothing to do with art, Cai Ming had a deep love for literature and art since he was a child.
When he was in elementary school, Cai Ming successfully joined the Galaxy Youth Choir of ** TV station and became an actor with his outstanding performance.
In 1973, Cai Ming, who was only 12 years old, was selected by director Xie Tieli for her outstanding performance, and she successfully portrayed the role of Haixia in childhood in the film "Haixia", thus developing a strong interest in acting.
She told her father about her hobby "acting" and received great support from him. In 1976, Cai Ming entered the actor troupe of Beijing Film Studio with her own efforts, became the youngest actor in the troupe at that time, and began her acting career.
Cai Ming is as beautiful as a flower, attracting many suitors, every time she goes back to the dormitory, the sisters will keep a few love letters for her, and then make fun of her: "With so many love letters, Xiao Ming, who will you choose?."”
Because there were so many letters, the sisters even used sacks to pack them. Surprisingly, actor Liang Tian has written to Cai Ming seven times in a row to confess, but Cai Ming has never replied to his letters.
Cai Ming did not deliberately fail to reply when she was young, and she believed that the priority at that time was to focus on work. During that period, she participated in many works such as "Streamers Printed with Golden Anchors", "Handcuffed "Travelers", "Love Corner", "The Way to Make Money", and rose to prominence at that time with her outstanding performances.
Career is rising step by step, and love is coming as scheduled.
Cai Ming's performance works are becoming richer and richer, and her popularity is also rising, with fans all over the country. Among them, a fan named Ding Qiuxing caught her attention.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 1983, various groups in Beijing's literary and art circles jointly held a grand celebration. As the director of the China Broadcasting Art Troupe, Ding Qiuxing was also invited to participate in the event.
In the crowd, he recognized Cai Ming at a glance, and his heart was full of surprise and expectation. He immediately wanted to say hello to Cai Ming, but rummaged through his pockets and couldn't find a piece of paper.
In the end, Ding Qiuxing had an idea, tore off a piece from the back of the newly bought painkiller plaster, and wrote his name and **. He quickly squeezed to Cai Ming's side and glued the plaster directly to Cai Ming's clothes, successfully attracting Cai Ming's attention.
Ding Qiuxing tried a unique way to get Cai Ming's attention, and he encouraged himself: "Maybe this way will be more effective." As a result, it didn't take long for Ding Qiuxing to receive Cai Ming's **.
Ding Qiuxing seized the opportunity and invited Cai Ming to dine with him many times, but Cai Ming seemed to have maintained a cold attitude towards him.
In order to touch Cai Ming's heart, Ding Qiuxing obtained her filming address from Cai Ming's colleagues. He wrote a handwritten letter to Cai Ming every day, and in the intense and intense work, Cai Ming was facing tremendous pressure.
At this time, she desperately needs someone to comfort her. After Cai Ming received Ding Qiuxing's letter, he was both surprised and pleasantly surprised. As Ding Qiuxing wrote more and more love letters, Cai Ming's understanding of him became deeper and deeper.
After more than three months of filming, Cai Ming received a total of 100 love letters from Ding Qiuxing, and she was also deeply moved by Ding Qiuxing. Soon, the two fell in love.
In 1985, Ding Qiuxing expressed his love to Cai Ming and promised her that he would always be good to her, love her, and love her. Cai Ming was deeply moved by his sincere emotions and gladly accepted the marriage proposal.
Although the two did not hold a grand wedding, because of their deep love for each other, Cai Ming felt that he was extremely happy at that moment.
A year after Cai Ming got married, he was happy to have a noble son, and in order to facilitate the settlement, he named it "Ding Ding". After the birth of the child, Cai Ming's acting career also reached a higher level. Ding Qiuxing is well aware of Cai Ming's love for acting, and takes the initiative to take care of the child, so that Cai Ming can concentrate on performing outside.
His son Ding Ding has been very sensible since he was a child, and he never cried because Cai Ming was not often by his side when he was a child. On the contrary, whenever Mother's Day or his birthday comes, he will carefully prepare gifts for Cai Ming.
One year on Mother's Day, Tintin came home from school, holding a straight tube rolled out of newspaper, handed it to Cai Ming, and said, "Mom, Happy Mother's Day." After Cai Ming opened it, she found a small stick wrapped in it, and she asked her son suspiciously, "What does this stick mean?"”
Ding Ding scratched his head, pouted and said aggrievedly, "My flower ran away." Hearing his son's answer, Cai Ming couldn't cry or laugh. Although the gift that Tintin gave her was lost, the fact that Tintin gave her a gift has always been remembered by her.
In her family, Cai Ming has a husband who understands and loves her deeply, as well as a smart and sensible son. At this time, her career was also at its peak.
In 1991, she appeared on the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Gala for the first time, and collaborated with Gong Hanlin in the sketch "Stranger", thus becoming famous and becoming a well-known star.
In the next few years, Cai Ming brought many classic works such as "Loess Slope", "Chinese New Year", "Matchmaker", "Wedding" to the audience, and she also won the reputation of "Sketch Queen".
Cai Ming's popularity is growing day by day, but the time he spends with his family is becoming scarcer. However, her education for her son has not been deterred. Whenever she has free time, she personally checks and tutors her son's homework.
Thankfully, his son Ding Ding's Xi grades have always been among the best, so his parents don't have to worry.
In 2001, Ding Ding graduated from junior high school, and in order to make him more independent and receive a better education, Cai Ming decided to send Ding Ding overseas for further study. Before leaving, Ding Ding was rarely coquettish, clutching Cai Ming's sleeve and refusing to let go.
Although Cai Ming was full of reluctance in her heart, she still ruthlessly withdrew her clothes and urged Ding Ding to board the plane.
Ding Ding first arrived in a foreign country, although he was a little uncomfortable with the new environment, he always reported good news and not bad news every time he talked to Cai Ming on the phone. When he was in college, Ding Ding no longer reached out to Cai Ming to ask for money, but earned his own tuition and living expenses.
This makes Cai Ming very proud of his son, and he can't help but praise his friends: "My son not only learns Xi well abroad, but also supports himself, which really makes me worry." ”
Tintin left his hometown for 8 years. It wasn't until 2009 that he graduated from university and set foot on his way back to China.
When Cai Ming came to the airport early to prepare for the pick-up, the picture in front of her moved her to tears. The kid who was a teenager when he left is now a head taller than himself and has grown into a real man.
Cai Ming has nothing to do at home, and always wants to do something for his son. She remembered her son's taste when he was a child, and one day, Ding Ding came home and saw that the table was full of hometown dishes such as cola chicken wings, shredded apples, sweet and sour fish, etc., he did not show a smile, but frowned, and said to Cai Ming: "Mom, I don't like to eat these dishes now, I prefer Western food." In desperation, Cai Ming had no choice but to fry a steak for him.
The cultural differences between the East and the West are not only reflected in food Xi, but also in workplace styles. Ding Ding was 23 years old when he returned to China, and the most important thing at this age was to find a stable job.
He used what he learned abroad to join a multinational logistics company. But because he has lived in the UK for too long, Ding Ding calls his boss and seniors by name in the company, and every day as soon as the time for work comes, he will rush out the door and take the elevator home.
Whenever this happens, his colleagues in the company always stare at him with strange eyes, which also leads to a very tense relationship between Ding Ding and his colleagues in the company.
Time passed, and everyone thought that the relationship would improve, but after 3 months, the relationship between Tintin and his colleagues was still strained. Under too much pressure, Ding Ding decided to jump ship to a financial unit as a financial planner.
Learning from the last experience, Ding Ding worked hard to integrate into the new team, and he actively participated in every company dinner, which made his relationship with his colleagues gradually closer. However, the identity of Ding Ding as Cai Ming's son is also well known to everyone.
Ding Ding attaches great importance to his identity as Cai Ming's son, and he doesn't want to be overpaid by everyone because he has a celebrity mother. When he was in elementary school, in order to avoid his identity being exposed, he would resolutely refuse Cai Ming to participate in every parent-teacher conference.
Tintin rejected the manager's advice and was determined not to rely on his parents' relationship to develop clients. Although he understands that doing so may cost him his job, he firmly believes that using his hard work and ability to succeed is the real thing.
However, his persistence was not recognized, and eventually he was fired from the company.
Cai Ming watched his son suffer repeated setbacks on the road to employment after returning to China, and his heart was anxious. In order to regain his son's confidence, Cai Ming learned through the show that as a parent, he should create a relaxed and happy environment for him and give him full affirmation and support.
Only in this way can we help him regain his self-confidence and get back on the path to success.
Cai Ming knocked on his son's door with two trophies in his hand and said to him: "Son, this is the trophy you won when you performed before, and your achievements abroad have always been highly praised by your mentor."
Now you're in trouble, but Mom is confident that you will be able to overcome it. Cai Ming's words made Ding Ding feel extremely excited. In addition, Cai Ming also invited Ding Ding's friends to hold a "family salon" at home.
With the support and encouragement of Cai Ming, Ding Ding walked out of the trough of his life and regained his fighting spirit. He founded a cultural communication company and in 2012 he was involved in the screenwriting of the film "Thai Embarrassment".
As the leader of the company, Ding Ding treats his employees as family and often takes them on trips. Under his leadership, the company has achieved better and better results.
Cai Ming watched his son's career flourish, and his heart was full of pride and pride. Seeing that Tintin was about to turn thirty, she began to worry about his life's events.
In 2012, the year of the release of "Thai Embarrassment", Ding Ding, as one of the screenwriters, was 26 years old. At that time, Tintin's career was booming, and he was so devoted to his work that he had no time to take care of his feelings.
This made Cai Ming very anxious, seeing that his son was about to turn 30 years old, but he didn't have a girlfriend by his side. So, every time Ding Ding came home, Cai Ming would ask half-jokingly: "When are you going to bring a girlfriend home?"”
At first, Ding Ding also said to Cai Ming seriously: "Mom, I'm only in my 20s, and my girlfriend's affairs are not in a hurry." ”
Mom had you when she was 25 years old, and you were almost thirty years old and still single, either you took the initiative to find it, or Mom helped you find it. Since then, Cai Ming has always asked relatives, friends and colleagues to help his son keep an eye out for the right girls.
Despite pressure from his mother, Tintin meets several girls, but he is not happy with each of them. In the end, in order to avoid the blind date arranged by Cai Ming, Ding Ding moved to the company under the pretext of work.
Cai Ming has always been keen on arranging a blind date for Ding Ding, but Ding Ding has been evading. The two were at a stalemate on this issue, and finally one day it broke out. That day, Cai Ming introduced another girl to Ding Ding, but Ding Ding felt that this girl was not his favorite type, and he thought it was a waste of time.
So, he said to Cai Ming: "Mom, don't introduce me to people anymore, I want to fall in love freely, I don't want to get married for the sake of getting married." Not to be outdone, Cai Ming said: "Free love?."
So when did you start a relationship?If you wait for you to fall in love freely and find a girlfriend, your mother may not be able to wait for that day. Ding Ding shook his head and said, "I don't want to get married yet, don't worry about me." ”
Cai Ming said excitedly: "You are in your thirties and still not married, when do you want to get married?"Mom is 60 years old, and Mom's biggest wish now is to see you get married and have children. ”
Ding Ding realized that his mother was no longer young under Cai Ming's reminder, but he didn't want to get married, so he could only promise Cai Ming: "I will find a partner as soon as possible and let you see me getting married and having children." ”
With her son's promise, although Cai Ming no longer urges him as before, as long as this problem is not solved, it has been bothering her and gradually becoming a piece of her heart.
Every day, she worries about her son's life's events.
Cai Ming has entered the age of sixties, and her son Ding Ding has also reached the age of establishment, but so far there has been no news of Ding Ding's marriage. Cai Ming's life can be described as smooth sailing, born in a happy family, loved by his parents since he was a child, and was favored by his husband after marriage.
The sketches she performed left a deep impression on everyone. However, her only regret in this life is that her son has not yet started a family. As children, we should think more from the perspective of our parents.
In the end, I hope that Ding Ding can meet his true daughter as soon as possible, enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible, and have children, so as to fulfill the wish of his mother Cai Ming.