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The poet of the Song Dynasty wrote a particularly beautiful ancient poem in "The Garden Is Not Worth It": "The spring breeze can't close the garden;There was a romance coming from the wall. ”
But nowadays the word "cheating" is often used to describe the behavior of a woman who has a lover outside.
In ancient times, women had a lower social status and were bound by the Three Principles and Five Constants, so they were more loyal to their families and men.
But now women who have received higher education and new things are becoming more and more open to the concept of love, and they can easily betray their feelings and feel that it doesn't matter.
Therefore, it is necessary for men to observe carefully in the process of getting along with their lovers.
Because when a woman betrays, they usually have three physical changes that are almost uniform across the country.
The Italian Renaissance painter Leonardo da Vinci once said that the eye is the window to the soul.
Therefore, whether a woman has two hearts and whether a man looks carefully into each other's eyes can have an answer.
First, in order to hide their infidelity, women may be afraid to look into men's eyes and often avoid men's eyes that are still full of love.
Secondly, when a woman really loves a man, she looks into the other person's eyes as if it would glow, and there is often a smile in the corner of her eye, and the feeling of stars twinkle in her eyes. But if you don't love it, your eyes will become extraordinarily cold;
Finally, when a woman can't help but contact her lover in front of a man, she will have a disgusted look at the man, because in her eyes, this lover far surpasses the man she once loved.
So, as the ancient sage Mencius said: the best way to observe a person is to look at his eyes.
Dr. John Gray, a global interpersonal relationship expert, has a point in the best-selling book series "Men are from Venus, Women are from Mars":
Gentleness is a woman's ability to make a man willing to commit suicide at all costs. ”
Therefore, some women with a bad temper, when they love a man deeply, will choose to be silent and want to make themselves more mysterious.
And she will speak very quietly and gently, so that men can spoil her.
But after adultery, the woman either refuses to communicate or has a mouth full of hurtful words.
As the British writer Alain de Botton described in his book "Love Notes":
The architect's beautiful girlfriend, whom he met on the plane, falls in love with his colleague, and despite the fact that the two are still living together, the girlfriend begins to find fault with herself.
The architect thought it was strange that he hadn't changed anything, but why had his girlfriend's style of speaking to him changed so much.
Therefore, the tone and attitude of the betrayed woman, including the words she says, will become different.
When a woman loves a man so much, she wants to kiss and hug almost every day, and if she doesn't love him, she avoids him.
Even if the man takes the initiative to want it, the woman will find all kinds of excuses to refuse, and she doesn't care if it will hurt the man's self-esteem.
At the same time, after a woman has satisfied her lover, she does not care how much he will suffer if another man's needs are not met.
So as psychologists say: whether a woman loves a man or not, the body's reaction is the most direct.
If there is no basic intimacy or even an aversion to the proximity of a man, then the woman may be in trouble.