Many Hong Kong female celebrities actually attach great importance to family affection, and even after getting married, they often keep in touch with their mother's family.
This approach not only helps female celebrities to be supported and enlightened in their marriages, but also allows family members to work together to achieve success.
In the case of Lai Zi, who is married to Martin, she lives with her parents and does not leave them behind.
And Li Jiaxin, who is married to Xu Jinheng, often gets together with her sister Li Jiaming, and will not be estranged from her family because of marriage.
After Gambi married Liu Luanxiong, Gambi's mother, sister and sister have always been by her side and given all kinds of support.
Therefore, Gambi's success is not only an individual success, but also the result of a family effort.
However, Li Shuxian, who has just passed away, gives people the feeling that she does not see the support of her mother's family.
Her relationship with her second husband Xu Zhizheng is not smooth, and it seems that there is no family to help and comfort her.
It can even be said that Li Shuxian's relatives may not be as good as her ex-husband Lu Huiguang.
Today, we take a closer look at Li Shuxian's family background, perhaps after understanding her family background, we can better understand why the good-looking Li Shuxian can compete with Yang Gongru for the championship, and also understand why she herself fell into an emotional puzzle.
The main reason is that there are too many children in the family, and the father needs to earn money to support the family, resulting in insufficient care for the children.
First of all, Lai's father is a construction worker and her mother is a housewife, so she has little time to care for Lai.
According to public information, Li Shuxian's parents are from an average family.
It is said that Li Shuxian's father is a construction worker, and he doesn't know if the salary is high, but he can raise many children, and Li Shuxian's mother can only be a housewife, unable to earn money to support the family and share the pressure.
The father wants to make money, and there are many children in the family, and the mother does not pay much attention to Li Shuxian.
As a result, Lai Sook-hyun lacked love growing up.
This lack of love made her pay more attention to her feelings after becoming popular, even if she married the rich Xu Zhizheng for the second time, she still felt pain for a long time because of the other party's inattentiveness, and finally chose to get rid of it.
This can only show the lack of love brought by the original family, so that Li Shuxian should reflect and solve himself early, instead of relying on each other too much.
Secondly, Li Shuxian is very sensible and has helped take care of her younger siblings since she was a child.
Due to the large number of children in the family, Lai Shuxian helped her mother with household chores and took care of her younger siblings at an early age.
Since she is neither the eldest child nor the youngest in the home, most likely in the middle position, she needs to take responsibility for doing the housework.
Although such sensibility may be praised in the eyes of parents, it is actually not a good influence on children.
Because children do not need to be overly sensible and should enjoy the care of their parents.
Unfortunately, the limited family conditions made Li Shuxian take on the responsibility prematurely and play the role of an adult.
When she grows up and faces marriage, she naturally can't correctly judge good men and bad men, and she can get married as long as men care about themselves.
Therefore, girls should focus on character when choosing a marriage partner.
No matter how good a man is to you, if you have a bad character, you shouldn't choose.
Because marriage will not last, and you will be miserable for the sake of longevity.
Thirdly, Lai Shuxian is very considerate of others, and the family has limited finances, so the children take turns wearing old clothes.
Born in a family with many children, Lai Shuxian also has a characteristic that she is very considerate of others, does not complain about others, but strives to make others happy under limited conditions.
The family conditions are not good, and there are many children, so the old clothes between the children are worn in turns.
Many girls with strong personalities may complain that their parents don't have enough money to have so many children.
However, Lai Shuxian does not belong to this type of blaming others, she may have been used to thinking about others since she was a child, and she did not dare to put forward her own ideas.
Just like in marriage, although Hui Zhizheng's performance is not satisfactory, Lai Shuxian may be more concerned about the man's reputation and the lives of the children than thinking about himself to have a relaxed and happy life.
It's not a good thing to think too much about others, it can make your child lack a sense of self-worth.
To sum up, whether from the perspective of gaining love or from the perspective of being a person, it has led to a lack of love in her heart and she does not know how to love herself.