Each of us can choose to be a kind of person, and of course we can only choose to be a model of people, which is also called "teleology".
Set a goal, work in this direction, and get closer to this direction bit by bit, and gradually, you will become this kind of person. If you want to become a painter, you have to learn painting techniques, practice painting every day, participate in painting circles, and communicate;Gradually, gradually, he became a professional painter. If you want to become a "psychological counselor", you will buy "psychological counseling" books, participate in "psychological counseling training", and try to help people solve problemsGradually, gradually, I integrated into this circle. The major chosen in college is bound to have a "life goal" in your heart, a life blueprint that guides every step of the way.
In addition to one's career, what kind of person you want to be is also determined by "teleology".
If you want to be a brave person, you will buy books that "make your heart stronger" and read them often;To break through a lot of things that I didn't dare to do before, grow in setbacks, and slowly get closer to a goal.
Therefore, we must be the result of the goals we once set.
We have to choose the best purpose for ourselves, and there can only be one purpose, and if you make one choice, you have to give up the others. By choosing carefully, coupled with willpower to give up, let yourself keep getting closer to the goal.
Teleology is bound to determine who we are now and will be.