To love someone, you must also have the ability to love.
I once heard a sentence - "When I have no worries, poverty is only a matter of eating steamed buns or steak at night, which does not affect my happiness;But when I fell in love with a girl, I deeply felt what poverty brings about inferiority. ”
When managing love, as important as choosing love, is the ability to love. Because the feeling of powerlessness in love can really destroy love. She wants 60,000 bride price, saying that it is their custom, you grit your teeth and say: "Can you be less", she really loves you, and understands your various difficulties, so she said embarrassedly: "My mother said, at least 40,000." You still can't take it, so the time drags on for more and more, and the other party doesn't get married, not because she doesn't love you, but because the pressure makes her have to let go of you, after all, love is indeed important, but the future is just as important. At that time, you will understand what it means to be in love, but you are not capable of love.
When two people are together, they often don't love each other enough, because if life wants to go on, they have to live, and if they can't live their lives, trivial things will slowly ferment into big things when they are not capable, and finally the reason why two people are separated is that they are easily tired.
I like to watch the ** taken by Yan Zhen and Zheng Jianpeng, and I think that the two of them are fairy couples, both of them are good-looking, both talented, and they are either playing together or playing with children every day. Someone at the bottom of the comment said: "I really envy your family, unlike my family, I have nothing to say to my husband, and I play with my mobile phone every day after work." It's just that Yan Zhen, he is a model, Zheng Jianpeng is also a singer, the two of them are together, it can also be said that they don't worry about eating and drinking, in this case, it's easy to spend time with each other. If you really want to live your life into poetry and persist in love to the end, at least two people must have the ability to love each other.
After all, love is not just the flowers and moons of you and me, nor is it just the sweet words of the mountains and the sea. Everyone will pass by the age of hearing about love, and they will find that when you really love someone, what is more important than love itself is that you have the ability to love each other and make your vows no longer on paper. It's really not easy to meet love, but what is more difficult than meeting is always to keep love. If one day, you find that the future is more important than love, it means that you have read love and understood that to love someone, you must be qualified to love and have the ability to love.