The family is the cradle of children's growth and an important place for their learning and development. However, there are times when parents focus too much on their children's behaviors and habits, trying to achieve family awakening by changing their children. However, the truly awakened families are those that only change themselves and guide their children by leading by example.
The effects of parents' behaviors and attitudes on children are profound and long-lasting. Children are natural imitators, imitating their parents' mannerisms, values, and ways of doing things. If parents want their children to have good moral character and behaviour, they need to start with themselves. Truly awakened families are those who are aware of the impact of their words and actions on their children and guide them by positive example.
Changing oneself means that parents need to look at their own behaviour and attitudes, and reflect on whether they are embodying positive values in their words and actions. If we want our children to learn to be kind and caring to others, we must first learn to be kind and caring to ourselves and those around us. If we want our children to learn to be honest and honest, we must first be honest and honest with ourselves and others. It is only by changing ourselves that we can become mentors and friends to our children.
However, changing oneself does not mean completely ignoring your child's growth and education. Instead, we need to lead by example and help children grow through positive guidance. We can explore new knowledge and skills with our children and encourage them to develop their own interests. We can listen to their ideas and questions and have in-depth exchanges with them. We can set clear goals for them and help them develop a plan to achieve them.
Truly awakened families are those that understand that changing themselves is the key to becoming better parents and guide their children by leading by example. It is only by changing ourselves that we can become role models for our children and become people they deserve to respect and learn from. Let's lead by example and show our children the best version of themselves so that they can learn the most valuable things from us.