Let one step be high, and regression is progressTreating others with leniency is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest. In life, you don't have to rush forward all the time, you have to fight for the bloodshed. Sometimes, take a step back and you'll find something different. Learning to back down at the right time is not actually a sign of cowardice, but a very clever way of dealing with the world. 
Recently, I saw a news that a young man was eating at a wonton restaurant, and suddenly the proprietress came over and muttered:"You've added too many things every time, and next time we don't sell them, how many spoons have you added!”Before the young man could react, the boss came overWithout saying a word, he slapped the young man first, and scolded him to get out. It turned out that this young man was a frequent customer in the store, and every time he came, he would add a lot of small ingredients, and the proprietress began to feel distressed when she saw it. was slapped for no reason, and the young man was also very inexplicable, but he didn't fight back, but asked the boss why he let him go. 
As soon as the words came out, the boss became even more angry, yelled at the young man, and told him to pay the money and get out.
This young man probably encountered such a thing for the first time, and everyone was still a little confused, so he actually went to pay the money and then left the store. Who knew that the boss did not give up, and after the young man left, he chased him out of the store, his mouth was full of swearing, and he made a threatening appearance of wanting to beat people. As soon as the young man saw that the other party chased him out, he quickly ran away. When encountering such a thing, the guy naturally would not just give up, and afterwards he called the police, and the police quickly took the boss away.
Subsequently, the monitoring of the matter was also transmitted to the Internet, but I didn't expect to directly make this store "popular".
Overnight, more than 10,000 negative reviews were posted on the takeaway platform, and the store is currently closed. Since ancient times, the ancestors have said that harmony is precious, and as a businessman, you should understand that harmony makes money. But the owner of this store likes to operate in reverse, and it is understandable to say that you are fierce to your competitors, but what is the operation of yelling at an old customer?Besides, the young man just added a little more ingredients, and there was no extravagance. Open the door to do business, but also stingy door, a little bit of care, how to win the favor of customers?The boss thought that he was careful in his calculations, but in fact he cut off his own money, which can be said to be the loss of sesame seeds and watermelons. A young man who adds two extra spoonfuls of ingredients will not collapse the store, but a boss with a small pattern and no vision will soon collapse the store. 
The same thing happened in a Yuan Ji Yun dumpling shop in Guangzhou, except that the protagonist was replaced by a takeaway brother, not a customer. The little brother came to the store to pick up the food and found that the meal had not yet come out, so he rushed to other stores to pick up the food first, and returned to this Yuan Ji Yun dumpling shop soon after.
Unexpectedly, the meal was not served, the little brother was a little anxious, so he urged, but he didn't expect the clerk to directly ask the little brother to get out. Not only that, but he also insulted the little brother, and finally refused to eat. Afterwards, the little brother was also a little angry, and posted ** on the Internet, but he didn't expect to arouse the anger of netizens all of a sudden. Soon the store received 9,000 bad reviews and was forced to remove it from the shelves by the platform. 
Therefore, when you open the door to do business, you should be harmonious, and sometimes take a step back and be more tolerant of others will not lose anything, but will win a good reputation.
If you don't know how to back down, if you're lucky enough to meet some good-natured people, you may win for a while, but if you encounter hard stubble, you may have to put your life into it. Do you still remember the ** that happened in a noodle restaurant in Wuhan in 2017?On the day of the incident, the boss opened the door to do business as usual, and after a while, three young people came, and the accent was migrant workers.
The three of them ordered the cheapest somen noodles, and after a meal of gobbling up, they looked at the ** on the wall, a bowl of somen noodles cost 4 yuan, so they gave 12 yuan and planned to leave.
Unexpectedly, the boss stopped the three of them, and said that now prices are rising, and the bowl of somen is already 5 yuan. Among them, a young man named Hu was immediately very unhappy, obviously the ** table says 4 yuan, and you are now sitting on the ground and the starting price is 5 yuan. After listening to it, the boss said that he didn't have time to change the ** watch on the wall, and if he didn't raise the price, he would have to die.
The two began to quarrel over the money, which attracted other diners to look sideways.
Hu's two friends were a little uncomfortable, so they paid three more yuan to the boss. Originally, this was the end of the matter, but I didn't expect the boss to say that if you can't afford it, don't eat it. This sentence instantly angered Hu, and the two scuffled together, but Hu was weak and was not the boss's opponent.
So he found an opportunity to rush into the kitchen, picked up a kitchen knife and rushed out and slashed at the boss, who fell in a pool of blood in a short time. 
Again, taking a timely step back is not cowardice, but a kind of wisdom. Harmony can not only make money, but sometimes it can also save life!
The most taboo thing about getting along with people is to press step by step.
Because you never know which step the other party will take is a dead end, and once a person is forced to a dead end, he will become a beast. Life in the world, it is inevitable to deal with people, no matter when, we should remember a truth: harmony is precious, everything is prosperous.
Treat others with more tolerance and generosity, which is also a blessing for yourself. Be kind to others, although the blessing has not come, the disaster has been far away;Evil with people, although the disaster has not come, the blessing has been far away. 100 help plan