Intimacy is an integral part of human life, and it is inIn loveIn a relationship, there will be some awkwardness and confusion between couples as time goes on. Although the relationship has been confirmed, many people will find that with their imagination of "sweet."In love"Intimacy doesn't seem to be enough. From a change in salutation to a change in behavior, two people need to face a new identity and way of getting along together.
When a relationship is confirmed, many people feel awkward as they become closer to each other, but fall into an awkward situation where they don't know how to move forward. At this stage, it is no longer easy to exit the conversation, and the words become restrained, and there is a fear that the topic will be inappropriate and embarrassing. On the contrary, the ambiguous period allows us to speak freely and enjoy the pleasure of attracting each other in all aspects of our daily lives, hobbies, and emotional experiences. However, once you get into a relationship, it seems that all the things that should be talked about are finished, and you fall into a situation where there is no topic.
In order to overcome this awkwardness, the two can often make appointments to do things they like together, which can increase the opportunities for interaction and chat. In addition, you can try to add some romantic elements to the process of getting along to warm up the relationship. And for those who prefer to take it slowly, it takes more time and patience to get used to the intimacy. In this case, one party can act as a facilitator to grasp the progress and scale, and gradually guide the other party out of the comfort zone.
After the relationship is confirmed, there is also an increase in physical contact between the two, which to some extent marks the establishment of intimacy. However, even with more physical intimacy, it can still feel strange if the distance between the mind is not close enough. HumanEmotionis a complex process, and physical intimacy is not the sameEmotionof closeness. Therefore, after confirming the relationship, we cannot expect the relationship to develop and warm up further quickly.
In order to build a deeper oneEmotionIntimacy requires giving each other more time and space to create a strong connection. Sharing life's joys and difficulties is what buildsEmotionAn important avenue for intimacy. In addition to physical intimacy, spiritual communication and understanding should also be cultivated. By being honest about feelings andEmotion, as well as facing life's challenges together, the relationship between the two will be stronger and more intimate.
The awkward period after confirming a couple's relationship is normal, but it does not mean that there is a problem in the relationship. Rather, it is an inevitable stage in the development of a relationship. By slowly adjusting and adapting to your significant other, you can overcome this awkward period. Interact more, chat more, add romantic elements, give each other time and patience, and the relationship will gradually warm up and deepen.
In my personal experience, I have also experienced awkward periods after confirming my relationship with my boyfriend. At first, our conversation didn't seem as free and fluid as it was during the ambiguous period, and it lacked some sense of intimacy. But over time, we learned to slowly adjust and adapt, giving each other more understanding and support. Through participating in activities and constant communication together, our relationship gradually became closer and stronger. The awkward period is just a process, and as long as we maintain a positive attitude and continue to work hard, the relationship will become more and more intimate and fulfilling.
Therefore, I believe that instead of dwelling too much on the existence of awkward periods, it is better to put your heart into building an intimate and solid relationship. Only by giving each other time and patience, and truly understanding and supporting each other, can we get through the awkward period together and create a better future.