Interpersonal communication plays a crucial role in personal life, and regardless of one's educational background, it is difficult to achieve in society if one performs "failing" in dealing with others. ** Aware of this, especially the ability of children to deal with others.
In March 1946, ** suddenly summoned his son Mao Anying, who had just returned to China, and criticized him with a harsh attitude. **The reason why he was angry and criticized his son was related to Mao Anying's performance in Yan'an.
Mao Anying was born in 1922, as the eldest son of *** and Yang Kaihui, he naturally has a special status in ***'s heart. However, his childhood was full of ups and downs. When the situation in the country was changing, he and his mother were displaced to avoid being captured by the enemy. But unfortunately, in 1930, Yang Kaihui was captured by the enemy and finally died, leaving the young Mao Anying, who was brought to Shanghai by his maternal grandmother and handed over to Mao ** to take care of.
In Shanghai, the Mao Anying brothers faced many setbacks and difficulties. As the situation in the country becomes increasingly tense, Mao Anying lives in an environment that is neither safe nor has access to a good education. Therefore, when he was 14 years old, Li Du, the general of the Northeast Army, arranged for him to go to the Soviet Union, providing him with a relatively stable environment.
In the Soviet Union, Mao Anying excelled during her studies at the International Children's Home, and soon became the leader of the Young Pioneers, and in 1936 joined the Communist Youth League as branch secretary. In 1941, World War II broke out and the Soviet Union was invaded by German troops. Despite Mao Anying's request to join the army, according to Soviet regulations, Chinese children could not join the Soviet army. However, he was arranged to study at the Soviet Military Academy, and after graduation he became a lieutenant and became a lieutenant. Subsequently, he studied at the Frunze Military Academy and participated in the battles of Poland and the Czechs.
After the end of World War II in 1945, Mao Anying began to prepare to return to China, and finally returned to his motherland in January 1946. He specially invited the old comrades of Yan'an to come to his home to entertain and introduce his son to everyone.
Mao Anying lived in the Soviet Union for 10 years, which was a critical period for him to grow from a teenager to a young adult. He was completely accustomed to the way the Soviets interacted, and when he met his elders, he only addressed comrades, and was not used to traditional Chinese interpersonal relations. Aware of the problem, decided to talk to him.
**Remind Mao Anying that although the elders were called this way in the Soviet Union, now that they have returned to China, they should follow the traditional Chinese etiquette, respect the old and love the young, be polite, and should not call the elders by their names. He particularly stressed the need to follow the customs of the locals and follow the customs and habits of China.
Since then, Mao Anying has completely changed her address habits, which is quite surprising to everyone. In order to avoid overhighlighting his superiority in studying abroad, ** arranged for him to participate in labor activities in Yan'an many times, experience rural life, and understand the people's way of thinking and living conditions.