Dong Mingying is a beautiful girl who needs to wear two pairs of shoes to walk because of her physical deformity.
Maybe she was not favored by fate, but she did not bow to fate, but was positive and optimistic about life, and determined to make her life wonderful.
At the age of 23, she bravely searched for her happiness and married an "old bachelor" who was 22 years older than her, despite her family's dissuasion.
After she got married, she didn't care about her life and gave birth to two children one after another.
Dong Mingying has spent 13 years, is the life of the "crawling girl" happy?How is she doing at the moment?
Get married and start a family.
Ms. Dong married Ms. Fung in 2008, 45, when she was just 23 years old.
The wedding of the couple attracted a lot of attention because the groom was 22 years older than the bride and he was a poor bachelor. In contrast, the bride is a disabled person with limited mobility.
Her parents have always worried that Dong Mingying will have no one to take care of her as an adult, so they hope that she can find a good family.
Dong Mingying has been introduced to several blind dates, but due to various reasons, they have not been successful. Relatives and matchmakers are involved.
After Feng Zhiyu heard about Dong Mingying's situation, he took the initiative to come to the door, hoping to try to contact her. Feng Zhiyu, who was from the next village, was very interested in Dong Mingying's situation, so he wanted to be able to communicate with her.
Feng Zhiyu has four brothers in his family, and he is honest and reliable, and he is very capable. For a number of specific reasons, he has not yet married.
Feng Zhiyu took the initiative to come to the door, but Dong Mingying did not resist because of his age and family situation.
Although Dong Mingying has always cherished a yearning for a better life and maintains a positive and optimistic attitude, she knows that considering her own situation, it is not easy to marry a man of a similar age and good health.
She didn't want to be dependent on her parents for the rest of her life, and this thought became stronger as her parents got older.
Feng Zhiyu not only has a good character, but also often goes to her house to help do some things, never publicizes or brags, and helps to do things in obscurity every time.
After a period of getting along, Dong Mingying gradually discovered that although Feng Zhiyu was old, he was honest and capable, and he was a reliable partner, and she felt that he did not dislike her in the slightest.
She then discussed her marriage with her parents and agreed to Feng Zhiyu's marriage proposal.
However, due to Feng Zhiyu's age, his parents thought that he was good enough to be Dong Mingying's father, so they were opposed at first.
Although Dong Mingying is physically disabled, her parents did not plan to let her marry casually.
However, because he saw his daughter's willingness and his contact with Feng Zhiyu, he felt that this person was indeed good. In the end, out of guilt for his daughter, he agreed to his daughter's marriage.
After getting married, Dong Mingying relied on handicrafts to subsidize the family, and despite her limited mobility, she still devoted herself to household chores, including laundry, cooking and other activities.
Feng Zhiyu does odd jobs outside every day to make money, and the two support each other after they get married, Dong Mingying carries him out to work, he stays at home, and they live an ordinary and happy life.
Because Dong Mingying herself has a soft spot for children, she also looks forward to being able to get married and have children like ordinary people and enjoy the life of a happy family.
So, she discussed with her husband and decided to go to the hospital to consult about the possibility of childbirth.
Despite this, doctors do not recommend Dong Mingying to have children.
Although she has the ability to conceive normally, due to Dong Mingying's weakness in the waist, there may be a huge risk during childbirth.
Dong Mingzhu was not afraid, she bravely insisted on her ideas, and as a result, she successfully ushered in the birth of a daughter a year after marriage.
After the birth of her daughter, she and her husband took care of her and kept her healthy and strong. It wasn't until 2012 that they welcomed another daughter.
Some people may be curious, what is Dong Mingying's physical condition, and isn't she worried that her child will have a similar disease when she gives birth?
Dong Mingying's disability is not innate, this is a fact.
A twist of fate.
Dong Mingying was born in 1985 in an ordinary rural family in Rizhao City, Shandong Province.
Although his parents relied on farming for a living, and he had an older sister at home, although the family was not wealthy, the whole family still lived happily.
When Dong Mingying was less than a year old, she was actually no different from ordinary people, but unfortunately, a cold directly changed the fate of her entire life.
In the middle of the night after catching a cold, I suddenly developed a high fever, and my whole body was red as if I had been burned.
Her parents hurriedly took her to the village health center for medical treatment, and the doctor found that Dong Mingying had a serious fever, so he injected her with a fever-reducing injection.
Soon after, Dong Mingying's body temperature began to drop gradually, so her parents did not take her to a major hospital for examination.
However, since then, Dong Mingying's liveliness has declined, and people her age have gradually learned to walk, while she can't even sit, and every time she sits, her waist will lean forward, as if there is no bone to support her.
Dong Mingying's parents initially thought she was growing slowly, and it wasn't until she was more than three years old that she couldn't walk, that they began to suspect that something was wrong and took her to the hospital for a check-up.
After a detailed examination and questioning, the doctor guessed that it was likely that Dong Mingying's high fever when she was more than a year old caused serious damage to her lower back nerves.
However, due to the late examination and the limited level of medical care at the time, it was almost impossible to completely ** and required a huge amount of money.
The doctor's words dealt a heavy blow to his parents and Dong Mingying, who were very annoyed that if they had been more careful at that time, maybe there would not have been such a result.
My parents sought medical attention, but each time they received the same answer.
Because the family was not wealthy, after a long time, he had to take his daughter home.
Dong Mingying's waist and legs were unable to exert force, resulting in the inability to walk normally. She was unwilling to lie in bed all the time, so she gradually began to "crawl" with her hands.
Dong Mingying's hands were covered with blood blisters due to a long time of "crawling", and her parents were very distressed when they saw it, so they bought her a pair of shoes specially put on her hands.
Although her walking posture seemed strange to others, because she was still young, she didn't feel any different from others, and she didn't cry because of it.
Dong Mingying's sensible behavior made people feel distressed, she didn't want to cause trouble to her parents, so she tried her best to learn life skills such as dressing and eating independently.
Soon Dong Mingying reached the age suitable for school, although the family conditions were not good, and her physical condition was not good, her parents did not prevent her from going to school.
Every day, Dong Mingying's parents had to carry her on their backs for two kilometers to take her to school and pick her up from school because she could not walk herself. The school is near her home.
Her older sister would carry her on her back or push her to and from school, only when her parents were too busy to spare time.
When his younger brother grows up, he will also help his parents and eldest sister share responsibilities, and sometimes carry Dong Mingying to school behind his back.
When she was in school, her classmates did not look at her differently because of her special circumstances, but often helped her.
However, by the time the children enter fourth grade, the family burden can no longer afford to have three children attending school at the same time.
Dong Mingying's sensible behavior made her see her parents' embarrassment, so she offered to withdraw from school in order to give her sister and younger brother the opportunity to go to school.
After Dong Mingying dropped out of school, she did not completely give up reading, she often read and studied by herself at home, and her parents also bought her some books.
She also took the initiative to help her parents with housework, and in her spare time, she watched her parents cook and do laundry to continue learning.
In order to ease the burden on her family, she also learned handicrafts and made money from the items she made.
As an adult, it was because of her experience that she was able to accomplish many things on her own.
Unremitting struggle, hard work.
As Dong Mingying's two children grow up and family expenses continue to increase, although she receives subsidies from relevant departments and her husband has been working outside, her life is still quite poor.
However, just when they were feeling anxious, a turning point suddenly appeared.
In 2020, Dong Mingying's life was photographed by others as ** and uploaded to the Internet, which unexpectedly caused her to become popular.
Many netizens expressed sympathy after seeing Dong Mingying's experience and wanted to donate money for her, but she resolutely refused and decided to make money by making short **.
At first, some people just ** Dong Mingzhu out of curiosity about her special walking posture, but as time went by, her strong and optimistic attitude attracted many netizens to become fans.
Dong Mingying has shown a very strong ability in learning, and he has done a very good job in both short ** and live broadcasts, attracting 130,000 new fans in just two months.
Dong Mingzhu showed her daily life in **, she sang and constantly encouraged netizens.
Her short ** name is "Big Beauty in Two Pairs of Shoes", two of which truly show her walking posture, and "Big Beauty" represents her hope to live a wonderful and gorgeous life!
After Dong Mingying had fans, he did not forget to give back to the society. In her live broadcast, the goods sold are all ** discounted, good quality and low price, and most of them also come from the handicrafts of other disabled people, or local agricultural products.
Dong Mingying now has more than 200,000 fans, all thanks to the results of her continuous efforts, and her positive and optimistic attitude towards life is also admirable.
Not only is she able to do this, but she has also volunteered to join the local volunteer association, constantly using her talents to help more disadvantaged groups.
The eight words embodied in Dong Mingying's live broadcast are: "self-improvement, hard work", which aptly interprets her spiritual quality.
Although Dong Mingying is not in good health, her spirit and soul show amazing strength.
She keeps working hard, relying on herself, and living a full and beautiful life!
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