In "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life", the main line Gu Weilin's school, the secondary line Gu Xiao Sansan and Yin Xi Jinshi, these three couples have different personalities, different attitudes towards life, and different life Xi.
This is especially true in terms of how to deal with people and love, and what I share with you today is the love outlook of these three couples and the direction of getting along with couples.
In "The Rest of My Life", Sansan and Gu Xiao can be said to have accompanied Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei together, starting from the first episode to the last episode, interspersed with the emotional lines of the two, but they also played a vital role in several major emotional turns between Gu Wei and Xiaoxiao.
1. First meeting: Pulling a friend (cousin) to a bar is the beginning of the most important relationship in life
After returning to China, the returnee Sansan directly asked his girlfriends to get together at the bar, and at the same time, Gu Xiao also asked his cousin Gu Wei to come to the bar to relax on the grounds of his birthday.
A few people would never have thought that they would meet their own "true love" and their life partner at the same time on this day and in this environment!
2. People of the same kind: The game life begins, and the career and love end with a bumper harvest
I have to say that Gu Xiao and Sansan have similarities in both family background and resume. Sansan briefly talked about finding a job when she communicated with her family after returning to China, from which it is not difficult to see that Sansan's family is also doing business, and she was allowed to study abroad before, giving her a very free living space.
Now that Sansan has returned to China, she doesn't want to be involved in her family's business, and wants to go alone and "apply what she has learned" in her own way, and the family's business may also be difficult to operate, which makes her more independent and doesn't want to rely on her family anymore.
Gu Xiao's father was also a businessman. On weekdays, he is busy and does not care much about Gu Xiao, which makes him full of resentment. Gu Xiao once said that his father threw him to Australia for five years. Since I was a child, I have seen ...... twice a yearSo Gu Xiao has a deep grudge against his father!
Both of them grew up in a business family, and it can be said that they have no worries about food and clothing, endless enjoyment of eating, drinking, and having an assertive personality, and they have received an open education abroad, which is probably related to the emotional problems of their parents at home, right?They are also more casual in their approach to their feelings than ordinary people.
One is a perennial bar, with a large group of rich children clubbing friends, and at the same time with multiple girls ambiguous relationships;One is a charming goddess with rich experience in love, a good figure and a beautiful face, who sees through men's flirting methods and excuses and lies.
Aquaman meets, attracts each other, and the unwilling desire to conquer finally falls into the heart in the process, ending the game life and becoming an inspirational story. The mode of getting along between the two is quietly profound in this "impropriety" of "both true and false", and they are lost in love and lose their hearts
In the heart of the school, the feelings of her best friend Yin Xi are the most envied by her, Yin Xi and Jin Shi can be said to be childhood sweethearts, and the two have grown up together and accompanied each other all the way. Any classmates and friends who know them know the fact that they are a couple, and even the teaching director Mr. Lin, who has always been serious and rigid, knows about the relationship between the two and supports them.
The school is very envious of the relationship between Yin Xi and Jin Shi, and feels that the relationship between the two is long and sweet, and it can be said that she has witnessed it all the way, so when the relationship between Yin Xi and Jin Shi has problems, the school is the most shocked and unbelievable. Even after the two broke up, the school once questioned whether love could last for a long time.
The love of the seal is a little girl's fancy show of affection, tired of being together all day long, completely dominated by their own ideas, sending a circle of friends to card points together, waiting for her to enter the classroom together in class, taking pictures to a variety of intimate and sweet poses, wearing couple clothes together every day, anniversaries or any special circumstances to have a sense of ritual ......
In fact, these practices are not impossible to do, but it depends on whether the man has the same wishes and interests. The main reason why Jin Shi lied and got together with friends was that he felt that he had no space, and even if he told Yin Xi the truth, he would not agree to him going, so he would lie. Although the approach was wrong, it could also be seen that he was helpless, such a situation was by no means an accident or two, as can be seen from what his friend said when he invited and the words of persuasion when the two quarreled.
The love of the seal makes Jin Shi feel a kind of forced constraint, there is no space of his own, and he is not allowed to refute, otherwise he will not love her. Loving each other is not about being alone and leaving no gaps, and it is not about always focusing on form. Although the two broke up in the play, they were still reluctant to give up on each other, Yin Xi refused to talk about it at the moment, and Jin Shi also went to have a good chat many times after careful consideration. It can be seen that the two have each other in their hearts, and they are not willing to give up this feeling, although in the end it is not exactly stated whether they are reconciled, but if the problem is not solved, it will inevitably become an inevitable emotional challenge for the two!
The school's two best friends: Sansan and Yinxi.
In her mind, love is strange, she neither has the rich emotional experience of Sansan, nor does Sansan handle feelings with ease. And the principles and styles of doing things are different from those of the school and Sansan, so there is no place to learn from in the way of love.
On the other hand, the relationship between the seal and the golden stone is long and deep, and in everyone's opinion, they are tired of being together all the time, and they are very loving and romantic. Therefore, after the school initially confirmed the relationship with Gu Wei, it used Yinxi's love method as a reference.
In addition to the most common couples to eat and watch movies, the school also bought a couple shirt online, wanting Gu Wei to post a circle of friends and eat couple noodles, although the school was a little disappointed after Gu Wei refused to cooperate, she still understood Gu Wei's thoughts and respected his approach. And some small interactions such as Polaroid did add many sweet moments between the school and Gu Wei.
In the early days of love, the school and Gu Wei are moving forward in the run-in, and the two people who have never been in love are also seeking their own way of falling in love and getting along.
The three couples all have their own different personalities and characteristics, no need to emulate others, no need for others to empathize, simply be yourself, find your own way of love, and seek a balance of integration with your partner, which is the most important thing
"For the rest of your life, please advise me".Adapted from the popular writer of Jinjiang Literature City, Berlin stonemasonNamesake **。**After it was listed that year, because of the down-to-earth protagonist characterRomantic and sweet love life, which has aroused heated discussions on the whole network, and has sold more than 600,000 copiesFirmly at the top of the book list.
This ** is adoptedDiary form,Record what she sees, hears, experiences and feels from the perspective of the heroine. Carefully unfold her and the male protagonist Dr. Wei fromMeet, know, love each other and stay together, which makes it natural for people to have a sense of love and marriageA beautiful yearning.
This is a very warm ** that makes people read, plain and simple, butIt's unstoppable, and it's touchingpower.
The story is written very realistically, especially the operation plan after the heroine's father was hospitalized due to illness and the ** plan in the later stage, and then to the maintenance plan after discharge. It feels like what's happening around us, and it warms us very much.
It is impossible for everyone to have smooth sailing in their relationship, and Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao have maintained respect and honesty with each other throughout this relationship.
I think that's what love is supposed to be.
In real life, lovers often break up in the run-in and bits and pieces day after dayDiscouraged and cold-hearted。Love without respect and honesty is like a bowl of raw rice, food hurts the body, it is a pity to abandon it
Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei started in the relationship between a doctor and a patient's family, and they didn't love and kill each other, it was simpleMeet the right person at the right time.
Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao are ordinary, work, love, marriage, every day over and over again, trivial family matters. They are like us, on ordinary daysStep by stepThe earth is alive.
They are both good at expressing their feelings, but their feelings are just right. Because they think about each other, love deeply but don't dote on each other, and they are managing this relationship with their hearts.
The same is true of the protagonists in the book, who have also had misunderstandings and quarrels with each other. But they all know how to be themselves first, and strive to make themselves a suitable other half in love, they understand and understand each other, and they live happily together.
There are so many things in this world that you need to understand that when you choose something, you have to give up something. A good life is nothing more than looking back on the past and seeing one step at a time, and looking forward to the future to see one goal after another.
Even though this book is a romance book, it writes about what love really looks like.
Please advise us for the rest of your life" conveys to us a kind of love that is plain, but still full of affectionate water. It's not that there is only one kind of love, but this kind of love is enough to move me a lot.
This bookIt encapsulates many of my views and expectations about love and marriage, After reading it, I actually have a heart of envy, and I strongly recommend it to sistersGet this book!
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