The second phase of Project Stellar
Time is coming, we will finally be relieved, live healthily, live peacefully, smile happily, and be busy appropriately, just fine.I'm a perfectionist.
It is a person who is very demanding of himself.
This is fully evidenced by so many years of study.
I have gained a lot from this kind of character.
I thought that to do everything was to love myself.
But is such a character perfect?Am I really happy and comfortable?
Mom always told me not to be so serious.
Allow yourself to be ordinary.
- Give yourself some right to love yourself.
When I really became an adult, when work and life became a load on my own shoulders, I understood
"Perfection is the enemy of happiness. ”
I worked meticulously, lived with a bare face, and turned everything into"Should do".
When I don't push myself so hard, I can turn some of things into it"want to do".
And the difference between the two is the space in which you love yourself.
Things may not come to fruition quickly, but all the experiences in the process have taught us to think more rationally about life and how to face everything in the future.
Give yourself permission to change.
- Give yourself some space to love yourself.
In addition to work, we should allow ourselves to have special time for resting, chatting, being in a daze, watching the news, eating, drinking and having fun.
Allow yourself to have periods of tiredness.
Allow yourself to take occasional breaks as you climb the mountain of life.
Sometimes you think of yourself as an adult, but sometimes you can think of yourself as a child. Children don't have to worry so much, they can have delicious food.
Yes, without every step taken in the past, there would be nothing today, and without every step taken today, there would be no countless steps in the future. In the experience of life, every step is interlinked.
But your experience will accumulate, your personality will metamorphose, and your cognition will be broadened.
Looking at the present day from a further future, we will feel that every experience in the present is precious, whether it is good or bad.
Life is a long marathon, and only by running it slowly and smoothly will you win.
Give yourself permission to walk slowly.
- Give yourself some time to love yourself.
Life is about experience.
This sentence enlightens us—
Life is about accepting all kinds of experiences, which can be good or bad.
The same is true of people.
We should strive to accept all kinds of ourselves, no matter what kind of self we are walking on the long road of life.
Allow yourself to be yourself.
- Give yourself some opportunities to love yourself.
How to love yourself?There is no one-size-fits-all method, there is the power you keep accumulating.