In the process of searching for his son, Xie Qingshuai's father Xie Kefeng fell to such a humble point and was forced to kneel down to ask for help, which profoundly shows what sacrifices a father can make for his children. This deep fatherly love is touching and makes people think about how selfless the love of parents is, and the effort and sweat they put into us cannot be expressed in words. In this story, a ** became the origin of understanding Qingshuai's reunion with his relatives. When Xie Qingshuai saw this **, he may have been touched by an emotion, or perhaps because the experience of finding a son made him cherish his family affection even more. Whatever the reason, this ** became a bridge of emotional connection between him and his parents, allowing him to feel the warmth of the family. This story tells us that family affection is one of the most basic emotional needs of human beings, and everyone needs a family to support their growth. In the pursuit of dreams and success, we cannot ignore the importance of family and family. If we do not cherish family and affection, our success and achievements will be empty and empty. In the story, Xie Qingshuai mentions his adoptive grandparents three times.
This shows that in many families in China, grandparents play an important role, they are usually the backbone of the family, and they support the whole family with their lives and energy. We must not forget the elderly in our families, and we should respect them, love them, and pass on their values and ideas. In this story, we see the power of affection, which is one of the most important treasures in our lives. We should cherish affection and family, and be grateful and respectful to those who support us. I believe that only in this way can we better pursue our dreams and goals and move towards a brighter future. Title: A boy's inner choice: his adoptive grandparents or his biological parentsXie Qingshuai, a boy who has been raised by traffickers for 26 years, faced a difficult choice after recognizing his relatives. He has to take care of his grandparents and face the presence of his biological parents. His heart is full of contradictions and distractions, and this is a multiple-choice question that is hidden deep in his heart. From the first appearance of Xie Qingshuai, his every move has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions. Behind the scenes, his heart is experiencing a violent turmoil.
The grandparents who support the family are the closest people in his life, and they are also the pillars he relies on and relies on. However, the existence of his biological parents caused deep entanglement and confusion in his heart. After returning to Sichuan, Xie Qingshuai sent a short **, promising to take care of the grandparents who raised the family. This is a touching move, and his filial piety is touching. However, when he was asked about his grandparents who raised the family in the connection with the host Tu Lei, he lowered his head. His hesitations and contradictions are on full display. On this issue, Xie Qingshuai is faced with a difficult choice. On the one hand, he has the emotional bond of his adoptive grandparents, who raised and educated him to grow up, and gave him the warmth and love of life. On the other hand, the presence of his biological parents filled his heart with strife. The biological parents and the buyer are incompatible, and the contradictions and complicated relationships between them make Xie Qingshuai fall into deep confusion. Xie Qingshuai's father, Xie Kefeng, said that no matter who the buyer is, he will always hate the buyer. This sentence revealed the hatred and pain in his heart. In this contradictory and tangled situation, it is difficult for Xie Qingshuai to choose which side to take. In his heart, he not only has gratitude and responsibility for his adoptive grandparents, but also has understanding and sympathy for his biological parents.
This is a multiple-choice question full of contradictions and struggles. Xie Qingshuai's action of kneeling down to apologize to his parents when worshipping his ancestors aroused the doubts and confusion of many netizens. Some people questioned why he apologized when Xie Qingshuai was stolen when he was three months old, and he didn't know anything at the time?In fact, Xie Qingshuai's "I'm sorry" was not aimed at the past, but touched the softness and understanding in his heart. Between his adoptive grandparents and his biological parents, his heart changed. He realized that the words he had said about raising his grandparents might have hurt the hearts of his biological parents. That's why he said "I'm sorry" and tried to make up for his mistakes. Xie Qingshuai's choice dilemma has sparked fierce controversy on the Internet. Some people believe that the grandparents who support the family are his relatives and should be grateful and filial to them;And some people believe that Xie Qingshuai's biological parents did not participate in the purchase of children, and they also suffered a lot of hardships, and they should be understood and forgiven. There is no standard answer to this question, and everyone has their own opinions and feelings. Faced with this choice, it is not easy to relieve Qingshuai. He needs time and space to think and decide. In his heart, he has both gratitude and responsibility for his adoptive grandparents, as well as understanding and sympathy for his biological parents.
It was a challenging and testing process, and he needed to find a path that would balance the interests of all parties. No matter what choice Xie Qingshuai makes in the end, we should understand and support him. This choice is a lifelong and well-being choice, and it takes time for him to think carefully and weigh the pros and cons. Whether he chooses to associate with his adoptive family or reconcile with his biological parents, we should respect his decision and give him adequate support and understanding. Xie Qingshuai is faced with a difficult choice, he needs to find a balance and answer between his grandparents and his biological parents. It was a challenging and testing process, and it took him time to think and decide. We should give him enough understanding and support so that he can find a true home in his heart. Whatever choice he ultimately makes, we should respect and support his decision. Recently, a missing person notice called "Looking for Du Xiaohua" has attracted the attention of netizens, which mentions the story of an abducted child Xie Qingshuai who was bought and raised. Many netizens believe that buying and selling is the same crime, and adoptive parents should also be condemned. And for Xie Qingshuai's adoptive parents, that is, his grandparents, should they be held responsible?
In my opinion, Xie Qingshuai's adoptive grandparents did make mistakes. Although they were not directly involved in the sale of children, they concealed the truth about Qingshuai's abduction and trafficking, which is a crime of covering. Moreover, after the death of Xie Qingshuai's adoptive father, they did not take the child to find his biological parents, which is also an oversight. However, we can't ignore that Xie Qingshuai's adoptive grandparents also gave the child a warmth and love. They regarded Xie Qingshuai as their grandson and provided him with a stable family environment and living security. This cannot be denied. For netizens' questions, is it still necessary for Xie Qingshuai to interact with the grandparents who raise the family?In my view, this needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. If the child already knows his life experience, and the grandparents who are raising the family do not fulfill their responsibilities and do not give the child a satisfactory explanation, then the child can completely cut off contact with them. However, if the child is not yet aware of their origins, or if they have developed a strong relationship with the grandparents who are raising the family, then consider continuing to keep in touch. In short, we need to look at this event with a calm mind.
While buying and selling human beings is unethical, we cannot blame all the blame on the grandparents who adopted the children out of kindness. Most importantly, we need to protect the rights and interests of every child and allow them to find their biological parents and return to normal family life as much as possible.