The tradition of the cemetery "Tombstones cannot be erected casually" pays attention to revealing secrets and avoiding misunderstandings
The erection of the monument is people's remembrance of their ancestors. In the long history of human civilization, the erection of monuments has always been regarded as a way of respecting and remembering. The monument not only records the life deeds of the deceased, but also expresses people's gratitude and nostalgia.
In modern society, erecting monuments is also a way to express emotions and messages. The tombstone of the deceased records the name of the deceased, the date of birth and death, the biography, family, relatives and friends, and other information of the deceased. This information can help future generations better understand the life of the deceased and better understand the family history and cultural traditions.
Most importantly, you need to pay attention to the form and material of the tombstone. In traditional Chinese culture, the shape of a tombstone is usually rectangular or square, expressed"Heaven and man are one"The meaning is that the soul and body of the deceased return to nature and live in harmony with heaven and earth. The material of the tombstone is generally stone, which means"Centuries to come", indicating that the life deeds of the deceased will be passed down forever.
Secondly, also pay attention to the content of the tombstone. In traditional Chinese culture, tombstones are usually engraved with the deceased's name, date of birth and death, life deeds, family relations, etc., which is not only a means to record the life of the deceased, but also an important way to inherit family culture. The text on the tombstone should be upright, clear, and easy to read, but not too large or too small. At the same time, the text should be solemn, solemn, and concise, expressing respect for the deceased.
In addition, there are some specific instructions and regulations for different regions. For example, in some places, tombstones are carved with patterns to bless the soul of the deceased. In short, the placement of tombstones should not only pay attention to etiquette and cultural inheritance, but also reflect respect and respect for the deceased.
Unfilial people: We all know that filial piety is very important, if a person does not honor his parents before his death, or even behaves badly, then he can be considered an unfilial person, and he cannot set a tombstone for him.
People who died bizarrely: If a person's cause of death cannot be determined, or if the cause of death is unusual, this situation is often considered in traditional culture"The cause of death is unknown"In the past, it was not possible to erect a tombstone.
People who hang themselves In ancient times, it was widely believed that hanging oneself would bring great shame to the family. Therefore, a person who hangs himself is considered unclean and cannot have a tombstone erected for him.
No heirs: In traditional Chinese culture, the continuation of the family is very important, so if a person has no heirs during his lifetime, he cannot have a tombstone for him. Criminals: Ancient laws state that some criminals cannot be buried in the ground, that is, they cannot be given tombstones.
The value and importance of erecting monuments should be viewed not only from the point of view of material and form, but also from the point of view of spiritual transmission and enlightenment. Whether it is traditional culture or modern society, we must nurture life, respect ancestors, inherit culture, inspire future generations, and inject more positive energy into our future.
Conclusion: We should also look at the issue of erecting monuments rationally. In life, it is rare for the deceased to meet certain conditions before a tombstone can be erected. Therefore, everyone has the right to erect a tombstone. In addition, we should also know how to deal with the remnants of traditional culture. The best way to understand it is to take the best of it and remove the dross. What do you think of this monument?We are waiting for you to leave a message in the comment area below to discuss.