Sometimes, love is like a drama where everyone is a character, but there are also writers and directors behind the scenes. In my life, I was not only a character, but also forced to be an emotional problem solver. This story is about me and my best friend Tian Wan, as well as her boyfriend Ke Hao's twists and turns.
Again and again, I listened to Tian Wan say that she was going to break up with Ke Hao, and then watched them reconcile again and again. This time, Tian Wan angrily decided to break up because Ke Hao was unwilling to officially announce their relationship on social **. She felt that this was a sign of unlove. I, as her military advisor, listened to her and looked at their chat records, and I felt exhausted in my heart.
But this time, things have taken a turn for the better. I finally couldn't help but have a showdown with Ke Hao and told him that I couldn't stand this kind of analysis and entanglement anymore. Ke Hao unexpectedly gave me a chance, his military advisor Xie Yuan.
The conversation with Xie Yuan made me understand that Ke Hao was actually reluctant to disclose their relationship because he was jealous. This little thing, which could have been explained simply, brought the relationship between the two people to an impasse. I explained it to them, and things seemed to ease.
This incident made me realize that many times, emotional problems are not because of big things, but because of small things piling up, misunderstandings due to poor communication. The key to solving this kind of problem is to open the knot and communicate openly.
Later, the four of us had a late-night snack together. Xie Yuan, a seemingly unruly cool brother, is actually very careful and good at dealing with emotional problems. Our time together, though brief, was unexpectedly pleasant.
That night, because of a small traffic accident, Xie Yuan and I had to make do with the hotel overnight. Xie Yuan booked two rooms, reflecting his care and respect. When we checked out the next day, we unexpectedly met Tian Wan and Ke Hao. Tian Wan's eyes were full of ridicule, as if to say, "What's wrong with you?"”
It dawned on me that when we solve other people's emotional problems, we may also encounter our own emotional stories. Xie Yuan and I, from military advisors to possible friends, and even more. It's all an accident, but it's also the charm of life.
Therefore, love is not just a matter of two people, sometimes it is related to more people and emotions. In this story, we not only helped Tian Wan and Ke Hao solve the problem, but also allowed ourselves to find new possibilities. Love requires communication, understanding, and sometimes, a little risk-taking and trying.
That's my story, and maybe you've had a similar experience. Remember, when love encounters problems, it is not difficult to solve them, the key is to dare to face them and be willing to communicate. And in the process, who knows, you may encounter unexpected surprises.