When it comes to the name Ni Ping, I believe everyone will be familiar with it.
She stepped into the audience's field of vision with the film "Female Soldier", and since then she has started her 43-year acting career.
In the 43 years of hard work in the entertainment industry, Ni Ping has experienced successes and failures, won awards and falls, but no matter whether her career takes off or goes low, her love life has been bumpy.
Ni Ping was handsome and talented when she was young, and once hosted the Spring Festival Gala, so she was widely loved by men.
Even Zhao Benshan once bluntly said that she was his "dream lover".
Why does this glamorous goddess of the entertainment industry seem to be calm in love and marriage, but she has repeatedly suffered setbacks?
Ni Ping has experienced five relationships and three marriages, first with the famous comedy sketch actor Guo Da, and later with the international director Chen Kaige, but why did she fail to achieve a positive result with them in the end?
In the interview, the reporter asked, "If there was an afterlife, how would you choose to spend it?"”
If there is an afterlife, I would rather have no parents and no family, and I just want to live alone.
Ni Ping, who is over fifty years old, responded in the following way.
Ni Ping is not only a host and actress, she is also known for her excellent literary works and is known as an outstanding writer. She won the Bingxin Prose Award for "Grandma's Quotations".
When mentioning Ni Ping's book, it is necessary to mention her broken family and not so happy childhood. Ni Ping's later twists and turns in her emotional experience are closely related to her upbringing.
Ni Ping was born in 1959 in Weihai, Shandong Province, to a family that valued boys and ignored girls.
Ni Ping did not receive the love of her parents when she was a child, on the contrary, her parents loved her brother even more, because they valued boys and despised girls. In such a lack of care, the young Ni Ping was sent to live at her grandmother's house in the countryside and was taken care of by her grandmother.
Objectively speaking, Ni Ping's life at her grandmother's house is much better than in her own home.
Ni Ping's brother was above her, and their parents had a very difficult time raising two children under the difficult conditions of those days. The boy always gives priority, the elder brother is white and chubby, while the little Ni Ping is often hungry.
In the process of her parents taking care of her "caring child", the young Ni Ping gradually developed malnutrition, and even fainted when she often walked.
Ni Ping's grandmother was furious when she learned of the situation, and immediately rushed from the countryside to take Ni Ping away, and decided to take responsibility for raising her personally. All this is because a kind neighbor couldn't stand it and took the initiative to tell grandma.
Ni Ping was sent to the countryside when she was only two years old, leaving her parents, brother and grandmother, and living there alone. This little girl, who has just been born for two years, is in the stage when she needs the most maternal love and nourishment, but she is been"Banishment"to the countryside.
Little Ni Ping spent a stable and happy childhood in the countryside, and her grandmother loved her as much as she could. In order to make Xiao Ni Ping's health better, her grandmother even did not hesitate to sell the silver bracelet she married when she got married, which was used to exchange for eggs to supplement Xiao Ni Ping's nutrition.
Under the care of her grandmother, Ni Ping's health gradually became stronger.
When Ni Ping was 6 years old, she started school. In order to be able to receive a better education, she had to leave her grandmother and return to her parents. However, the time to reunite with her parents did not last long, and soon, Ni Ping's parents got tired of the disharmony and strife between each other, and finally chose to divorce.
The elder brother and Ni Ping followed their mother back to their grandmother's house, and it was only there that Ni Ping regained her vitality.
In the following childhood years, Ni Ping was rarely able to see her father in her daily life.
Her mother often instilled negative information about her father in Ni Ping, which caused Ni Ping to have a disgust for her father. To a certain extent, this also contributed to the major decision that Ni Ping made after graduating from university.
Ni Ping was admitted to Shandong Art Institute in 1979, and this motivated girl immediately began to change her surname after being admitted to university.
She has lacked fatherly love since she was a child, so she does not want to have any contact with her father anymore.
From this incident, it can also be seen that Ni Ping is a very subjective and assertive person, and she has a perseverance and unyielding temperament, which is destined for her to have an extraordinary life.
When Ni Ping was a sophomore, director Chen Ying chose her to star in her first movie "Mountain Chrysanthemum", which made Ni Ping begin to attract public attention. is also this work, Ni Ping won the Hundred Flowers Award, thus becoming a new actress.
After graduation, Ni Ping was arranged to work at the Shandong Provincial Drama Theater.
The young Ni Ping is like standing on a springboard, not only was she rated as a national outstanding actor during this time, but also starred in more excellent works, which laid the foundation for her future hosting career.
In 1987, Ni Ping was introduced by a colleague in the Drama Theater and met the gentleman who was the instructor of the evening party at Qingdao TV at that time.
After meeting, the teacher praised Ni Ping's image and performance ability, and finally decided to let her temporarily serve as the host of the Spring Festival Gala of Shandong TV.
She will usher in the most glorious period of her career, and this is her first time hosting the Spring Festival Gala, but it will never be the last.
Ni Ping transformed into a host the following year, began to host some CCTV programs, and participated in several films, achieving great success and winning several important awards in this new career.
This can be said to be the pinnacle of Ni Ping's career, and she has achieved great success.
Ni Ping has shown a very strong learning ability and dedication, whether as an actress or a host, she can show an extraordinary level, which may also be due to her perseverance. This is also reflected in her performance.
Ni Ping didn't embark on the road of hosting until she was thirty years old, but she quickly achieved great things. In the Spring Festival of 1990, she officially joined CCTV and participated in the hosting of the Spring Festival Gala that year.
When Ni Ping first appeared on stage, an unexpected accident happened to her. However, the accident did not affect her career, on the contrary, it proved her professional ability and made her famous in one fell swoop.
That night, what was supposed to be delivered to Ni Ping were four telegrams with congratulatory words written on them, but they turned out to be four blank pieces of paper!
In front of the camera of the national live broadcast, Ni Ping faced four blank sheets of paper, but did not panic at all, and told the "He Chun speeches from all over the world" with a passionate performance.
Ni Ping's excellent on-the-spot adaptability made people unaware of the accident, and only the director felt abnormal in the studio.
The director burst into tears after Ni Ping**, hugged her excitedly, and said: "You saved this Spring Festival Gala!."”
The audience called the scene broadcast by Ni Ping "a famous scene of saving the scene", which is also a recognition of Ni Ping, indicating that everyone has unanimously appreciated her excellent professional level.
Ni Ping shines on the CCTV stage, which is her continuous state for more than ten years from the age of 30 to 40.
She was once known as the "first sister of CCTV", but only ten years later, she left the stage that had given her countless honors.
Ni Ping's first relationship can be regarded as a wish.
The two who met at the Shandong Drama Theater had similar interests, and finally entered the palace of marriage and had a daughter. The life of their family of three can be said to be very happy.
However, when Ni Ping decided to go to Beijing for further study, this "positive result" became confusing, because her husband did not approve of her leaving her hometown to work in Beijing.
Perhaps in the eyes of that man, Ni Ping's career is far less important than the happy life of the family, but Ni Ping's ambitious ambition and rich talent doomed her to not be satisfied with a lifetime of obscurity in the theater.
Resolutely, Ni Ping went to Beijing alone.
As Ni Ping's career was booming, she received a letter from her husband in her hometown in Shandong, which ended her already precarious marriage and led to her daughter being taken away by her husband.
Despite such changes, Ni Ping's dedication was not affected, and she still firmly chose to fight alone in CCTV.
Soon after, Ni Ping ushered in the second relationship in her life in this place she has always missed.
Ni Ping met the comedian Guo Da because of her work, and his humorous personality quickly captured the heart of the beautiful and dignified Ni Ping.
During the time when he was struggling alone in Beijing, it was Guo Da who gave Ni Ping very little happiness.
Ni Ping's career is gradually thriving, and she gradually has a place on CCTV, and her lover is also by her side, this time is her happiest time.
Ni Ping's mother believes that her daughter has a successful career and outstanding appearance, and should find a better man to match, rather than spend the rest of her life with a comedian who seems unpopular in the eyes of her elders.
Eventually, they decided to break up under the pressure of their mother's opposition and **.
Guo Da's parents were not satisfied with Ni Ping because they felt that she was not worthy of being their son's spouse because she had a history of marriage and had children.
The presence of an ordinary-looking sketch actor with a dignified and generous host may make people feel that this relationship does not match.
If Ni Ping had chosen to be with Guo Da at that time, would she not have experienced the twists and turns later, and would she have been able to stay on the CCTV stage?
None of these circumstances are known.
After separating Guo Da, Ni Ping returned to the lifestyle she had when she was divorced, and continued to work at CCTV until one day she met Chen Kaige by chance.
Chen Kaige had just returned from abroad at that time and had become a high-profile new generation of directors in the circle.
Ni Ping has gained a firm foothold in CCTV and has become the dream lover in many people's hearts. She exudes her own light on stage, confident and beautiful, how charming.
Chen Kaige quickly launched an offensive against Ni Ping, and Ni Ping, who had experienced two failed relationships, also fell into Chen Kaige's sweet words.
A highly acclaimed director uses gentle words to bring great comfort to Ni Ping, who is strong but fragile at heart.
Ni Ping should be deeply infatuated with Chen Kaige, obsessed with his film talent, intoxicated by his sweet words, in love with his understanding of his own soul, and tolerant of her pain and difficulties.
Therefore, in that conservative social environment, Ni Ping resolutely decided to live with her lover.
At that time, Director Chen actually had a wife abroad, and he didn't divorce his original partner until he fell in love with Ni Ping for two years.
However, after the divorce, Chen Kaige did not marry Ni Ping again. In the past six years, Chen Kaige has remained silent and never mentioned remarriage, and Ni Ping has always been regarded as an "old mother" with a bad reputation.
During the two years of the relationship, the "CCTV First Sister" lived a glorious life, but when she returned home, she lived an ordinary life like an old mother. She gave unreserved love to Chen Kaige and poured deep feelings into this wandering son.
When Chen Kaige's father was seriously ill, Ni Ping replaced Chen Kaige, who was busy with work, and did his filial piety in front of the bedside of his old family. As a daughter-in-law, she took care of the old man's daily life and took care of him until the old man died. Later, she was also responsible for the funeral of the elderly.
Chen Kaige couldn't do it, but Ni Ping did it. She is a virtuous, capable and capable woman, but Chen Kaige ruthlessly abandoned her after delaying Ni Ping's good times for six years.
During the period with Ni Ping, Chen Kaige had a cheating relationship with actress Chen Hong, who was 16 years younger than her, and eventually became pregnant and gave birth to a child. Subsequently, he decisively left Ni Ping and married the young and beautiful Chen Hong.
He once abandoned his original wife because of Ni Ping, and six years later left Ni Ping because of a younger and more beautiful woman.
Ni Ping's state at the moment is just like her name - "Ping", without roots, wandering alone in the vast sea of people.
Chen Kaige had mentioned breaking up to Ni Ping before, but Ni Ping loved him deeply and was unwilling to throw her years of youth into the water, so she refused Chen Kaige's request.
Ni Ping finally felt desperate, because after Chen Hong was pregnant and married to Chen Kaige, she still missed Chen Kaige.
After experiencing three failed relationships, Ni Ping finally felt dead and devoted all her body and mind to work.
In another job, Ni Ping met a well-known journalist. However, at this time, Ni Ping was already disheartened with love and no longer seemed to have any extravagant hopes for love.
The reporter developed a deep love for Ni Ping.
Ni Ping is in dire need of a spiritual partner to fill the damage she has suffered in her family of origin and relationships, because she is deeply troubled by the lack of love.
After reporter Wang Wenlan bought a set of courtyard houses for his grandmother, Ni Ping was moved by his love and chose to be with Wang Wenlan, treating her grandmother as her closest relative.
After Ni Ping and Wang Wenlan got married, they soon welcomed their son Huzi, but no one knew at this time that a greater tragedy was about to come.
The couple sought medical treatment for many years, but the child was born with congenital cataracts, but the effect was minimal.
Ni Ping hoped to take her child to the United States to receive **, but Wang Wenlan, as a father, lost confidence in this, and he was not optimistic about this plan.
He is held back by the high cost of his expenses, which leads the two to get into heated arguments again and again.
Ni Ping seems to be determined to accept ** for her son, perhaps to make up for the lack of her previous child. With countless quarrels, the love between them gradually disappeared.
They eventually chose to go their separate ways.
Ni Ping did not feel heartache because of her lover's departure this time, she only had her son who was suffering from injuries and illnesses in her eyes, and even resolutely resigned from CCTV and began to work behind the scenes.
Ni Ping had to take over the drama again in order to pay for the high medical bills, but this time she was no longer out of ideals, but for her livelihood.
The continuous passage of time has made Ni Ping's face no longer young and gorgeous, and this poor woman has left traces of time.
Ni Ping gradually became haggard for the sake of her son's condition, and she ran around, constantly taking on dramas to raise medical expenses.
In 2004, after a series of failed relationships, Ni Ping finally met someone who treated her and her son sincerely.
She once starred in the movie "Beautiful Feet" due to medical expenses, which was a role she got by virtue of her talent for asking for people. Not only that, but she also won an award for this work, and met director Yang Yaya at work.
Yang Yaya and Ni Ping have similar experiences, both have divorced and raised their children alone. Perhaps because of the arrangement of fate, Yang Yaya fell deeply in love with this strong and unyielding woman.
Together with Ni Ping, he went around seeking medical treatment for Huzi, and treated Huzi as if it were his own child. Until luck came, Huzi's condition was **, and Ni Ping was also moved by Yang Yaya's love and companionship.
After Ni Ping and Wang Wenlan separated, Yang Yaya touched her with sincere love and entered her life.
This love came too late, but it continues to this day.
After a long time, this woman who has been struggling with love finally gets the love she deserves.
After so many years of baptism of wind and rain, in addition to Ni Ping's emotional setbacks, her bumpy love experience was also affected by her original family. Growing up, the absence of her father's company made her desperate to be loved and longing for someone to love her.
She maintains a humble attitude in love, and she also mentioned in her autobiography: when she was with Chen Kaige, she lost her dignity.
Despite this, she is still willing to bear all the pressure of Chen Kaige's **, just to be able to get love.
She was fortunate to finally find Yang Yaya, a rare good man. After marriage, Ni Ping lived a very happy life, and her physical condition was much better than when she left the stage.
In Ni Ping's story, we can also observe many things: she constantly struggles for her dreams, compromises for love, and gives up for her children.
She is an outstanding performer and presenter, and more importantly, she is a great mother. She has experienced struggles and pains on the road of love, but she still bravely re-embraces love and life and becomes a brave person.