With the development of social economy, a cruel fact has gradually been exposed in China's rural areas - many rural men are facing the problem of marriage. Under the influence of many factors, some rural men chose to "lie flat" and gave up struggle and hard work. This article will focus on the analysis of this phenomenon, ** the reasons behind the marriage dilemma of rural men and how to deal with it.
1. Reasons for the marital dilemma of rural men.
1.Imbalance in gender ratio: Influenced by traditional attitudes, the phenomenon of preference for sons over women in some rural areas of China is still serious. The long-standing family planning policy has led to a preference for boys in some families, resulting in an imbalance between men and women in rural areas. According to the data, the ratio of men to women in rural areas of China has exceeded 110:100, and in some areas it is even as high as 120:100. This means that rural men face stiff competition when it comes to finding a mate.
2.Economic pressures: As living standards improve, so do rural women's expectations for marriage. More and more women want to marry men who have a house, a car, and a stable job. However, many rural males are unable to meet these requirements due to the poor economic situation of their families. This puts them at a disadvantage in the marriage market.
3.Urban-rural disparity: With the advancement of urbanization, more and more rural women are flocking to cities in search of better development opportunities. This has reduced opportunities for rural men to communicate with urban women, exacerbating their marital woes.
2. The negative impact of the phenomenon of "lying flat" among rural men.
1.Give up the struggle: In the face of the dilemma of marriage, some rural men choose to "lie flat" and lose the motivation to struggle. Instead of trying to improve their quality, they indulge in bad behaviors such as online games, gambling, etc. This not only affects one's own quality of life, but can also be a burden on families and society.
2.Social instability: The phenomenon of rural men "lying flat" may lead to increased social instability. Some men are unable to marry, which can lead to increased family conflicts and even induce criminal behavior. In addition, the "lying flat" of rural men may also exacerbate the gap between urban and rural areas and affect social harmony.
3. Strategies to deal with the marital dilemma of rural men and the phenomenon of "lying flat".
1.Policy guidance: We should increase support for rural areas, increase farmers' incomes, and narrow the gap between urban and rural areas. At the same time, through propaganda and education, we should guide rural families to establish a correct concept of childbearing and gradually improve the imbalance in the sex ratio.
2.Education improvement: Rural men should improve their overall quality through education and enhance their competitiveness in the marriage market. ** and all sectors of society should also pay attention to rural education and provide more opportunities for rural men to study and Xi.
3.Broaden communication channels: ** and social organizations can hold various blind date activities to provide more opportunities for rural men to make friends. At the same time, rural men are encouraged to actively go out and seek cross-regional marriage opportunities.
4.Psychological counseling: In view of the marital plight of rural men, ** and social organizations should carry out psychological counseling to help them establish a correct concept of marriage and relieve psychological pressure.
Conclusion: The marriage dilemma of rural men and the phenomenon of "lying flat" is a complex social problem, which requires the joint efforts of all walks of life and individuals to solve. Let us work together to create a fair and relaxed marriage environment for rural men, so as to help them get out of their difficulties and realize the value of life.