On the road of life, we will meet countless people.
Some people praise and appreciate you, while others despise and look down on you.
But these are all outside voices, and you can care or not;Other people's advice to you, you can refer to or not.
After all, life is one's own, and it has nothing to do with others.
Although we cannot influence what others think of us, we can change our attitudes.
Your own mindset of seeing the world has changed, and the words and deeds of others have less impact on you.
On the road of life, living your own personality and wonder is a kind of self-confidence.
People who look down on you will always look down on you, don't try to please the other person.
Don't try to please people who are indifferent to you, don't try to talk down on people who look down on you, because people who look down on you will always look down on you, and all your efforts and efforts will only become a joke for others and your own weakness in the end. People who like you will feel cute when they see your shortcomings, and people who don't like you, even if your strengths shine, will only feel dazzling.
If you observe carefully, you will find that no matter how friendly the people who look down on you are on the surface, they still look down on you in their hearts.
In life, do your best and have a clear conscience.
People who look down on you have different magnetic fields and frequencies from you, so you don't have to deliberately blend in.
People who look down on you, no matter how well you do, will be picked in the egg;No matter how much you give, he will think that it is not worth mentioning, and he will not attribute your success to your efforts, but your luck and luck, not that you are strong and your efforts are useful.
Because they are jealous and unwilling to admit it, or their psychology is dark, they just can't see the good of others, so they will speak sour words and slander you in all kinds of ways.
Appreciate your people, appreciate nature;I have degraded you, and I will never look down on you.
If you forcibly change your lifestyle and way of thinking because of those who look down on you, you will only end up feeling haggard and miserable.
Instead of that, it is better to find ways to improve yourself, fight less with others, engage in less small groups, spend time, money, and energy on things that are useful to you, and be your unique self with confidence.
No one in this world has the right to look down on you, except yourself.
In this world, no matter how ordinary you are, you are the only one, no matter how ordinary you are, you are limited, and everyone can look down on you, but you can't.
The reason why you are looked down upon is not actually the problem of others to a large extent, but your contempt for yourself, as always, can only make you more worthless.
Life is one's own, and perceptions are other people's.
Others look down on you, but it is just the wind and rain of the outside world, and it will not have a substantial blow to you;But if you look down on yourself, you will fall on the road of life, lose your self-confidence, lose your motivation, and you will lose in life.
Don't care too much about other people's opinions, other people's comments on you are not important, what matters is what kind of person you are, others are not you, and you can't go into your heart, you know yourself best, know yourself, understand yourself. Where our destiny ultimately leads is determined by our past and present, not by the judgment of others.
Some people chase fame and fortune, some people are keen on preferences, some people pursue smoothness, no matter what situation you are in, you may be looked down upon, in fact, you don't have to care too much about those who look down on you. Everyone lives in their own perceptions, and their personal ideas and thoughts are deeply ingrained, so you don't need to waste your energy trying to change the perception of others, which will not only bring you frustration, but also make the other person ridicule you even more.
It doesn't matter if others look down on him, and they don't eat his food, wear his clothes, and don't spend a penny on him, why do they care about his vision and evaluation?People must look up to themselves and live with dignity.
When someone looks down on you, don't explain, don't argue, treat you indifferently, don't let others find a sense of existence in your world, try to stay away.
The purpose of your life has never been to be looked down upon by anyone, it is important to be yourself.
When a person can block out the interference of the outside world and be himself without distractions, it means that his heart is already very strong, and such a person will often become better and better.
On the contrary, if you care a lot about other people's opinions and actions, are very sensitive, and are very glassy, it can only mean that you are not mature enough and not self-sufficient.
In real life, each of us has different pursuits in life, and the state of life is completely different.
Since ancient times, "human affection is as thin as paper", and many relationships between people are exchanges of equal interests, and if you lose the bargaining chips of exchange, it is equivalent to losing the balance.
Therefore, it is not a business to go on the pole, and there is no need to be inferior to please everyone around you. Everyone is living their own lives, there is no need to accommodate anyone, cater to the every move of others, and finally wronged themselves.
Instead of holding your own tears in other people's stories, you should laugh out loud in your own stories. In the hard work to enrich their wings, let yourself have more choices, in order to make yourself more free, more independent, more sunny.
No one can accompany us for a lifetime, everyone has to adapt to loneliness, and no one will help us for a lifetime, so we have to work hard for a lifetime, not to compare with others, but to be the best version of ourselves, who looks down on you has nothing to do with you, but you can't look down on yourself.
Success never gives up on anyone, it's just that some people give up on success themselves.
In fact, we never have to prove anything to others, we live, not to change other people's opinions, but to make ourselves happy, comfortable, happy, our own success, our own heart understands, our own joy, our own satisfaction, no need to care about the judgment and affirmation of others, as long as we see our own progress, just do it;As long as you feel like you're having a good time, that's enough!
*From the web.