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"This kind of work dealing with the dead, I won't do it if I give me 1 million!”
Friends sighed when they saw the movie "The Undertaker", but Feng Lei's eyes had light, and he found his career direction.
As you wishFeng Lei, who became an undertaker, once sorted out the remains of thousands of deceased, but he did not dare to put on makeup for his fiancée, what the hell is going on?
"You come to the world once, I have never participated in your life, but I will send you one last ride. ”
Before Feng Lei took the college entrance examination, he happened to see a film called"The Undertaker".The movie was put into the mortuary by the moviePure and nobleShock.
He felt that the profession of mortuary was very sacred, soDespite the strong opposition of his family, resolutelyI applied for the funeral major of Changsha Civil Affairs Vocational and Technical College.
In school, Feng Lei not only has to learnKnowledge of pathology and sutures, but also to learnFuneral rites, memorial textsand other related courses, and even moreCalligraphy, painting, sculptureWait a minute.
Except for classmates in the same major, Feng Lei has almost no friends, becauseAs soon as everyone heard about his major, they immediately stayed away.
After graduating, Feng Lei became an undertaker in a public institution in Beijing.
himThe daily task is to organize, clean, and put on makeup on the body, so that they can leave this world with dignity.
But every day, there are not only bodies that die normally, but also occasionally people who jump to their deaths, die in car accidents, and even are brutally killed.
He thought his heart was cold and numb enough untilHe saw his fiancée "lying" on his familiar workbench in tattersand his whole world collapsed.
He had made an appointment with his girlfriend to have dinner that night, but he worked late because of a temporary missionThere is no way to make it to the appointment
After dealing with the task at that time, Feng Lei called his girlfriend **, butIt can't get through, he thought his girlfriend was asleep and was about to pack up his things and go home, but was notifiedThe deceased who had been in a car accident was sent over temporarily, need to work overtime to sort out.
The distraught Feng Lei changed into work clothes again and walked into the workshop, only to see the unrecognizable one on the workbenchOn the middle finger of the corpse, a familiar ring was worn.
It was Feng Lei's customized engagement ring for his girlfriend, he can't admit his mistake!Feng Lei couldn't believe the thoughts that came to his heart, and went crazy to find the person in charge, butGot a mobile phone, and on the screen was a sweet photo of the two of them
The person in charge patted Feng Lei on the shoulder, asked him to mourn, and turned around to do other things, leaving Feng Lei alone with his mobile phone and not daring to accept this fact.
He didn't know how he returned to the workplace, and when he saw the tragic situation of the once lovely girl, Feng Lei couldn't stop trembling.
himendure the grief in her heart and help her girlfriend tidy up her remains, filling, repairing, stitching, makeup, ......Feng Leizai carefully carried out every step, until that familiar face reappeared in front of him, he couldn't help it anymoreGet on your knees and weep bitterly
This incident caused a big blow to Feng Lei, and since then, he has resigned and changed jobs.
It wasn't until a few years later that someone asked about it, and Feng Lei said:
"It's infinitely close to being together forever, and she feels like a dream to me. ”
There are many mortuaries like Feng Lei who volunteered to join the company, and his younger sister Li Shuping is one of them.
Li Shuping was born in 1994 and is a native of Changzhou, JiangsuShe has been particularly curious about funerals since she was a child, there is an old man in the village who dies, and she has to go over to take a look. Unlike other children's avoidance of herI can carefully write down the funeral process and etiquette every time
After going to junior high school, sheGet hooked on watching horror movies, I go to the video store every day to borrow *** and go home to watch it, borrow three or four films a day, and watch all the horror movies in the store almost in one summer vacation.
That's when sheI dream of becoming a forensic doctor, but the threshold is too high, she searched the Internet for similar jobs to forensicsLearn about the funeral industry and the sacred profession of undertaker.
After the college entrance examination results come out, she has to fill in the volunteer, and her parents want her to learn kindergarten teacher or **.
But Li Shuping found the funeral major in the book issued by the school to help choose a major, and secretly wrote down the school's ** and *** codesThe day before handing in the volunteer form, the volunteers that her parents chose for herIt was changed to the modern funeral technology and management of Changsha Civil Affairs Vocational and Technical College.
It wasn't until she couldn't change her volunteer that she told her parents about it. Although they were very angry, they couldn't change their will, so they had to educate Li Shuping:
"If you want to choose this major, you have to persevere, if you can stick to it, we will definitely support you. ”
At the beginning, parents would be asked by many people what major their daughter studied, and they all prevaricated vaguely, until Li Shuping was about to graduate, and others learned that she was studying funeral.
"Aren't you afraid to learn this?Are you a**?Or is there something wrong with the brain?”
My mother's friend came to the house as a guest, and she was a meal for Li Shuping"Split the head and cover the face" inquiry。Li Shuping, who was frightened by her aunt's "straightforwardness", didn't get angry, but just smiled awkwardly and said:
"I wanted to do it myself, and partly because I found it honorable and rewarding. ”
Approaching graduation, the school organized students of the entire major to go to the local funeral home for practical training, the one at that timeThe deceased, a student at the school, fell to his death.
The deceased's whole body was fractured, and the facial injury was also more serious, and the mortuary needs to first have plastic surgery, restore the face, then restore the limbs, and finally give makeup to the deceased until the family is satisfied with the face.
Because the deceased was relatively youngLi Shuping felt very sorry, she wrote in her diary:
"It's a pity that a person has worked hard all his life, or has just entered a good age, and his life comes to an abrupt end. It is still necessary to cherish the present and live in the present. ”
After graduation, Li ShupingBecame an undertaker as he wishedShe has to go to work at half past 6 every day, go to the unit to do some preparatory work, check the information of the body, and start to deal with it after confirming the identity of the deceased.
The first step is to undress the body itselfBathe the body。The whole process is the same as a normal bath, and the cleaning products used are also ordinary shampoo and body wash.
It is needed after taking a showerDressing the remains, because the body has been stiffened, so this stepIt takes a lot of physical strength, which is a little difficult for the skinny Li Shuping, but after a period of time in the industry, she basically does not need the help of others to complete it.
Once you get dressed, you start putting on makeup。Applying makeup to the deceased is not as complicated as applying makeup to a living person, you only need to look a little more complexion and be natural, and it takes about 15-20 minutes to apply makeup at a time.
When encountering some unnatural deaths, there will be one more step to tidy up the remains, that isFacelift
The wound site needs to be cleaned before it can be sutured, and sometimes it will bleed while cleaning, so Li Shuping will wash it repeatedly until she sees the internal tissue, and then it is good to suture it according to the original traces.
In the case of missing limbs and unable to be sutured, it is also necessary to follow the requirements of the family firstMake a prosthetic limb out of materialsThen suture it up.
Li Shuping is handy at work, almostSeven or eight bodies had to be sorted out every day, engaged in mortuary for 5 years,Nearly 2,000 bodies passed through her hands. But in life she isDistressed by communication problems
Although he is the same age as Li ShupingThe young man hardly cared much about her work, butTheir parents were concerned, do not let your children associate with her,Not only said that her work was unlucky, but also that she was very unlucky, especially the families that do business, are almost far away from her.
There was a holiday family party, and my father took Li Shuping to attend, and at the dinner table, the father of a girlvery unceremoniously asked Li Shuping to stay away from her daughter:
You go sit over there, my daughter is afraid of you!”
Li Shuping has encountered a lot of situations like this in her lifeBut what this father said still made her feel uncomfortable for a long time
In fact, in ordinary life, she is just an ordinary girl, she will stay at home to play games, and she will also go out shopping and eat with friends. Her biggest wish is that people can be less prejudiced against the industry.
is different from the first two mortuaries who joined the company because of their "dreams".Wu Jinna wanted to pursue this profession because of the death of a loved one
One day when she was 12 years old, Wu Jinna came home from school as usual, but found that the atmosphere at home was not quite right.
Mom was red and swollen and still sobbing quietly, and Dad frowned and didn't say a word. She crept up to her mother and asked her what had happened.
The moment my mother raised her head and saw Wu Jinna, tears gushed out like a flood that burst the embankment, and she choked up and said"Your aunt had a car accident and was dead on the spot. ”
Wu Jinna felt that her breathing became difficult in an instant, and her mind was full of her aunt's voice and smile. My aunt loved her the most when she was alive, bought her a lot of clothes and toys, and taught her a lot of knowledge and skills. How could such a gentle and amiable aunt suddenly leave her?
She staggered to her feetI wanted to go to the funeral home to see my aunt, but my mother wouldn't let her go, died in a car accident, my aunt has changed beyond recognition, and my mother is afraid of scaring Wu Jinna. At that time, the profession of mortuary had not yet risen in China, so the body of my aunt was directly cremated.
Wu Jinna was unwilling, her aunt loved beauty so much during her lifetime, but she couldn't leave with dignity after her death, soShe made up her mind to be an undertaker and help more deceased people like her aunt say goodbye to the world with dignity.
But her decision came as no surpriseThere was a backlash from parents, Wu Jinna, who has always been well-behaved, was very stubborn this time and insisted on applying for this major, but her parents couldn't resist her, so she had to go.
However, every time she worshiped her ancestors, her mother would not let her touch the offerings used for the sacrifice, and Wu Jinna understood in her heartMom thinks she's unlucky。Although her heart was uncomfortable because of this, it did not change her determination to engage in the undertaker's line.
At that time, the funeral industry in Japan was very mature, and Wu Jinna wanted to improve her professionalismI chose to study in Japan, and this time I went for 9 years.
In the past nine years, Wu Jinna has been in contact with countless deceased, but the one that impressed her the most was the mother of a 6-year-old boy.
This lady suffered from it before she diedLiver cancer, died in his own home, and when Wu Jinna arrived, the little boy was lying on his mother's body crying.
BecauseThe deceased had a lot of fluid in his abdomen that needed to be drained before embalming, Wu Jinna was afraid that this process would scare the little boy, so she asked him to go out first to avoid it.
The moment the boy turned around and went out, Wu Jinna suddenly understood the good intentions of her parentsShe would choose to let her children go back to avoid being frightened, let alone her own parentsShe was completely relieved of the regret of "not sending my aunt on the last ride".
A few minutes later, the boy came in again, he touched his mother's belly and said:
My mother's biggest wish before her death was that her stomach would return to normal and she would be able to wear the beautiful dress she used to have. ”
When Wu Jinna heard this, she gave the deceased a beautiful long dress. The little boy didn't say anything, and bowed deeply to Wu Jinna.
At that moment, she suddenly realized herselfThe value of being an undertaker, but also strengthened the belief in the heart.
After returning to China, Wu Jinna set up her own companyShe treats the deceased as an "old man" who is ready to go。Because of her excellent professional skills and respectful attitude towards the deceased, her "Old Man Bathing" team is "famous" in ChinaWu Jinna also became the first person in China to "bathe the deceased".
In fact, our country has arisen on its own"The soul is immortal".After the concept, there isThe custom of burying loved ones。Everyone has a day when they are dying, whether it is sooner or later, decent or embarrassed, and someone will need to help deal with the aftermath.
There is a line in the TV series "Unnatural Death":
"We all face death, some of us are dead, and we who are lucky enough to be alive should not treat death as ominous. ”
The profession of mortuary is sacred, and the people who are engaged in the profession of mortuary are the same as each of usIt's all ordinary peoplewill also have their own life and social circle, I hope everyone can treat themLess prejudice, more understanding