Li Baoli thought, life is my own, no matter whether I am full of children and grandchildren or lonely, I will always finish it.
This is a sentence in Fang Fang's ** "Ten Thousand Arrows Pierce the Heart", and I have a deep feeling.
There are many things that happen in a single thought, and some people are angry and kill people excessively, not only ruining others but also themselves.
Some people fall out of love and can't think about it, jump into it, and die by themselves, which makes the living people who really love themselves miserable.
Some people go to prison for the sake of temporary greed, not only ruining their good future, but also spending the rest of their lives in prison.
One thought of heaven and one thought of hell, how important it is for a person to have a thought.
1. Thoughts determine your fate.
Li Baoli, the hostess of *, chose to marry Ma Xuewu because she admired the diploma of the unattractive Ma Xuewu, and said that if she found someone with a diploma, she would be smart to have a child in the future.
But after marriage, she didn't cherish it well, and felt that Ma Xuewu was high climbing when she married her, so she looked down on him, shouted at him, and commanded him.
As soon as something unpleasant at home, Li Baoli took Ma Xuewu out of anger, and when the two fought, Ma Xuewu often went to work with color on his face.
Later, Ma Xuewu became the director of the factory office, and people gradually became harder, and they also divided the new house.
Ma Xuewu handed a cigarette while saying good things to the moving workers, and said to the moving workers: It can be seen that you are a cadre outside, but you have been covered by this kind of woman for a lifetime, and you are pitiful than a dog.
After that, Ma Xuewu filed for divorce from Li Baoli.
If it weren't for Li Baoli's idea that Ma Xuewu was climbing high and feeling that she was high, she would have lived a very happy life.
Ma Xuewu has no bad habits, and he became the director of the factory office, and he also divided the building, and they also have a son.
A family of three who should have been very happy is facing a breakup.
Life is one choice after another, since you have chosen, you must cherish it, don't have the idea of who climbs whom, everyone is equal, don't regret it when you are about to lose.
Second, no matter what, don't lose the bottom line of being a man.
Ma Xuewu became the director of the factory office, and under the strong pressure of Li Baoli, he has never had a happy married life, and he cannot experience the gentleness and thoughtfulness of a woman.
After filing for divorce from Li Baoli, he had not yet gone through the divorce procedures, and at a banquet, he fell in love with the typist in his factory.
Since then, he has been out early and late at night, and he is happy with the female typist, and if no one knows what to do, he was finally discovered by Li Baoli.
Li Baoli called a police report**, saying that there was *** activity in a certain room of a hotel, and Ma Xuewu was arrested.
It's good now, Ma Xuewu was brought into the Public Security Bureau, and he became famous in the whole factory, and the factory director turned the table angrily, because he was promoted.
In the end, Ma Xuewu was dismissed, returned to the workshop as a technician, and watched Li Baoli's face all day long at home, and from then on he could only be a man with his tail between his legs.
People must have their own principles and bottom lines in doing things, and for the sake of temporary happiness, they lose their principles and bottom lines, self-destruct their future, and become the target of public criticism.
3. There will be retribution.
Li Baoli called the police**, which made Ma Xuewu lose his future and face, and she always sprinkled salt on Ma Xuewu's wounds at home.
Ma Xuewu wanted the wound to heal quickly, but Li Baoli would tear open the wound from time to time, and treated Ma Xuewu even worse.
Ma Xuewu missed the gentleness of the female typist, and gave him a **, knowing that it was Li Baoli who called the police**, and at the same time he was notified that he was laid off.
Ma Xuewu couldn't bear such a blow anymore and committed suicide by jumping into the river.
Li Baoli knew that she was in a bad position and took on the responsibility of taking care of her in-laws and raising her son Xiaobao.
In order to get cash, he became a female flat burden on Hankou Street, living a hard and tiring life of going out early and returning late.
Originally, there was a person who was willing to share this responsibility with Li Baoli, but Xiaobao strongly objected, and Li Baoli gave up.
finally survived to graduate from Xiaobao University, but Li Baoli, who thought she could enjoy happiness, was hit with a fatal blow.
Xiaobao chose a townhouse for her grandparents, and she wanted to take her grandparents to live together, because the down payment was still some money short, she asked Li Baoli to sell the house she lives in now and find a place to live by herself.
Because Xiaobao has seen Li Baoli bullying his father every day since he was a child, no matter what his father does, Li Baoli yells at him and scolds him.
Xiaobao also knew the reason for Ma Xuewu's suicide, and he said to Li Baoli: "Dad is because his wife made him look good, lost face, and ruined his future, but he still pretended to be a good person who forgave him and tolerated him." Dad thinks it's a shame for him to live with someone like you!So he can't live!”
Dad is at fault, and you can solve it in another way. ”
However, you are playing tricks, you caused my father to die before he was forty years old, you caused me to have no father when I was just ten years old, and I was only in my father when I was a child, and my heart was the most steady. How much pain I feel in my heart without my father, do you **understand?”
This is what Xiaobao has said to Li Baoli in the more than ten years since Ma Xuewu's death, and it doesn't add up to as much as this time.
But only this time, like a row of artillery, destroyed Li Baoli alive.
Li Baoli suddenly knew that life had retribution.
Fourth, write at the end.
Li Baoli changed the fate and lives of many people, including herself, because of her own thoughts.
There is an old Chinese saying: to forgive others and forgive others, to forgive others is not only to let others go, but also to let go of oneself.
A good thought may lead you to the temple of happiness, and an evil thought may lead you to fall into the abyss of pain.
Life is a journey, and anything you experience will eventually pass, so why bother with gains and losses.
It is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, and the important thing is to let yourself live happily, smoothly, and worthy of your heart.