There are always people in this world who confuse impoliteness with informality, and always think that the way of greeting without a salutation is to reflect their own eclecticism, and now people, the first sentence of any conversation is no longer a polite greeting, but a straightforward expression of the purpose, thinking that this can save time and quickly get the answer you want, but it turns out that the impolite salutation will make it difficult to move things smoothly.
But nowadays, people don't seem to like to take responsibility for their unintentional actions, stepping on their feet and taking them as the other party's bad luck, without guilt and apology, and even turning around to look at the feet that were stepped on, and being able to turn around as if nothing happened, when they face the world, they adopt their own rules, so they instigate the children to continue to inherit this behavior and behave as people.
Children's behavior, need to be cared for anytime and anywhere, once you don't get the care you want, you will shout to find the teacher to do the theory, instead of reflecting on the children they educate, what is lacking in life, children who have no self-care ability, need the personal care of the nanny, the time in kindergarten, has become a matter of course for parents to ask the teacher, so go to school or vent, the teacher can not care about the dissatisfaction, the new semester has a new story, different types of children, unscrupulous in the classroom, but no one realizes how bad this behavior is, and it is also sent out, and it has become an ornamental project for everyone to enjoy。
While admiring the difference of his own child, he also praised the child's courage and strategy, but he never realized that this baby who has lost the ability to take care of himself, even if he is older, he can't increase his mind, and he shows off how generous his child is.
The status of today's children has become an unquestionable emperor, the supreme sitting on the dragon chair, the pampering of clothes to reach out for food and open mouth, and can not bring children special skills, we ignore the primary core of cultivating children, is to make them in this responsible social environment, can rely on their own strength to survive, instead of relying on ignorance of the rules, polite rampage, and always for its reckless behavior, press the appropriate excuse: he is just a child.
has been a young age to be an ignorant shield, so what age, can be regarded as an adult, wait until the day you can take responsibility for your ability to act, tell him, you are now an adult, need to bear any consequences of your actions, I am afraid that it is too late, people no longer teach children, how to be a polite child, but wanton, let them be ignorant at an age, arrogant nature.
Children do something wrong, adults choose to turn a blind eye, if you deal with him, you will get the other party to sneer at the disdain to fight back, an adult is always with the child to do a calculation, so those children, against the banner of lawlessness of the adults, so even if they are in their cognition, clearly understand the incorrect things, but also to insist on the result, in the end is just to get the protection of adults, they will always belong to the winning side.
In the world of those little princesses and little emperors, they think that as long as it is what they want, no matter who owns it, they can use a little means to obtain it, staring at the food in other people's hands, drooling and shouting to possess it, not because the other party is a child, they can be unscrupulous, on the contrary, because he knows that the adults standing behind him will act shamelessly and defend their own ideas.
So those children have become a ubiquitous existence, without a trace of politeness and the concept of right and wrong of things, ill-intentioned to give you a kick at the moment when you don't pay attention, and then look at you with an innocent look at you, the root cause is not only in the child's malice, but the adult, and did not make the right way to deal with this matter, so the child from an early age in the worldview, do not feel that there is anything wrong with such behavior, children are watching the back of their parents grow up, a person's problems, often reflect a family's strange view.
Parents can give their children in their lives, since it can't be endless wealth to ensure that he doesn't need to come into contact with this society, then it is necessary to teach him how to get along with this society, not to be so out of place, not to smooth the edges and corners, put away the wings carefully, but at least the common sense of survival needs to be controlled, not any woman can be called an aunt, not so big, in order to show that he is full of nutrition, but as he grows in size, he also needs the same IQ to match.
A few years ago, I just graduated from myself, standing at the crossroads waiting for the traffic light, a girl dressed in a high school uniform, opened her mouth and called her aunt to ask for directions, full of doubtful disdain, and replied to her Who is your aunt, not to embarrass the student who doesn't understand the world, but can't figure out how the child is called, at about the same age, but only knows how to use the aunt to make the opening, is it a step-by-step well-behaved, or the beginning of IQ corruption.
If in class when I was a child, the teacher taught my grandmother to say hello, would she have caught a woman calling her grandmother before she would have given up. The children who are enshrined as the emperor's princess, once they leave the house, even the basic survival is doubtful, and how embarrassed to teach them to be a enjoyer, if they are in the palace, even if they don't have anything, they can live a lot under the protection of their subordinates, but if there is no emperor to inherit, they will be grounded and take a breath of fireworks in the world, after all, to live, you can't rely on others everywhere as parents.
Living in the real world, some people are thinking about the surviving Qing Dynasty, showing their status while living in the market.