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After 15 days at Shangri-La, I have spent all the "courage I have accumulated for more than 30 years", and I am finally going to live a life of traveling and working at the same time, and I am one step closer to "the way I want to live in my heart", and I have been waiting for myself for a long time ...... this step
I used to think that living such a life would require a lot of courage, a lot of time, money, and a lot of freedom, so for more than 30 years, I have not made up my mind to take this step.
It wasn't until I suddenly came up with the idea of traveling that I realized that none of the above reasons were the same"Don't dare to go".The most fundamental reason lies in the strength within a person.
In March this year, I was fortunate to meet an unknown and hidden master, follow his Xi, help me get back my own strength, let me have a calm and natural state of mind, and officially set foot on itExplore the wisdom of lifeway.
After half a year of learning and Xi, after gradually realizing the 95% invisible world, the cognitive system accumulated for more than 30 years has been subverted, broken, and reshaped layer by layer, like a new life.
In addition to the infinite emotion of "there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the people", I deeply realized that this world is different from what we think, and it is not the same as what we see. I have a four-piece set for life"Life, Wealth, Relationships, Health".The truth behind it also has a deeper understanding.
I used to be an entrepreneur with a strong sense of purpose, until I quit my job in 2018 and started a full-time business, learning to plan myself.
There is an annual plan every year, a monthly plan every month, and in order to complete the plan every month, the goal is decomposed, the goal is dead, and the goal is bound to be completed.
In those years, the days when the goal was not achieved were panicked, annual goals are broken down into quarters, quarterly goals are broken down into months, monthly goals are broken down into weeks, weekly goals are broken down into days, and day goals are broken down into customers.
The "goal" in the mind every day is very tight, full of challenges and pressure, and has become an "inspirational" benchmark in the mouths of others.
The results were mixed, but no matter what the results were, it was difficult for me to relax, and I occasionally enlightened myself with behaviorist ideas such as "young people should work hard" and "work hard while they are young".
However, being stressed is stressful, being uncomfortable is uncomfortable, and not liking such a day is not liking.
This year, I still work hard, but I no longer do things like before, I care more about the process of doing things, and I no longer set goals for myself, and I must ...... themIt's just with the meaning of doing something and enjoying the work itself
I used to be proud of being good at "breaking down goals and smashing goals", but now I ......
Don't target
Because if there is a goal, there will be expectations, there will be limitations, there will be constraints, there will be tension, there will be tension, there will be pressure, and if there is pressure, there will be loss of motivation!
Because whether the goal can be achieved or not is not just something that can be obtained by "relying on dead knocks". The script of life has long been destined, and it will definitely be obtained if it is not a dead knock.
The more relaxed, the calmer you areThe calmer you are, the easier it is to do things;The more relaxed, the higher the energy and the more attractive it is
Under anxiety, involution, and competition, no pressure is the biggest motivation. Let go of your goals, enjoy doing things, enjoy your love, and enjoy being yourself, so that you can create freely.
The script of life has long been destined, our thoughts, thoughts and thoughts are not made by ourselves, but "the real me", we only need to follow the guidance of our hearts, make it at sunrise and rest at sunsetJust do good deeds and do good things
Many years ago, the elders around me told me that I don't have to work too hard in life, because the end is already predestined.
I don't believe in this evil, life is up to me, I work at least 8 hours a day, rarely watch dramas, rarely accompany my children, and rarely even go out when I'm busy, of course, the growth is fast, and I did get some results, butI feel unhappy inside
I used to spend a long time thinking about why I tried my best and I was generally satisfied with the results, but why was it not happy?
It was also this year that I realized that if a person's mentality is not "abundant and rich" and "peaceful and natural", even if the life is full of money, it will not be enjoyable.
Moreover, hard work is not necessarily rewarded, hard work is the basic condition, just your duty, hard work is not necessarily successful, as long as you work hard you can succeed, then life is too simple.
It's just a little bit better to work hard than not to work hardSurrender to the impetus of the flow of life, which is richer than you work hard to obtain, and plunge into the present moment naturally and calmly like flowing water, and do the things of the moment well, and you can do it well.
In the end, what we want is not a state of "see how hard I work" or "see how rich I am", what we want is inner abundance and peace.
Some people say, I don't work hard, I don't have money, how can I calm down?How can it be rich?
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A person's state of life and "working hard or not" and "having money or not" are two different things.
In the past month, in addition to doing business consulting, I have also done nearly 100 spiritual cases, and I have seen nearly 100 different life states. Infinite exclamation:
Everyone's life pattern is like a "spell", an infinite loop, turning over and over, tossing us to death, sleepy to death.
At the same time, we are unwilling to admit our helplessness and powerlessness, let alone to be seen by the world as "embarrassed and miserable under the curse".
In the struggle again and again, while silently rising, disappointed, rising, disappointed. While optimistically comforting and hypnotizing himself, "My life is up to me", "Life is suffering, I can overcome it"...
It's too bitter, it's too tiring.
Every time I perceive this in a case, I can't help but sigh deeply:EveryoneThey are all so strong, and yet so fragile;EveryoneThey are so wise, and so ignorant;EveryoneThey are all so optimistic, and so lonely.
90% of people don't dare to face their truest selves in the depths of their hearts
I have seen many people packaging themselves with bells and whistles every day, not daring to open up and express their true hearts, not daring to admit their helplessness and powerlessness, not daring to admit that "I really can't do it this time", not daring to admit that "I need help very much at the moment", I just want to show my glamorous and excellent side, which was how I used to be.
I don't want to be seen through the fear, deprivation, evasion, cowardice, and powerlessness in my heart, I just want to show: I am strong, I am powerful, I am excellent.
In fact, instead of wrapping yourself layer by layer one at a time, it is better to live yourself freely, truthfully, and freely. How about excellent?What if it's not good?
Whether you are great or not, you don't need others to evaluate it, you can evaluate it yourself!
The most pointless thing is to prove that you are very good
Since I started doing micro-business in 2013, I have learned to express myself, show myself, and package myself. I remember that in the first year of doing micro-business, I was very good at showing myself in the circle of friendsProfessionalism, character, talent, ability, performance, etc., but rarely show their inner loneliness and anxiety
Because I want others to think that I am very good and that I am excellent, so that many people will follow me to learn and Xi and do business.
Even every sentence of my copywriting, every **, every article, and every appearance, I will carefully carve "whether I have shown my strength".
Just like the proud peacock, he keeps brushing his beautiful feathers every day, waiting for more people to appreciate, waiting for more people's recognition and affirmation, and almost every action every day is immersed in"Self-certification".Middle.
It seems that only in this way is the meaning of doing business, and only in this way can I gain greater strength to do things.
Actually, there is no point in "proving".
Because, it's not that you're powerful, it's that the universe wants you to be powerful. He gives you all the resources, the connections, the wisdom, and the fame and fortune.
It is not for you to appreciate yourself, nor for you to win the respect and love of more people, nor for you to enjoy the peak of life, but to facilitate you to do things well, create greater social value, and pay to accompany more life awakening and growth.
Today, I still go to the hair circle, the method has not changed, but the mentality has changed, the feeling of the hair circle has also changed, I don't want to prove anything anymore, I just want to tell you:What I do every day, what I gain, what I can do to serve you
Dao spells, whether it is business or practice, many people are pursuing the Dao.
What is the Tao?Tao is a feeling
In fact, all creation is "found a feeling", not how diligent, how much you pay, how much you do, how much money you make, but how much you ......
The feeling of concentration in the center of work, the feeling of chic blooming in expression, the feeling of being invincible and fearless in challenges, the feeling of relaxation and comfort in rhythm, the feeling of being relaxed and comfortable when making money, and the feeling of inner peace like water when suffering ......
Seize these moments, remember these feelings, and go to the "Tao", you can take these "feelings" to do things easily, create easily, make money easily, and serve easily, and you can create more beautiful things infinitely.
The true meaning of life is to find these feelings in the experience of life, and then refine them into wisdom, and keep creating, and then continue to experience, continue to refine, continue to create, and repeat the cycle until there is no desire.
The world is different than you think.
Let's reveal more [super cognition of super IP].
In the past year, Tree Fish Mother has not only created a new business system with excellent IP, but also done15 life events that you never thought about
It has applied for 13 sets of national intellectual property certification.
The knowledge system containing nearly 200 sets of SOP files has been summarized.
I also finished writing my first book "Super IP", which is about to be published
Nearly 10 excellent super IP cases have been created.
On September 23rd, the tree fish mother conducted a 12-hour live broadcast in the Napa Sea Savannah of Shangri-La, connecting more than 10 business and spiritual teachers.
Led everyone to experience the 95% invisible world that we don't know, and revealed the four-piece set of life"Life, Wealth, Relationships, Health".and so on, to help more lives improve their cognition and serve the needs of more life growth.
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