Recently, we have also seen that when Xie Kefeng accepted the connection, he was asked, what do you think of Xie Qingshuai's family when he raised his grandfather's family?
Xie Kefeng said something to the effect that although the adoptive family is very good to his son, he hates them very much!
If it wasn't for their family buying the child, then the son probably wouldn't have been trafficked.
I don't have to look for my son for 25 years in pain.
When the family was connecting with Tu Lei, Tu Lei asked Xie Qingshuai some questions about his grandfather.
Xie Qingshuai replied that when he wanted to give his grandfather a pension, we could obviously see that Xie Kefeng's expression was very ugly.
Tu Lei asked about his grandfather again, and Xie Qingshuai also began to hesitate, afraid that the wrong answer would cause Xie Kefeng to be angry.
Next, Tu Lei asked Xie Kefeng about Xie Qingshuai's need to provide for his grandfather's retirement, and he did not answer positively.
just tells about the hardships of finding a son over the years.
From these remarks and expressions, we can clearly see that there are huge differences between Xie Kefeng and Xie Qingshuai on the issue of supporting a family.
It can be concluded that what they think in their hearts is that they do not agree with Xie Qingshuai to provide for his grandparents in old age, and they are not even allowed to contact the adoptive family.
It can also be seen that Xie Qingshuai is caught in the middle, which is actually not comfortable! The heart is also quite tangled.
Don't blame Xie Kefeng for having this thought, after all, his son was only three months old and was stolen.
In order to find this son, he searched most of China and it took 25 years to see his son.
My wife also fell into infinite self-blame for losing her child and washed her face with tears, so she took antidepressant medication for 25 years.
Now that the son is back, how frightened they are, the son is leaving him again.
Hearing that their son was going to die to support his family and provide for his old age undoubtedly touched their point of fear.
The current situation is also a headache for Xie Qingshuai.
On the one hand, he is facing his biological parents, and on the other hand, he is facing his grandparents who are in their 80s.
The parents who gave birth to you are great, but the grandparents who raised you are also great?
How to deal with this problem is a severe test for Xie Qingshuai.
Actually, I can give Xie Qingshuai a little advice. First of all, calm your father's emotions and cultivate a good relationship with your father.
Then slowly do ideological work for his father, and explain to him that although he wants to support his grandparents, he will not leave his biological parents.
If you can really give up raising your grandparents, it means that you are not a person who knows how to be grateful, which is also what your parents do not want to see.
For Xie Kefeng, I also want to say that your child is very good and knows how to be grateful.
Although it is said that over the years, you have suffered a lot and shed a lot of tears in order to find your child.
But no matter what, the child is now back with you, and your efforts have been rewarded.
Even if there are thousands of mistakes in raising a family, you have also cultivated such a healthy and excellent child.
If it weren't for this breadwinner, with the social environment in the 90s, it is still unknown whether Xie Qingshuai would be able to have sound limbs.
You know, at that time, how many children were sold by traffickers to others, and their hands and feet were cut off as beggars?
For this alone, Xie Kefeng also has to thank this pair of old people!
Taking a step back, Xie Qingshuai's grandparents are over 80 years old, and with the life expectancy of the elderly in our country, how many years are left?
So, be generous, don't put pressure on Xie Qingshuai, let Xie Qingshuai go back and give his grandparents a good pension!