Whether girls should be raised for a longer period of time or a little longer has always been controversial. Some parents believe that girls should be spoiled, because only when people from good families grow up can they tell who is bad and will not be easily deceived. There are also some parents who think that girls should be poor, so that they can taste the hardships of life, and only when they grow up can they know how to cherish their current happiness, no matter from which point of view, these two parents are not wrong, they have their own reasons.
Listen to what a father has to say today. This man is actually my uncle and my father's older brother, his education style is completely different from my father's, his daughter is my sister, to be honest, I envy him, because he has a very reasonable father, and his education style is also unique.
My uncle only has such a daughter, my daughter just got a formal job today, it should be a stable job, and his family is also very good, living in a fourth-tier city, he can buy a small house for his children, this is also my sister's wish, she hopes that her father can buy her a house, so that she can live on her own and be free.
With my uncle's financial conditions, he could have bought a house for him. But the father refused his daughter's request, because the father believed that if his daughter had been smooth sailing, then his daughter would not have experienced ups and downs in life. If everything goes well, then, if one day, he encounters some big setback, then, his spirit will break.
Then some people have to ask, what kind of setbacks do you have with a stable job and a good family?His father said that his daughter had never been in a relationship, so he didn't know what a good person was and what a bad person was. With his daughter's family background, a job, a car, and a house, in such a small city, it is already very good.
Such good conditions will definitely attract the attention of some little men, in case someone takes a fancy to his family background and wants to deceive him, then it will not be so easy for him. From this point of view, the house I bought for him is not a safe home at all, but a time bomb. He didn't want his daughter to experience such a thing, so he didn't buy a house for his daughter, but wanted his daughter to find a man who could buy her a house, so that her daughter could really love her.
This father really loves his daughter, and can also consider the difficulties that his daughter may encounter in the future, and the uncle also said that he does not want to buy a house for his daughter, but this home will always be the most solid shield for his sister. With such a strong backer, she will be full of confidence in everything she does.
So, if I ask a girl whether it is better to be poor or rich, I think it is better to be rich, but wealth is not material wealth, but spiritual wealth, and she needs a lot of love and positive guidance, not a lot of money.