Long-distance couples are really uncomfortable, and every time my husband leaves me, I miss him so much. He goes to Xinjiang every year to work, and the moment he leaves, I feel very uncomfortable, as if my heart is being tightened. Every year after the Lantern Festival, he would step on the train to Xinjiang, and when he left, I saw him packing his luggage, and I couldn't control the sadness in my heart, and I couldn't help but want to cry. As much as I wanted to go with him, I had to stay at home for various reasons, and it was so far away from where he was that it was difficult to toss back and forth. The distance was painful for me, especially at night, and I was always thinking with longing and anticipation that he would come back soon and that we would be able to be reunited.
Before I knew it, my husband had been working in Xinjiang for half a year, and my thoughts about him only increased. Ever since he left the house, my heart seems to have gone with him. Every day, I miss him several times and imagine a reunion in the future. When I was young, my husband and I had only been married for two years, and we were still like a newlywed couple to me, and we still had the warmth of a honeymoon. Often, I would dream that he was coming back, and he dropped his luggage and picked me up tightly, hardKiss me。His beard was special to the touch, long and hard, and it tingled my cheeks slightly, but I couldn't be happier. The moment my husband returned, I couldn't help but smile like a bird that had broken free from its cage, and I was very happy.
Although we have only been married for two years, my husband has been working in Xinjiang for a year. He had been working outside the home while we were in love, and even then, I could still go to his city to find him, and we could live together. However, since I got married, my mother-in-law has asked me to stay at home and not to run around too much, because she is worried that this will increase the risk of miscarriage. But it's hard for me to understand how it can be without my husband by my sidePregnancyThis? This kind of thinking confused me, as if I had fallen into a strange puzzle. The mother-in-law is a strong person, and most of the things in the house are carried out according to her wishes, and sometimes even her husband is inclined to listen to her. I was caught in the middle, torn between who to listen to and how to deal with these complex relationships. Therefore, I made up my mind that no matter how hot the weather in Xinjiang was, I would go to my husband, and we had to live together so that we could improvePregnancyprobability.
Last month, I finally decided to pack my bags and go to Xinjiang. However, the hot weather in Xinjiang made me unbearable, and I couldn't help but suffer from heat stroke twice, and even needed to be sent to the hospital by my husband for an intravenous drip. My husband was very worried about my health and suggested that I go back to my hometown, but he was worried that I would not be able to withstand the difficult conditions there. After a month in Xinjiang, I couldn't hold on anymore, so I had to pack my bags and go home. Sometimes, I also think that for the sake of our future happiness, we should go to work in a city with the right climate. Guangzhou, for example, is closer to my home, just a few hours away by high-speed train, so that I can go there several times a year, or work with him, which not only relieves my physical pressure, but also increases our chances of getting along. I really feel like I can't live without my husband, and once he leaves, I feel very uncomfortable, tossing and turning every night, and it is difficult to sleep, let alone conceive a baby. I can't imagine how I would have spent my days without him.
Now, I am urged every day by my mother-in-law, who constantly asks me if I am pregnant with a child, and she reminds me from time to time not to lie to her. She even said that she would take me to the hospital for a full body check-up to see what I was missing and then come back to make up for it. However, I don't think I have any physical problems, all I lack is the company of my husband. As long as your son can return to me as soon as possible, we will have a chance to conceive a child. But the mother-in-law said: "You are always so dependent on your husband, can't you live without him?" Besides, you just went to Xinjiang last month, and now you want to see your husband again, he wants to earn money to support his family, how can he live without money? "What my mother-in-law said is indeed the truth, if it wasn't for making money, my husband would be reluctant to leave me. I'm so young, beautiful, and in good shape, and he wants to be by my side every day, how could he choose to leave to work so far away? The reason why he chose to go to Xinjiang is only because the money there is easier to earn and the salary is higher. Moreover, my husband goes out to work for our future happiness, and it is just a temporary separation. Wait for him this yearChinese New YearAfter I come back, no matter what, I will definitely follow him to work in other places next year, but I will not choose a place as far away as Xinjiang, and I can choose other cities with suitable climates. Anyway, I want to be with him, and I don't want to be separated again.
Although the life of long-distance couples is difficult, we will work hard for the sake of future happiness. No matter how far apart we are, I believe that as long as we are united, everything can be overcome. I believe that one day, my husband will come back to me, and we will create a happy and fulfilling life together.