A man's search for a partner is not only related to feng shui and home layout, on the contrary, a man's personal ability, economic situation, and physical appearance conditions are crucial to finding a suitable partner. However, if one of the three can stand out, it may also attract the attention of the opposite sex. At the same time, emotional intelligence is also an important factor, and for men who do not have the conditions to excel, the performance of high emotional intelligence can make up for the lack of other aspects.
However, in real life, we often see some men with average appearance, ability and economic status, but they never lack the company of women. One of the biggest advantages is having a high emotional intelligence. The women who are with them are always happy. Therefore, the importance of emotional intelligence cannot be overlooked when looking for the right partner.
The 27-year-old man is unmarried, and his family questions feng shui and re-renovates, a phenomenon that is not uncommon in rural China. On December 3, a man in Shandong shared his unmarried predicament, saying that he was 27 years old and had not found a suitable partner, and his family was very anxious. The family suspected that there was something wrong with the feng shui layout in the home, so they found a feng shui master and rearranged the house. Although the man himself did not believe in the influence of Feng Shui, he complied with his parents' expectations in order to meet their expectations. However, this did not solve the problem of not being able to find the object.
Men report that there are fewer and fewer girls in rural areas, and that most potential partners have not found suitable marriage partners. In addition, in his past blind date experience, although he had a brief relationship with several women, it ended up with no results. He feels that the current women are too materialistic, only pay attention to the economic conditions of the other party, and have not yet developed to the point of marriage, and they demand this and that at every turn. He believes that love is a mutual pleasure, not an exchange of money, but there is always an atmosphere of buying and selling. In the past, my parents forced me to marry, but now I am looking for other places to find the reason.
Judging from the ** shared by the man, he is outstanding, **white, tall, sunny and handsome, and can be regarded as an upper-middle appearance. In addition, his family's family conditions are also relatively good in the countryside, with a small two-story western-style building with exquisite decoration. However, even with superior external conditions, he still couldn't find a daughter-in-law. This shows that the problem is not Feng Shui, but more of a personal problem. Maybe he has a high opinion of his own conditions and wants to pick again. After all, marriage is meant to be a lifelong companion, and in order to find the most suitable partner, he is very demanding of this.
However, some netizens questioned that feng shui has nothing to do with finding a partner, taking this as an example, his family is rich in the countryside, and his ancestral grave has also moved, but he still can't find a suitable partner. In addition, some netizens used the analogy of losing money playing cards, accusing some people of always doubting the seat, the table, and their teammates, but never doubting themselves. The key to finding a partner is emotional intelligence, even if you are ordinary, as long as you are good at coaxing people, giving each other emotional value, not lazy and diligent, marrying a daughter-in-law will become easy. Some netizens even complained that it would be a better choice to use the money from the relayout of the gate on a blind date. It is amazing that some handsome men are as stingy as an iron rooster when dating their blind dates, and everything is calculated, which is bound to make the other party bored and miss the opportunity to succeed.
Based on the man's sharing and the various opinions of netizens, it can be concluded that the main reason why a man cannot find a suitable partner is due to personal problems, rather than feng shui or other external factors. The man himself is still young, and he does not have a particularly strong desire to get married, and he is not so active in love. In addition, the economic conditions in the rural areas where he lives are relatively average, while today's women are relatively realistic, and in addition to paying attention to physical appearance, economic strength is also an important factor for them to consider. If a man is financially disadvantaged, it is naturally difficult to attract the attention of his marriage partner.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to how a man finds the right match. However, by improving one's own emotional intelligence, being proactive, and focusing on emotional communication with the other person, the success rate will be increased. In addition, when deciding on a feng shui layout such as modifying a gate, you should consider your own inner cultivation and quality, rather than one-sidedly superstitious about the external environment.
In short, the problem of a man finding a partner mainly lies in himself, including personal conditions, attitudes and the pursuit of marriage. Only by improving all aspects of yourself and working hard to find a suitable partner can you achieve the beauty of your marriage.