**People Wang Dong said a sentence:
Those who cannot be educated and reformed will one day be severely awakened by the lessons.
In the big classroom of real society, suffering is the best teacher, and suffering is the most practical textbook.
A lot of times, it's hard to go through it yourself and wait for someone to wake you up.
Even if you have experienced it yourself and learned a lesson, it is difficult to wake up others.
We often say that "if you don't listen to the elderly, you will suffer in front of you".
In fact, people can only really wake up if they have fallen and suffered some losses.
What can wake up a person is never to say a hundred useful truths, but to experience a lesson that will be unforgettable once.
Only when you have a disease can you know that health is precious
Schopenhauer once said:
The biggest mistake that human beings can make is to trade their health for something outside of their body.
In life, we have to work hard to survive, and hard work also means consuming time and energy.
It will even sacrifice our health in exchange for the life we want.
As everyone knows, there is no health-based life, it is all a bamboo basket for water.
We often say that "the body is the capital of the revolution", but when we were young, we didn't seem to take it seriously.
I always think that I don't toss myself now, and when I get old in the future, I really can't toss it.
I always think that I am still healthy, but I don't know that the disease can't speak, and by the time I find out, it's already too late.
The host Bai Yansong once said:
Health is a person's greatest wealth, and saving for health is the most affordable and wise investment.
Money can never be earned, but there is a limit to health.
When you overdraw too much of your health, your body will give you warnings, which may be pain or no warning.
Perhaps only by having an illness can you truly realize the importance of your body.
There is a line in the movie "Get Out, Tumor", which is very good:
"Why did God arrange for us to be sick?”
That's because it's a reminder that you only live once. ”
Life is just a few decades, whether we are poor or rich, what can always support us forward is not wealth, but health.
Only when you are healthy can you eat when you want, sleep when you want, and play when you want, instead of regretting it afterwards, why you didn't pay attention to your body when you were young.
Only after falling into trouble once can you understand that the truth is hard to find
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
When you are in a high position, all you see are flashy spring dreams, and when you are in a humble position, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world.
When people are in a high position, they have friends all over the place and have a wide range of contacts, and they think that when they need it, there will always be friends who come out to help.
However, when you are in a low position, you are in trouble and no one can help you, so you can really see the reality and understand people's hearts.
In fact, judging whether a person is sincere or false to you can only be known when you are in trouble, and you can really see a person clearly when you are in trouble.
Shen Congwen once said:
Great sorrow and joy can see themselves clearly, and great ups and downs can see friends clearly.
It is true that people cannot stand the test of time, and after a long time, they will reveal their true colors.
Li Mengyang, a literati of the Ming Dynasty, was very smart since he was a child, and at the age of 21, he was admitted to the Jinshi and was awarded the post of head of the household department.
Local ** and rich people have come to befriend him, but because the limelight is too strong, he is also jealous of his relative Zhang Yanling.
Not long after, Zhang Yanling framed him on the charge of rebellion, and he was framed and imprisoned.
In prison, Li Mengyang wrote letters to his former friends asking for help, but he didn't expect to reply to them.
When he was at his most desperate, it was Kang Hai, who had little contact with him, who pleaded for him everywhere after hearing the news.
In the end, Kang Hai found the great eunuch Liu Jin and promised to become his staff in exchange for Li Mengyang's life.
He couldn't help but sigh, he didn't expect Kang Hai to save him, and after he was released from prison, he also turned down a lot of banquets and invitations, and since then, he has only interacted with a few friends such as Kang Hai.
As Lin Huiyin said:
The biggest regret in life is not that you missed the best person, but that you missed the person who wanted to be good to you the most.
In this life, it is really rare to meet people who are truly good to themselves.
But fortunately, time is the best witness, and those who are indifferent to you when you are in trouble, invite him out of your life as soon as possible.
Those who are willing to give you a hand, cherish it now.
Only after suffering from life can we understand that reading is useful
Long Song Xing" wrote:
The young man does not work hard, and the boss is sad.
Presumably everyone has learned this poem, but if you don't verify it yourself, you still don't want to believe this truth.
When people should read, they complain that they are tired of reading, and when they enter the society in the future, they often hate less when the books are used.
In fact, social life is far more cruel than we imagined, but we will never wake up if we don't receive the slap given to us by reality.
Bai Yansong once said:
If you don't read, what do you take to fight with others
Those on the Internet who can live a glamorous life even if they don't read are just a few exceptions.
We don't know what they have suffered behind them, so that's why we can't be them.
For most people, knowledge is the key to changing their lives.
Ray Dalio says in his book "Principles":
I experience painful moments in a very different way. Instead of feeling discouraged, I see pain as a reminder from nature that I have something important to Xi.
In this life, there is no suffering in vain, there is no sin in vain, they are only in the form of suffering, to remind us, let us grow.
People can't wake up, only when they experience it with their own hands and learn a lesson, can they really wake up in pain.
However, for the rest of our lives, I hope that we can take the initiative to wake up, instead of being slapped by reality and woken up by the pain of reality.