The manifestation of temper is a common phenomenon in the growth of children. Parents may find that their children often show agitation, restlessness, and even tantrums in certain situations. What should I do if my child keeps throwing tantrums?This can be a headache for many parents. As a homeschooling teacher, I would like to share some advice on how to guide children to express their emotions correctly and deal with tempers.
1. Understand your child's emotions
First of all, we need to have a deep understanding of the child's emotions. Children may not be able to express their feelings as rationally as adults, and temper is often a way to express emotions. Parents should learn to listen and try to understand their child's feelings rather than simply reprimanding or ignoring them. When your child shows a temper, ask them what upsets them and listen to their answers.
Many parents have a tense relationship with their children, and in the long run, it is very detrimental to the development and long-term development of children's character
Purely by yelling at the child or strict discipline, it is basically in vain, and the child is even more disgusted, I came here like this, until a few months ago, in the Gaotu beautiful family Xi for a period of time, with Song Li teacher learned too much, we first learned Song Li's adolescent class, at first because after the junior high school, the child's grades were originally in the middle, but after junior high school, new courses such as geography and biology were added, the child was very hard at the beginning, but in the second half of the year, the opportunity was very late and even he was rotten and did not learn Xi！
The family was also very anxious, but they couldn't control their emotions, which caused the smell of gunpowder at home to be particularly strong during that time, basically blowing up at one point, and the child was becoming more and more rebellious. Asking for help from the teacher, the teacher let science guide and recommended Teacher Song Li's class, the first half of the second year of junior high school, basically we stabilized, and the child also realized the value of learning Xi, and worked hard to catch up, and the atmosphere at home was also good, so it was worth learning Xi.
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