People have retired, and they only understand 17 truths when they are more than half a hundred years old
1. After retirement, try to avoid returning to the unit, and it is normal for people to go to tea and cool.
2. Moderate interactions with relatives, too frequent interactions may affect the relationship with each other.
3. Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and don't sulk easily.
4. Don't interfere too much in other people's affairs, which may cause unnecessary trouble.
5. Don't tell your children about your savings, which may cause unnecessary disputes.
6. Don't spoil your grandson too much, even if you are good to him, you can't replace his biological parents.
7. Don't be too economical and be kind to yourself, which is respect for yourself.
8. Don't divorce easily, it may leave you alone in your old age.
9. Do not overly urge and interfere in the marriage and childbirth of children.
10. Don't flaunt your wealth, which may cause jealousy and resentment in others.
11. Living with your daughter-in-law may lead to conflicts and should be avoided as much as possible.
12. Don't lend money to others easily, which may lead to unnecessary debt disputes.
13. Dependence on children should be moderate, not too obedient.
14. Don't be too reckless, admit the fact that you are old, and don't be too naïve.
15. Don't buy a property anymore, it may put a burden on your finances.
16. If conditions permit, try to avoid traveling with relatives.
17. For those who can't help, don't force yourself to help.