Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Gifts are a way to express feelings in interpersonal communication.
Relatives, friends, and colleagues around them lead to something at home, and express their hearts in a casual way, which is also an opportunity to enhance their feelings.
Whether a person is worth deep friendship can be seen from the "Sui Li".
With the courtesy, with the courtesy, is not only a courtesy, but also a benefit, can see a person's character, and how much he attaches importance to you.
In the interaction with people, we should pay attention to the exchange of courtesy and pay attention to the other party's contribution.
Marx said, "You should do unto others as you would have them do unto you." ”People who care about you, if you respect the other party, the other party will return you, and you will not suffer in the courtesy.
I have a friend who is getting married shortly after graduation and invites me to a wedding drink.
At that time, I had just found a job and did not have much savings, so in order to express my blessings, I still gave a big gift.
Although he and I are not in the same city, our relationship is still deep.
Later, when I got married, it was when he was under the most financial pressure and busiest at work. But he still took time out of his busy schedule to come to my wedding.
He not only accompanied a very heavy gift, but also prepared a carefully selected gift, wishing me a happy marriage and a happy life.
People who care about you will always remember your efforts in their hearts, remember the gifts you gave him, and seize the opportunity to give them a gift in return.
He will not let you suffer, he only sincerely hopes that you can live happily and smoothly.
If you get along with people in life, if you are too careful, it often makes people feel tired, and the people around you will gradually stay away.
And if you are too clear with the people around you, and you don't want to owe favors to others, it will also make you distant from each other and difficult to approach.
"If you want to attract friends, you have to have all kinds of qualities," Malton said. People who are selfish, petty, jealous, don't like the beauty of **, and don't like to be known by others, can't get friends. ”A person with reliable character will remember the help and dedication given to him by others. If you find the right opportunity, you will definitely give it back to him.
For example, when he is courteous, he will express his heart reasonably, neither making the other party feel too stressed, nor making himself appear stingy.
People who are reasonable in etiquette are particularly measured in their conduct and work.
Getting along with him, you can feel from him, he takes his feelings seriously, attaches importance to mutual friendship, and can feel his reliable character.
When you make friends with such people, you will feel very grounded inside.
The more reliable the person, the more they will attach importance to the interaction between each other, and will give reasonable gifts to continue the friendship with each other.
In life, the people who love you must understand what you think in your heart and your pursuit of life.
When you are on the go, the people who love you will start from your needs and make you happy.
In "Thirty Only", Gu Jia is about to celebrate her thirtieth birthday. Husband Xu Huanshan thinks that thirty years old is a very important day in life, and decides to celebrate Gu Jia.
He prepared a birthday party for Gu Jia and invited many relatives and friends around him, hoping that Gu Jia would get the most blessings.
Wang Manni chose a pair of earrings worth 8,000 for Gu Jia in a jewelry store, and spent half a month's salary on her.
She knows that with her current economic strength, she can't reach Gu Jia's quality of life, but it is also good to be able to add icing on the cake to Gu Jia.
And her best friend Zhong Xiaoqin chose a bouquet of flowers for Gu Jia in the flower shop, she only hopes that Gu Jia's life can be like flowers, wantonly blooming her style and charm.
Whether it is Wang Manni's jewelry or Zhong Xiaoqin's flowers, they all make her extremely happy.
The person who really loves you can follow your heart and make you happy when you are courtesy.
He doesn't care about the amount, he doesn't think about whether it's worth it or not, as long as he can satisfy your desire for life, he will be satisfied.
A person doesn't care about you, it can be seen from the gifts.
Some people, on weekdays, call each other brothers and sisters, as if they are friends of life and death, but when it comes to courtesy, they are very stingy and calculating.
People who really care about you will never let you suffer and will express their hearts in a timely and reasonable manner.
If you see the character and attitude of the people around you clearly, you will know whether the other party is worth making deep friends, and you will also see the friendship between each other more thoroughly.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.