Recently, Xu Ruoxuan announced her divorce from her wealthy Singaporean businessman husband Li Yunfeng, ending her 9-year marriage, which shocked the outside world. However, looking back at the interview she conducted 7 years ago when she participated in Zhang Xiaoyan's program "Xiaoyan Night", we can get a glimpse of the twists and turns in her emotional journey.
In the show at that time, Xu Ruoxuan admitted that she had been insecure in her relationship since she was a child, which led to several relationships ending in breakups. She even told her mother that she decided to work until she was old and not get married. This self-created safe zone seems to be a rather pessimistic choice for feelings.
Zhang Xiaoyan also revealed that she had cared about Xu Ruoxuan's relationship status many times in the past, and the response she received was always "very good", but the news of the breakup came soon after. Xu Ruoxuan admitted that she was not mature enough in the way she treated feelings in the past, always pushing the responsibility to others and attaching herself to her other half.
Until Li Yunfeng appeared in her life, a gentleman who had a history of marriage and had two daughters, Xu Ruoxuan began to experience a journey of growth. This marriage not only made her realize that happiness needs to be created by herself, but also made her understand that security is given by herself. This decision to divorce may be a brave attempt by her to find more real happiness.