I heard the May Fourth marriage today and felt very deeply, in today's society that has been freely chosen, there are still many realistic and cruel marriages, there is no designated marriage in the past, but because of the cognition of different stages, we have not respected each other's choices, just like the book said about the marriage status of the elite in the past era. In today's words, both of them are scumbags, but at that time they were ignored by new ideas and masculinism, and a more sensitive topic to discuss with you today is marriage. Happy marriages are similar and unhappy are very different, no matter how you choose not to hurt each other, you must have an account. And the two partners around Lu Xun and Xu Zhimo came to analyze.
The two companions by Lu Xun's side.
This extreme rebellion against existing moral Xi was regarded as a beacon in the dark night by countless new generations of young people who demanded liberation during the May Fourth period: this tendency can be summed up by the comments of Yu Dafu, a famous literary artist of the May Fourth period: I admire Shima's innocence and Xiaoman's bravery, and if I am about to die, I will also make a great epic to praise Shima and Xiaoman. , let's take a look at Mr. Lu Xun's original partner, Ms. Zhu An. When we talk about Lu Xun's partner, the focus of everyone's attention is often Xu Guangping, who is a "new woman" and Lu Xun's comrade-in-arms, rather than this long-neglected "old woman". In the fourth year of Guangxu, that is, in 1878, Zhu An was born in a merchant family in Shaoxing. The Zhu family's family background is not bad, there is a big mansion, which includes two large houses, each with a three-entry courtyard.
Traditional scholars who study Lu Xun's life and ideological creation often attribute Xu Guangping to Lu Xun's "virtuous helper", and it is difficult to see Xu Guangping's concession in giving up his career and ignoring the deep-rooted inequality in the relationship between the two, which we must reflect on and pay attention to today.
Xu Zhimo's two companions.
After talking about the stories of Lu Xun, Zhu An and Xu Guangping, the next thing I want to tell you is also two well-known women who were deeply attracted by the women's liberation movement advocated by the May Fourth Movement and tried to live an independent life. Similarly, because of the arrangement of fate, they were entangled with a talented ** literary genius, and they had an intricate emotional relationship. They are Zhang Youyi and Lu Xiaoman, and the man who once occupied an important position in their lives at the same time is the famous poet Xu Zhimo.
If Lu Xun's story is simply and rudely analogized, then Zhang Youyi's role is similar to Zhu An, while Lu Xiaoman is close to Xu Guangping.
Before I went to Germany, I was afraid of everything;When I arrived in Germany, I had nothing to fear." This extreme rebellion against existing moral Xi was seen as a beacon in the dark night by countless young people who demanded liberation during the May Fourth period.
Kong Huiyi came to the conclusion that the person also needs the understanding and support of the male relatives in the family, a wealth at his disposal, and extraordinary courage and resilience, all three of which are indispensable.
This extreme rebellion against existing moral Xi was regarded as a beacon in the dark night by countless new generations of young people who demanded liberation during the May Fourth period: this tendency can be summed up by the comments of Yu Dafu, a famous literary artist of the May Fourth period: I admire Shima's innocence and Xiaoman's bravery, and if I am about to die, I will also make a great epic to praise Shima and Xiaoman.
A painful marriage hurts not one person, but two people and families.