This is the fifth day in a row that my father has accused Brother Jie of playing with his mobile phone, and judging from the tone and frequency of his father, it is not an exaggeration to say that he is accusing Brother Jie.
Recently, my father was hospitalized, and I was so busy that my feet didn't touch the ground, so I naturally couldn't take care of Brother Jie. So the father reluctantly shifted the main position to Brother Jie.
He really regards Brother Jie as a position, wants to control him all the time, and really shows the majesty of being everyone's parent, Lao Tzu is Lao Tzu, a son is a son, and a son must listen to Lao Tzu.
He was too deeply poisoned by this kind of thinking, which had a lot to do with his family of origin, (without talking about the old man's style here), which can be glimpsed from just one thing.
After the final exams of last semester, Brother Jie's second uncle invited him to dinner. At that time, I planned that the main task was to reason with the child and encourage him by the way. Then a dramatic scene happened.
Brother Jie and his second uncle's child Xiaohang sat together, and the two friends hadn't seen each other for a long time, chatting happily. The second uncle came over to arrange the seats, sat in the middle of the two children at once, and forcibly separated the two friends. Then Biliba reasoned, maybe he hadn't seen Brother Jie for a long time, although he was talking about a big truth, the expression on his face was still very kind.
The two children chewed slowly, occasionally nodding or humming in cooperation. Brother Jie may have had the hardest meal of his life, despite the fact that the dishes were hearty and delicious. Of course, Brother Jie also showed great cultivation and cooperated with the second uncle to complete the lecture.
In the end, the second uncle went to the front desk, and his girl stuck out her tongue: "It's finally over, every time it's like my grandfather's whole and exam." "It seems that the girl has been suffering for many years.
The child's father may want to continue the tradition of absolute authority of his parents, but he has not laid a good foundation, and he has ignored Brother Jie for many years, and has very little time to take care of him.
Brother Jie was naturally very resistant to him, and when his father criticized him with a straight face, Brother Jie naturally didn't eat his set, and said impatiently: "I know, I know." "Sometimes I don't even lift my eyelids, I just close the door.
What kind of cause you sow, what kind of fruit you reap, but the father never realized this. After his authority was attacked, he began to accuse Brother Jie with me. At first, he talked about it every once in a while, but then he had to say it every day, even if he said other things, he could transfer his dissatisfaction with Brother Jie in three sentences.
I asked him, "You've said so much, is there a way to solve the problem of him playing with his phone?".He began to attack me: "It's just that the day school is broken, and the school can't have these problems." ”
I laughed angrily: "Then did you tell him to go to school?".He: "You have cultivated a Xi for him, and he will definitely not be able to talk about it now." ”
Everything is someone else's fault. I asked rhetorically, "Then why is it that when I'm at home, he can keep his promise and play until 10:40 and start doing his homework?""In fact, Brother Jie arrived home at 10 o'clock, except for the time to eat and go to the toilet to chat, he could play for another 20 minutes, but it was true that he was holding his mobile phone when he went to the toilet.
The child's father began to shift the spearhead again: "Squatting on the toilet and looking at the phone for 20 minutes without coming out." "Children are all shortcomings in his eyes.
I asked him, "What is your role?"Did you supervise it?When the child comes home, do you talk to him?He said: "I tell him every day to spend his energy on studying Xi, and his mobile phone will hurt him." ”
Children play with mobile phones, and fathers play board games more than children, and they are playing board games during meals. Of course, people themselves don't think that board games are mobile games. Typically, only state officials are allowed to set fires, and ordinary people are not allowed to light lamps. There is no other communication with the child, and it is a Xi to learn when you open and close your eyes, don't play with your mobile phone.
Therefore, friends and friends commented, whose fault is it that children are addicted to mobile phones?