When faced with life decisions, I don't know how to make them, and I feel lost and uneasy.
In fact, this kind of problem is caused by mediocrity and self-disturbance, mentality and internal friction, no own ideas and opinions, and no "imperial mentality"!
The most typical example is the contradiction between your family wanting you to develop in your hometown after graduation, and you want to stay in a big city to develop, and you want to do something, but you are afraid of being pointed at by people around you after you know about it.
If you don't make changes and breakthroughs in your mentality and thinking, I think this kind of person will probably spend their whole lives in entanglement and internal friction, and they won't be happy at all!
So how exactly to break through?The recommendations are:Establish an "imperial mentality", look at the problem from the perspective of an emperor, and believe that you can immediately grasp the essence of the problem and cut through the mess quickly!After graduation, I choose to develop in my hometown or stay in a big city, and I want to do something but I can't let go for fear of being known. These are not problems that I can help you solve in a few words. I believe that the reader who asks these questions is already an adult, what are the most basic conditions for becoming a real adult?Not only in terms of age, but also mentally, you must be an adult in order to be a real adult. An adult in the true sense of the word needs to have his own thoughts and opinions, and establish a strong inner world and energy field.
Throughout the ages, you look at the successful emperors of ancient times, which one did not have a strong mentality and aura.
For example, Liu Bei during the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei only had two brothers in the early stage, relying on the two brothers and his hypocrisy, and finally slowly established his empireIn the end, he relied on his so-called benevolence to establish his own Shu State and became the emperor.
Ming Taizu Zhu Yuanzhang was born as a beggar, relying on his own evolution step by step, and finally became the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty
Liu Beiwen can't compare to Zhuge Liang, and martial arts can't compare to Guan Yu and Zhang Fei;Zhu Yuanzhang can't compare to Liu Bowen, and Wu Bi can't Chang Yuchun, why can they become emperors?
It is their imperial mentality and strong thinking that they can become other leaders with the attitude of being absolutely strong in doing things. So how do ordinary people establish their own "emperor" mentality?
The recommendations are:Always listen to your inner voice and don't be distracted by others.
When you come to this world, you are essentially an independent individual, your soul and mind are independent and free, you should not be controlled by anyone, your life should be decided by yourself!If you shake your inner voice, you will be led by others, struggling with entanglement and internal friction for the rest of your life, and you will never be able to be yourself!
If you want to get out of this life, take your first step right away, and anyone who prevents you from making decisions will be treated as garbage people and thrown in the trash.
If you want to stay in the big city and develop, do it, immediately make it clear to your parents, then pack your luggage, go and open up your own business, take responsibility for yourself, even if you fail, you will not regret and regret in life!At least it's much better than you living in tangled internal friction, Brother Pi recognizes that you are a strong person!
Do what you want to do, don't be ready to do everything. You've been preparing for 10,000 years, and the opportunity has long since disappeared.
If you want to leave the original rotten company and start your own business, then do it, if you don't do it, how do you know if you can do it?It's very simple, throw away the shit thoughts you were about to be **, don't kneel and become a victim of someone else's good teacher, cut through the mess quickly, and become your own emperor in your heart.
If you can do it, your heart will be very strong, your mind will start to become transparent, and your energy field and aura will become stronger and stronger. At this time, you will slowly attract a lot of people who are as strong as you, and a lot of high-quality resources and connections will slowly help you grow.
Being independent and taking responsibility for oneself is always synonymous with being an adult!If you are not strong yourself, then you will always be a waste kneeling in someone else's world!Then if someone else causes you any harm, you can only suffer and can't fight back!Start today, please get stronger, establish an "emperor" mentality, and be your own emperor!