gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus at the age of fifty-six, and the family was not very good, and now her husband has suffered from cerebral infarction.
What motivates her to give birth at an advanced age?
Now her two children are three years old, she is sixty years old, her husband is older than her, and he is still sick.
In a few years, if the two of them can't even take care of themselves, what should the children do?
This is a very sad story, and everyone who has seen it is full of emotion!
This small room of less than 20 square meters is the home of the twin mother Guo Min.
At a glance, almost all of them are clothes and toys for the two children, and the space is very cramped, which makes people feel very depressed.
At this time, Guo Min was wearing reading glasses and concentrating on checking the company's accounts, which was her part-time job.
Guo Min told reporters: "Every day I will use my spare time to help other companies check the accounts, looking at these stacks of account books is quite a lot, in fact, the monthly income adds up to only more than 1,000 yuan." ”
When talking to reporters, the carbon pen in Guo Min's hand still did not stop.
The reporter asked: "You have to go to work and take care of your children at the same time, and now you have these part-time jobs, do you have time to rest?"”
Guo Min sighed, and then said to reporters: "I got up at four o'clock in the morning this morning, and then I started to do these accounts, otherwise I wouldn't have finished it at all!."”
After listening to Guo Min's work and rest time, the reporter was stunned on the spot.
It turned out that Guo Min had to stop all the work in his hands at ten o'clock every night to put the two children to sleep.
After the children fall asleep, Guo Min begins to do laundry and housework, usually around 12 a.m., before going to bed.
Barely able to sleep for four hours, Guo Min had to get up again to check the accounts.
At six o'clock, I cook for the children, then send them to kindergarten and go to work myself.
In order to maintain the normal operation of the family, Guo Min can only sleep for more than four hours a day.
Not to mention how busy you are every day, even if you are idle at home all day and sleep four hours a day.
But Guo Min said: "It's not in the way, I'm older now, and I feel less, four hours is completely enough!."”
The reporter took a serious look at Guo Min and found that her body was very thin and shriveled, and she looked a little malnourished.
The gray hair on the head also accounts for more than half of all hair.
A woman her age would normally have to retire to stay home to watch her grandchildren.
But she gave birth to a pair of twins in the year of the sixtieth year, and she had to pay for these two children all the time.
After chatting for a while, the reporter found that Guo Min did not mention the child's father, so she asked: "Aunt Guo, where did the child's father go?"”
Speaking of this, Guo Min choked up for a while, and tears flowed down his eyes.
Guo Min's husband's name is Ren Dahua, and the two are halfway husband and wife and have been married for fifteen years.
When they were preparing to have a child, the two also considered that each other still had the ability to make money, and even if they had a child, they could raise the child.
So the old couple took out all their savings of more than 60,000 yuan and went to do a test tube.
At that time, the doctors did not recommend that Guo Min have any more children, because she was already fifty-six years old at that time.
Most women, by this age, have lost the ability to have children.
Even if they have the ability to have children, almost no one will have the idea of having children.
The first is that you are too old, and if you have a child, you will definitely risk your life.
The second is that there will be some rumors around, because it is true that almost no one has children at this age.
But Guo Min seemed to have a deep obsession with this matter, and she said to the doctor: "You can help me check it, if I still have the ability to have children, then I must have birth!."”
As a result, Guo Min really had the ability to give birth, and she quickly became pregnant.
The old couple only wanted one child, but they didn't expect to come at once, which made the two unexpected, and they didn't know what to do for a while.
Husband Ren Dahua persuaded: "Why don't we take one out, having a child at your age is already very risky, and if you give birth to two at once, the risk will be even higher, besides, the conditions of our family are average, and we can't afford to raise twins!."”
At first, Guo Min was also very entangled in this matter, she found her eighty-year-old mother and told her about it.
Unexpectedly, the mother's attitude was very resolute, and the mother said that this is a child given by God and must be born!
With her mother's support, Guo Min's confidence is even stronger.
She was originally more than eighty pounds, but because she was pregnant with twins, her weight reached more than 120 pounds.
Guo Min, who had also given birth to a daughter before, said that she was several times more guilty of giving birth to twins than giving birth to a single child.
The most obvious is the morning sickness reaction, Guo Min said that she felt like she was about to vomit out the bitter gall.
It is conceivable how many sins Guo Min had to suffer in order to give birth to this pair of twins!
After nine deaths, the twins were born, and although they were less than a month old, they were both very healthy.
In terms of Guo Min's family conditions, it is still quite difficult to raise the twins, but it is not a big problem to face it with a hard head.
But later, her husband Ren Dahua had a cerebral infarction and suddenly lost the ability to make money, and someone had to take care of him.
Guo Min couldn't spare any time, and it was impossible to take care of him.
In order to allow the two children to be better taken care of, Ren Dahua could only move into his son's house to recuperate.
His son is thirty-six years old this year and is still unmarried.
As a father, he not only couldn't help his son's marriage, but also added a lot of burden, which made Ren Dahua's heart very uncomfortable.
Ren Dahua's accident, the burden of the family was all on Guo Min's body.
The pressure of life has overwhelmed Guo Min, but for the sake of her two young children, she must live strongly!
But no one can understand why Guo Min and his wife plan to have a child in the year of the sixtieth year?
If it's an unplanned pregnancy, there's nothing to say, but the two of them took out all their savings to make a test tube, which makes people can't figure it out!
In Guo Min's mouth, we learned the truth.
It turned out that eight years ago, her eldest daughter died in a car accident.
This incident hit her so hard that she suddenly lost her faith in life, and she even thought about going with her eldest daughter.
But no matter what, you still have to go on with your life.
Because she is not alone at this time, she still has Ren Dahua by her side.
If she commits suicide because of this, what should Ren Dahua do?
Slowly, Guo Min walked out of the pain of losing his independence step by step.
She had a bold idea, that is, to have another child and re-establish her spiritual pillars.
Ren Dahua also agreed, so the two took out all their savings and did it.
The result was of course gratifying, but it also made the situation worse for this family that was not wealthy.
The reporter asked Guo Min: "Now you are 60 years old, and when you are 70 years old, your children are only 13 years old, and you will not be able to work by that time, what should the children do?"”
Guo Min said that she has already thought about it, she is not going to let her two children go to college, but after finishing junior high school, she will go directly to the secondary school to learn technology, and work directly after graduation, so that she has a skill and the ability to live.
Obviously, it's not fair to the two kids, but there's no better way to do it.
Every weekend, Guo Min would take her two children to visit Ren Dahua.
Ren Dahua was surrounded by two children, and he was very happy on the surface, but he could still see the sadness hidden under the surface.
For the current situation of this family, he also expressed his helplessness, but he can't change anything!
The reporter asked: "Uncle Ren, do you regret giving birth to twins now?"”
Ren Dahua didn't say that he regretted it, nor did he say that he didn't regret it, he just sighed softly, and then said with a wry smile: "Alas, there is no way to regret it!."”
Originally, after Ren Dahua learned that his wife Guo Min was pregnant with twins, he proposed to take one out.
But Guo Min disagreed no matter what, and insisted on giving birth to two children, even if it was at the cost of his life.
Later, the child was born, and Ren Dahua also had a cerebral infarction.
He proposed to send one of the children out, which would not only make the child's life better, but also reduce the burden on the family.
And Guo Min disagreed, because she felt that since the two children came into this world hand in hand, they could not be separated no matter what.
This time I came to visit Ren Dahua, but I didn't expect him to propose to give up a child for adoption in front of Guo Min.
was so angry that Guo Min didn't say a word, pulled up the two children, and left Ren Dahua.
Ren Dahua's words undoubtedly touched Guo Min's backlash, and Guo Min also said that as long as he lives, no one can separate the two children.
Guo Min sent the two children to the kindergarten, and then went home to rest for a while, ready to go to work later.
After returning home, Guo Min was also deflated, she took out her eldest daughter's **, and gently stroked it with her fingers with red eyes.
made up my mind to have a child, but in fact, it was inseparable from the death of my eldest daughter.
And now, not only do I have to suffer, but my two children are actually not doing well.
Guo Min also often asks himself if he regrets it, but it has come to this point, and regret can't solve any problems.
In the evening, the reporter came to Guo Min's house and found that the door was locked, apparently not returning home.
The reporter went to the kindergarten where the child was and saw the two little figures.
All the children were picked up by their parents, and only the two of them were playing in the yard.
Two small figures, far more lonely than a small figure.
The reporter asked the teacher: "Do the two of them stay in the kindergarten for a period of time every day after school?"”
The teacher sighed and said, "Yes, their father has a cerebral infarction, and their mother has to work overtime every day to make money, so the two children can only stay here for a while longer, and I will leave work a little later, and I will leave after their mother comes." ”
The reporter also learned that the normal age of children going to kindergarten is three or four years old, but the two brothers and sisters, less than one and a half years old, were sent here, at that time Ren Dahua just had a cerebral infarction, Guo Min had no time to take care of these two children, so there was such a helpless move.
About another hour later, it was already dark, and Guo Min hurried over.
After looking at the time, it was almost eight o'clock, and the reporter asked, "Do you often pick up your children so late?"”
Guo Min smiled helplessly and said, "This is still early!."”
On the way home, Guo Min went to the steamed bun shop to buy a few steamed buns, and they were used as dinner.
Because the few days at the end of the month are her busiest time, she doesn't have time to cook food for her children, so she can only buy some steamed buns with some mustard.
After feeding the two children, it was almost nine o'clock, and Guo Min began to eat.
After just a few bites of dry steamed buns, she had to help the child clean up the bed again.
To be honest, with Guo Min's kind of life, the reporter already felt very tired just watching from the sidelines, and he didn't know how Guo Min persevered!
As the saying goes: Women are weak, but mothers are strong, this sentence is a true portrayal of Guo Min.
The child is just three years old, so Guo Min's life has just begun, and this kind of life is estimated to last until the day when Guo Min can't move.
In fact, if the family has money, it doesn't matter how many children you have.
Because even if there is something wrong in the family, the child can grow up healthy and get all he deserves.
And in this case like Guo Min, although she is trying her best to give her child a better one, there will be something missing in the child's growth process, which is bound to happen!