This world, for people with a good mentality, is a big playground, the more exciting the more fun.
For the cowardly, that's hell and you get hurt anytime and anywhere.
So, what kind of world you feel yourself in depends on what kind of person you are.
Every time you encounter a problem, you first make a judgment in your heart, then listen to the cow man share his judgment and logic, and finally compare the difference between yourself and the cow man's answers.
After training in this way many times, you will gradually grasp the thinking patterns of the cattle.
What is a nobleman?At critical moments when you need to make a choice or at a crossroads in your life, he gives you some advice and tells you why it gives you the advice.
Why?On what basis did you give such advice?
His experience, his logic.
Many people who want to go up are always in a hurry to prove how good and capable they are. And those who have a little experience and a little achievement, on the contrary, will take one thing seriously and do it well.
Because they know that it is very, very difficult to do a small thing to the extreme, and the rewards are very, very big.
When a person reaches a certain level, he will have God's perspective and look at mankind from God's perspective. The vast world we see is no longer lively and prosperous, but all living beings are suffering, each with its own suffering.
Everyone is pitiful, but there must be something hateful about poor people. The reason why all sentient beings are suffering is that they are obsessed with it, all of them are slaves of desire, and everyone lives in the cage of their own thoughts.
If you want to quickly adjust your life state, you must make a clear belief: everything that happens will benefit me.
Every thing you have experienced in your life, every kind of hardship you have suffered, even all the blessings and misfortunes you have encountered, and all the negative events you have experienced, people with high understanding can gain your own observation and reflection on the world, and finally help you grow, so that your independent life gradually tends to be happy and complete.
From this point of view, there is no road in vain in life, all experiences in life will be your best teacher, and we are all part of the practice in the red dust, and everything will have two sides.
There is no absolute good and bad, good and evil in this world.
The most profound feeling I have when I look at history is that the great men I thought were insightful and strategic, each of them has experienced a large number of unprovoked disasters, betrayal of loved ones, self-defeating, divergent ways, darkest moments, desperate bets, coincidences, and unintentional ......
When the wheel of fate began to turn, everyone was run over, but the posture of the crushing was different.
Man is a drop of water in the ocean, and no one can be above it.
Ability, cultivation and one's own strength are not good, and it is useless to have any kind of interpersonal relationships, and sooner or later you will have to lose.
The key to reducing internal friction is not to care too much about the truth that has nothing to do with you.
For a strong person, in the face of any irreversible result, there are only two things to do: one is to accept it calmly, and the other is to self-attribute.
Acceptance, can get you out of emotional distress quickly;Self-attribution allows you to grow quickly.
Good luck and early awakening.