I suddenly remembered something, it was cold, it was time to add clothes, so I added a sweater, and my body was warm, and I felt very special in my heart, so I recorded it. From this, I think that I have to be a scheming person and change my mental behavior.
The feeling of the body when it is cold: the whole body is tense and the heart is tense. The position of the heart seems to have sunk, and it has sunk to the position of the stomach. The light that reaches the heart through the eyes is reduced, and the heart is like dusk, dim. The desire to be physically active decreases, and I just want to find a warm place to stay.
The feeling of the body when it is warm: the whole body is relaxed, and the heart is not nervous. The position of the heart seems to be in the normal position, in the position of the thoracic cavity. My eyes naturally relaxed, opened a little, and I felt light in my heart, just like I felt in the warm winter sun. The body also moves freely, and I feel that my body is full of enthusiasm and strength.
When psychological feelings arise, they will occasionally Xi inertia to make the next action, and generally do not look for the cause of the feeling, or the motivation for the generation of feelings. In this way, they will be swayed by the emotions in their hearts, and they may do some inappropriate behaviors.
I often talk about things in a hurry, and I act impulsively without regard to the consequences. "Think twice before acting" will be left behind, spit out as soon as possible, and do it first as soon as possible. For example, when insulted, they will not hesitate to raise their eyebrows coldly, be appreciated, and naturally smile with joy, and mental activities are caused by superficial phenomena, often ignoring the essence of things. From this, the word "scheming" is introduced, and the skills necessary in various social relations, scheming.
In relationships, do you hate scheming people? Having said that, we must train ourselves to be a happy and positive person, and we must have scheming, so that we can have the ability to take into account the psychological feelings of others, rather than ignoring ourselves in order to make others like and happy.