Tu Lei asked Xie Qingshuai in the live broadcast room, if life could be re-chosen, how would he choose?
Xie Qingshuai thought about it for a while and said that he would choose to never be separated from his parents, and he would rather live a dull life. I think he was thinking about his parents' feelings. That's why I said the answer that made my parents happy. After all, his parents have been looking for him for 25 years, and no one can understand the sadness he has experienced in 25 years.
Of course, he wanted to say that he would rather choose to never be separated from his parents than this sudden rich life.
However, most people will choose to want to become the current Xie Qingshuai.
His life is the envy of everyone. How many people fantasize that it would be nice if they were also the children they bought. If only one day, a rich father came to the door and wanted to take him away, give him a few houses, and buy himself the most luxurious car.
Most ordinary people live an ordinary life and have never been separated from their parents. Even, I don't feel happy with my parents. I want to stay away all day long.
Today's child, even if he is with his parents every day, he feels unhappy, and he hates to leave the control of his parents, just not with his parents.
1: Although Xie Qingshuai was stolen by traffickers at the age of 100 days, for Xie Qingshuai, his life was not particularly painful.
Because he didn't know that he was stolen, and he didn't know that he wasn't born over there.
It's just that life is a little poorer. The people around me are all people who live a poor life.
Therefore, the first 25 years of Xie Qingshuai were not pitiful.
In the best years of his life, when he dreamed of earning more money and living a better life, great luck fell from heaven and poured wealth into the sky, surrounding him and enveloping him.
His life reached its peak at the age of 25.
I had a lot of relatives in my life all of a sudden, and I didn't have to worry about money anymore, and I achieved financial freedom at the age of 25. You can do whatever you want.
This kind of life is a dream that everyone aspires to have.
When Tu Lei asked Xie Qingshuai, if he had a choice in life, he had been living an ordinary and ordinary life with his parents, or like now, separated from his biological parents in the first 25 years of his life, and at the age of 25, he suddenly had relatives and wealth, what would he choose?
Xie Qingshuai thought for a while, and he said that he chose the first one and lived an ordinary life, but he could never be separated from his parents.
This is the result of careful consideration. It is impossible for him to say in front of his parents that he likes the sudden luck after the current separation.
Anyone who has suffered knows how important money is to an adult.
This kind of question, if you ask any ordinary person now, ask him whether he has never been separated from his biological parents, or would rather choose to be separated, and then suddenly meet Fugui.
I think most people would probably choose the latter. It doesn't matter if you can be with your parents or not. Today's children, some of them start boarding when they go to primary school, they start kindergarten at the age of 3, and some of them have always been left-behind children, and their parents are just in their mobile phones. Isn't it also the same as reconciling Qingshuai?
How many children spend their childhood with their grandparents?How many parents want to earn more money so that their children can go to school and marry a daughter-in-law?
The reason why Xie Qingshuai is so concerned and loved is that how many people have illusions: If only he was also bought, if only he suddenly had a very rich father to recognize him.
From now on, life can be free from hard struggle.
Therefore, Xie Qingshuai's life is in line with the dreams of all adults. Overnight, he changed his life against the sky.
Xie Qingshuai's life is what many adults aspire to have.
How many children who have been with their parents, rebellious, quarreled, and even ran away from home.
People who have really been with their parents all their lives know that even if they have been with their parents since childhood, they do not feel particularly happy.
All of them want to be the second Xie Qingshuai.
Although all of them want to be Xie Qingshuai. I believe that no parent wants to be Xie Kefeng.
The reason why their family is loved and followed by so many people.
There is also Xie Kefeng's suffering but legendary life. He wept with joy at the end of his suffering.
He is a beacon and hope for all suffering lives.
Xie Kefeng is not tall, nor handsome, from the countryside, and has no background. Everything is on your own.
In his 20s, after giving birth to a child, he had to work hard for life. Everyone knows that life on the construction site is hard.
But in order to earn money and make a living, he went to the construction site to move bricks.
He found a girl from the same village, and even if his wife's brother was disabled, if he wanted to marry her, it would mean that he would have to take care of his mother's family.
He agreed without hesitation.
At that time, I was not tall and had no money, so I was lucky to have someone willing to marry.
You must know that in the countryside of that era, how many men wanted to be singles for the rest of their lives, and they didn't marry daughters-in-law.
Therefore, Xie Kefeng is very good to his wife and cherishes his small family.
If life is like this, it will be dull until old age, then it is the same as most people.
When he was in his twenties, fate gave him a blow in the face, and his son, who was only 100 days old, was stolen.
This is a pain that life cannot bear.
His legend is that in the face of bad luck, he did not slump or complain about decadence. Rather, it has a strong faith. While trying to earn money, he never gave up looking for his lost son.
His motivation to earn money is to give him a better life after recovering his son. He is a positive father.
He did not blame his wife, nor did he empathize with him after he became rich, but felt sorry for his wife, comforted her, and told her that they would definitely find their son.
It was also this belief that supported him, so that his life was not crushed by bad luck. On the contrary, I have the determination and motivation to work harder.
From moving bricks on the construction site to becoming the boss of several listed companies with hundreds of millions of assets, the suffering is beyond the imagination of ordinary people.
As much as you give, you will receive.
As much suffering as you can, you can bear as much blessing as you can.
Fate has never been unkind to anyone who has worked hard to live.
Xie Kefeng finally came to the end of his hardships and ushered in the happiest and most complete moment of his life.
The son has been recovered, and he has the ability to give his son whatever he wants.
This is the highest level of parenthood. Every parent who loves their children wants the best for their children. The most painful thing about being a parent is also because it is not easy to watch your children, but you can't do anything about it.
Giving is happiness!The happiest thing for every parent is to have the ability to give their children the best life.
So, Xie Kefeng did it.
It's just that his life is not easy.
He is a great father, a responsible husband, and a man who stands up to the sky.
Xie Kefeng's life can be a benchmark for men.
1: Don't complain or blame when anything goes wrong in life. This is something that many men can't do. A little thing will blame the woman. Something has happened, and the woman is already very sad, and after something happens, she wants to be comforted and cared for by the man, and then she is blamed by the man, which is more distressing to the woman than the thing itself.
If you change it to a blame-type man. It must not end like this. My mother will blame herself, and she will be beaten and scolded and complained, and she will not be able to live.
Men will fall into pain because they lose their sons, resent their wives, and eventually tear their families apart.
On how important is a man's emotional stability in a family?Xie Kefeng is the most responsible man. Because it was the wife who lost the child. If he wants to resent his wife, he has a reason.
However, he didn't. His wife thought he was going to beat her or scold her. Xie Kefeng's wife recalled that he never blamed her, but comforted her: We will definitely get our son back.
This sentence is the motivation for his wife to live.
2: Don't give up, don't give up.
This is also the greatest thing about being a husband, a father.
He didn't complain about his wife because she lost her child, not because he didn't love the child and didn't care about the child. It's because he loves his wife and his children. There was a very positive side to his life.
He felt that he would find his son. As long as he still has a breath left, he will look for his son. From his determination, you can also see how worried he is about his son.
In order to find his son, he is willing to endure more hardships. In order to find his son and make up for the debt to his son, he worked hard to earn money.
He didn't give up his life because his son was lost. On the contrary, while he suffered, he still let his family live a better life.
Nor did he become bad just because he was rich. is still distressed about his wife, taking care of the family, and looking for his son. This is the leitmotif of his life.
If Xie Kefeng is an ordinary man. Anyway, my son has lost it, and I have money anyway. If you change another wife, you can have as many sons as you want. His life is not what it is now.
But Xie Kefeng is not such a man.
It is precisely because of his responsibility that he has won the respect of everyone and the gift of fate.
Everyone was happy that Xie Kefeng had found his son.
If men were like Xie Kefeng, there might be fewer unhappy families.
If men are as responsible as Xie Kefeng, there will be no unhappy women in the world.
No one wants to have Xie Kefeng's experience, all fathers who really love their children want to have Xie Kefeng's success.
This is also the reason why Xie Qingshuai has been sought after and liked by the hearts of the whole network after returning to the family.
They fit the best ending in the imagination of all ordinary people.