When a woman chooses a partner, she will have certain criteria and will be picky about men, rather than just finding a man to marry. So, what kind of man does a woman love?
The standard for women to love men is very interesting, some have good economic conditions, but they just pursue tall and handsome;Some have a short temper and pursue gentle men;Some have a gentle temper and pursue men with a bit of a temper;Some have no money and pursue rich men. Of course, it is the basic criterion for a man to be handsome, and if he is not handsome, he must be rich. It is better to be handsome and rich, which is the object that women are chasing.
It's not that women are unaware, it's not that they don't know what they look like. Good-looking women like good-looking men, but the premise is that they must be rich, otherwise they will sit empty. Even women who are not good-looking like like handsome men, but they do not necessarily pursue the other party's money. As long as both parties work hard to earn money, they will not be unhappy after marriage, and they are likely to maintain a long-term marital relationship. And some strong women earn a lot of money, so they will not easily find a man to marry, but find a tall and handsome man. After all, women are not short of money, and it doesn't matter if men don't have money, as long as they are handsome and can handle it. Women generally love face, and strong women love face even more. The former Tang monk actor married a strong woman and has become a rich man. Strong women can go to the back door of some ** colleges and wait, and the handsome men who support the ** school can be regarded as "student assistance". And as a powerful man, he will support the female students of the ** college, but when he sees them beautiful, he will take the initiative to "help them". In fact, the world is like this, and it is not strange that people are used to seeing it.
Women look for men to rely on for life, not to look for a vase to look at. Under normal circumstances, a man must be able to earn money to support his family in order to support a woman, if a man earns little money and does not have many assets, and his parents are not officials, it is difficult to find a partner, unless he looks outstanding. A rich woman wants to find a handsome man, while a woman who has no money wants to find a rich man and take what she needs. If a woman meets a handsome and rich man, she usually meets someone who plays with her feelings or is a prostitute. Because in the marriage market, handsome and rich men will generally be robbed up, and they will not be kept for women who have no money. And a woman who has no money wants to find a rich man to achieve a counterattack in life. As for the appearance of men, you can't care too much about it. If you have money, you can't do anything else, and you can even marry a man who is married to a second or third marriage. After all, a married man has not much money. When a man is young, if he is not a rich second generation or an official second generation, he can not make much money just by working his own. Women don't like to make money on their own, or in other words, it is difficult for women to make money on their own, and they have to maintain a certain amount of economic expenditure. As a result, some beautiful women want to sell their hues, and even ask for support. As long as you have money, you are considered successful, and no one will ask how the money comes from.
In such a utilitarian background, women have to assume certain standards if they want to find a partner. Handsome and rich men have been snatched away, only handsome men have also been snatched away, and the remaining men with dominant positions can only be rich men, and the last choice is ordinary men. The average man can earn some money, but he won't be rich. Young men, in particular, are all working, starting businesses, and don't have much money. Young women will consider them, but the first choice is still handsome and rich men. Women spend a lot, especially on cosmetics and clothes. Many women buy cosmetics from a kitchen cabinet and a lot of clothes, but they don't use so much, they either give them away or throw them away. But the woman did not learn her lesson, but continued to buy, as long as she had money. Because you have to invest more in yourself, otherwise how can you maintain a youthful and beautiful posture?If a woman finds a man who has no money, she will have to hold back in terms of spending and can't let go. You need to find a man with a little money, even if the man is not very good-looking, you have to choose. If a woman wants plastic surgery, but also to maintain the effect after plastic surgery, the cost is not a small amount. You need to have a stable amount of money** and support to maintain your good looks. So, the woman wants to find a rich man.
To be honest, if a man doesn't have plastic surgery, there are not many good-looking men. The ancients were good at covering up the defects of men's appearance, called "talented women", emphasizing men's talents, not their appearance, but emphasizing women's appearance, not talent. So much so that there are three wives and four concubines for men and the fact that "women are virtuous if they are not talented", but people still think it is normal. From an evolutionary point of view, women are getting better and better, even if they are not good-looking, they should be made to look good, rather than being allowed to grow and be untouched. Almost all adult women wear makeup, and they want to be beautiful and have a wonderful body. If you don't have such a pursuit, how can you attract the attention of men?After the emergence of the social division of labor in ancient times, most women did not work in the fields, and men worked in the fields, while women weaved cloth at home, and taught their husbands and children, which was called the life of "male ploughing and female weaving". If a woman can't attract a man, at least not outwardly, she won't be able to get a good life.
After all, in ancient times, men were inferior to women, and women had to rely on men in order to get a good life. Now, men and women are equal, and women have their own ideas when it comes to choosing men. It is much better to be rich and handsome than to be short and poor and ugly, and you will have to settle for the next best. Although it is somewhat utilitarian, it is enough to show that women's pursuit and beautiful dreams, and it can also show that women are really liberated and can choose freely, but they just live together and do not get married, or just marry several times to cheat the bride price, or even do some careers that cannot be clearly stated, it doesn't matter, cohabitation can still be chosen, and those who cheat marriage and do unspeakable careers will not refuse......