Many parents find that their children who are very nervous about their academic Xi grades suddenly become indifferent to their academic Xi gradesWhat to do if your child doesn't care about grades
1. We must let our children work hard to do what they can in life. If he is willing to do it himself, he must let him do it himself. If he doesn't have an idea, we have to give him a certain task, let him do it, let him experience it.
In the process of doing things, the brain thinks and the body feels the strongest. It is better for us to create such a thing, which he can accomplish through hard work, not easily. In this process, it is best for us to find a way with our child and work together to accomplish such things, so that he can feel the sense of accomplishment of success through hard work, and at the same time, it can also enhance the child's sense of trust and awe for his parents.
I believe that many parents will be troubled by their children's learning habits, and it seems that relying on their children'XiXi s conscious understanding does not seem to work, and there is no directionAs a parent, I am also afraid of indiscriminate command and misguidance, and the child's learning Xi are not worrying until I saw the Tutu classroom two months ago, under their guidance, the child has developed a lot of good Xi habits, and the learning Xi is also a lot more positive!I feel finally relieved!
2. We must continue to dig into the needs of the child, when he wants to do something and has needs, we must constantly ask: why do you do this?What do you want to get?What do you hope for?He must continue to dig out the needs that he may not even know, and when he digs into the root cause, his goal will be very clear, and he will continue to work hard for this thing, and then reflect it on his learning Xi.
3. For children who have just entered adolescence, they are forming a critical period of self-identity, and they do not have a very clear understanding of themselves, hovering back and forth between self-confidence and inferiority. At this time, their so-called indifference is likely to be just a gesture for parents to see, and they don't really care. Therefore, even in the face of such children, parents should not put too much pressure on them, but be more patient to encourage them.
How can children improve their grades?The reason why the child doesn't care about the attitude towards grades
1. The child thinks that his grades are okay, but there is a large gap with his parents' expectations, so the parents feel that the child's grades are not good, and the child does not have a higher pursuit, and is not self-motivated in school Xi.
2. The child may not have bad grades before, but he may be often criticized by teachers or parents because of his poor performance in school. After many criticisms, the child's psychology has a shadow, and he feels that everyone doesn't like him, so he breaks the jar and breaks it, and he doesn't take his Xi seriously, and as a result, his grades are poor in Xi.
For how children can improve their grades sharing is here, learning Xi itself will not actually make children much painful, but because of the Xi amount of homework, such as criticism, such as exams, such as comparisons, etc., will make children feel uncomfortable, and even some children will be very repulsed and afraid.
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