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My name is Li Xiaofang, I am an ordinary working girl, I work overtime every day, accumulate for two years, and finally save 200,000 yuan in my savings card. For me, this money can be said to be earned desperately, but I didn't expect that one day it would cause a dispute between me and my boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend Wang Yang for two years, we have a good relationship, and we are ready to get married. Both of us are ordinary migrant workers, and we have always been very low-key in our relationship, and we have never discussed the house and marriage. Once Wang Yang suddenly came to my house to sit, I happened to go to the bathroom, and my mobile phone fell on the coffee table. When I came back, I saw Wang Yang holding my mobile phone in his hand, and his face was very strange. I thought to myself that I must have seen something I shouldn't have seen, so I immediately grabbed my phone and asked him, "What did you see?"Wang Yang looked at me stunned and said, "Xiaofang, you are logged in to your mobile banking, I see 200,000 yuan on your card!.""I was shocked when I heard it, although I saved 200,000 yuan, I never mentioned it to Wang Yang. I quickly smiled and said, "Oh, it's not much, so I saved a little hard-earned money." ”
Wang Yang's face was very serious, and he said, "A little hard-earned money can save 20,000 yuan?"I think we should have a good discussion about what to do with the money. I vaguely felt that something was not quite right in my heart, but I still said gently: "Isn't this just the savings of an ordinary part-time job, what to deal with, keep it for future marriage." Wang Yang stared at me, and his tone was a little anxious: "If you want to buy a house when you get married, do you say that 20,000 yuan is enough to buy a house?"I think we should take out the deposit first, I have seen a few good houses, just near our unit, take out a loan to buy the next one. "I heard Wang Yang mention buying a house as soon as he opened his mouth, and I felt extremely uncomfortable, and I felt that he was a little open-minded about money. But he still persuaded him with a smile on his face: "Wang Yang, let's take our time when it comes to buying a house, now marriage is the most important thing, and the problem of money is second, right?"Wang Yang frowned and said: "What's the matter, you must have a house before you get married, what kind of marriage if you don't have a house!."I continued to persuade with a smile, but I was very nervous in my heart: "It's true, but what we are lacking now is the house money, it's better to work for a few years before buying a house, anyway, it's okay to rent a house to live in." ”
Wang Yang's face became even more ugly, and he said in a tough tone: "Xiaofang, let me tell you, buying a house is a big deal, and now you have 200,000 yuan on your card, pay the deposit first, take out a loan to buy a house, so that we can have our own small home, how good!."I finally couldn't help it, and said solemnly: "Wang Yang, I advise you to calm down, don't mention the 200,000 I worked so hard to save, isn't it too materialistic for you to urge me to buy a house like this?"The most important thing in the relationship is to understand and take care of each other, not to hold on to my deposits, right?Wang Yang immediately became excited, raised his voice and said, "Xiaofang, what do you mean, am I just material?"I'm thinking about our little family, okay!You can't bear this money, how will we live in the future?I also raised my voice and said, "Wang Yang, calm down!."The 200,000 my hard-earned money is not enough to save our wedding house**, you have to ask me to take it out to buy a house, do you think about it?Buying a house can be done slowly, and feelings are the most important thing!Wang Yang's face turned red with anger, and he said excitedly: "I just want to buy a house, if I don't buy it, let's break up!"I was stung by Wang Yang's last sentence, tears rolled in my eyes, and I tried to calm myself down, saying: "Wang Yang, are you going to threaten to break up just to ask for my savings to buy your house?"I don't even know you the way you are now!Let's talk well, don't quarrel like this. ”
Wang Yang stood up and said angrily: "There's nothing to say, if you don't buy a house, we can only break up!."Xiaofang, to tell you honestly, the house I fancy needs a down payment of 500,000, you will have 200,000 on your card, and you will find a way to get the remaining 300,000, and give me an answer within three days!I wiped away my tears and said to Wang Yang with red eyes: "Wang Yang, I will give you three days to calm down." For me, this money is accumulated by me in five or six years of part-time work, which means that I have given you half my life, and you have to give me a reasonable explanation. Wang Yang didn't speak, picked up his phone and left. I looked at his back, and my heart was like a knife. Three days later, Wang Yang came to me angrily and said that he had thought very clearly and asked me to give him the deposit to buy a house. I begged him not to do this, let's get married first, and then buy it after marriageWang Yang said sharply that if you don't have a house, don't talk about feelings, what I want is to pay, not empty words!I said with red eyes: "Wang Yang, I earned this money by working on my own, and you are not qualified to take it by force!."I also want to have a family, but I value mutual respect more than anything else. Wang Yang sneered: "I think you dislike me, you don't feel the feeling of buying a house by yourself, you have to pay for it, you have to have a sense of superiority!."Divide it, keep the money and find the rich!With that, he slammed the door and left. 
I burst into tears and my mind was in turmoil. The beloved one has changed for money, and it is more painful than anything else. I called Wang Yang several times, but he didn't answer. Two days later, Wang Yang suddenly came to see me, his tone softened, and he said that he had reflected and that he was too anxious before. He said that we will take our time to buy a house, but I will have to make a down payment of at least 200,000 yuan so that he can accept it. I was silent, and after a long time, I said, "Wang Yang, do you finally understand that money is not the most important thing?"I also want my family to have a good life, but feelings must not be based on material things. You broke up with my hard-earned money for the house before, and it broke my heart. Wang Yang said anxiously: "Xiaofang, that's all my confusion for a while, you forgive me this time, I promise that I won't lose my temper with you about money again, it doesn't matter if we don't buy a house, feelings are the most precious!."I looked at Wang Yang and shook my head lightly: "No, we originally had a good relationship, but you chose to let money ruin this relationship." I'm really with you, not because you have a house or not, but you obviously can't accept my current state. This relationship is destined to not last long. Wang Yang explained anxiously, and I waved his hand to tell him not to speak. I looked at him calmly and said, "Wang Yang, I'm sorry, let's break up." Money can't decide the life and death of a relationship, and it shouldn't play that role. I hope you can find a girl who doesn't mind your financial situation in the future, and I wish you all the best. ”
Wang Yang left in despair, and looked at me with a complicated look in his eyes as he left. I know that he is also in pain in his heart, but this relationship is destined to end the moment he chooses money first. I cried silently alone, and the 200,000 in my pocket seemed worthless at this time. It shouldn't be a stumbling block to feelings, and I still let money hurt love after all, and I regret it. After Wang Yang left, I sat alone all night. The tears had long since dried up, replaced by a feeling of dead heart. The next day, I couldn't lift my spirits to go to work, so I asked the leader for leave. I began to look back on the bits and pieces of the past two years with Wang Yang. Wang Yang has always had a good personality and takes great care of me, and I am deeply moved by his sincerity. Do all men change their faces when they encounter money?I can't believe Wang Yang would be this kind of person. After thinking about it, I called Wang Yang **. The bell rang for a long time, and it finally connected. Wang Yang's voice sounded tired. 
I plucked up the courage and said, "Wang Yang, we need to have a good talk, face to face. Wang Yang was silent for a long time, and finally agreed to meet me. We made an appointment at the original rendezvous, a cabin by the lake. This time, Wang Yang was rarely late. As he approached in a dejected sway, my heart pounded. He's the one I love the most and I'm going to give him a chance. We didn't have anything to say after we met. After a long time, Wang Yang spoke first: "Xiaofang, I'm sorry, I really know it's wrong." I interrupted him and said, "I didn't call you to apologize. I want to give our relationship a chance to start over. ”
Wang Yang shook his head reproachfully: "No, I want to take advantage of everything, you are already too good to me." I continued: "I understand you as a person, and it is not because of greed that you ask to buy a house. Let's put the issue of money aside and go back to the original simple mentality, shall we?Wang Yang was overjoyed, took my hand and said, "Xiaofang, I understand, if feelings are based on material foundations, everything will deteriorate. From the bottom of my heart, I just want to grow old with you, and nothing else is the most important thing. I will keep this lesson in mind and be good to you wholeheartedly from now on. ”