100 help plan
In this complex world, we often lose ourselves, and in order to cater to and please others, we are constantly changing ourselves to the point where we forget our inner needs and true thoughts. However, this other-centered lifestyle only leaves us feeling tired and helpless. Therefore, we need to remind ourselves all the time:You don't have to please others, you are the most important person
Everyone has their own unique values, nature, language, and personality traits, which are what make them unique. But when people try to meet the expectations of others, they often sacrifice their own values and principles, which not only makes you feel lost, but also makes others lose respect for you. Therefore, don't change your values and principles in order to fit in with others, this is the first step to staying true to yourself and finding yourself.
Each of us has our own ideas and needs, however, if we are always other-centered, it can be difficult to express our own thoughts and needs. Not only can this make us feel depressed and frustrated, but it can also mislead others about our intentions. Therefore, having the courage to express your inner thoughts and needs is the second step to maintaining yourself and finding yourself.
Each of us has our own way of thinking and decision-making, which is where we come in to our unique strength. However, when we rely too much on others, we lose the ability to think and make decisions independently. Not only does this make us passive and helpless, but it also gives others the impression that we lack self-confidence and independence. Therefore, learning to think and make decisions independently is the third step to keep yourself and find yourself.
In short, you don't have to please others, you are the most important person. Only by constantly knowing ourselves, understanding ourselves, affirming ourselves, expressing ourselves, and realizing ourselves can we truly find ourselves. In this process, we can learn from the experience and wisdom of others, but the final decisions and actions are up to us. Only in this way can we truly become masters of our own destiny.