Mo Yan said: "I am afraid of ghosts all my life, but ghosts have not hurt me in the slightest, I have been kind all my life, I treat people sincerely, but people have made me bruised all over my body, the most terrible thing in the world is not ghosts, but the hearts of people who can't guess." ”
In the vast sea of literature, Mo Yan stands out for his unique narrative style and affectionate depiction of rural China. He once said: "I am afraid of ghosts all my life, but ghosts have not hurt me in the slightest, I have been kind all my life, and I am sincere to others, but people have made me bruised all over my body, and the most terrible thing in the world is not ghosts, but people who can't guess the human heart." This sentence is not only a portrayal of Mo Yan's personal experience, but also a reflection on the deep level of human nature.
The "ghost" mentioned by Mo Yan is, to a certain extent, a fear of unknown forces, which stems from the feeling of the impermanence and uncontrollability of life. And what he means by "people" is a deep insight into the complexity and changeability of human nature. In Mo Yan's view, the human heart is more frightening than ghosts, because the human heart is elusive and often beyond our comprehension and expectations.
First of all, the complexity and variability of human nature makes it difficult for us to truly understand and understand the actions and motivations of others. In interpersonal communication, we often encounter some unexpected things, some people are kind on the surface, but there are hidden mysteries behind them;Some people may seem strong, but they are actually vulnerable. This complex and changeable human nature makes us have to be cautious when interacting with people, for fear of falling into trouble if we are not careful.
Secondly, the fickleness and inadmissibility of human nature often lead to tension and contradictions in interpersonal relationships. In real life, we often encounter people who disregard the feelings of others for their own interests, and even betray and hurt those who have truly given to them. This fickleness and inadmissibility make us have to be vigilant when interacting with people so as not to get hurt.
However, in the face of the complexity and changeability of human nature, we cannot blindly fear and escape. As Mo Yan said, "Be kind all your life and treat others sincerely", which is an attitude and choice we have towards life. Although there are many unavoidable and elusive elements in human nature, we can still choose to be kind and genuine. This choice is not only a need of our hearts, but also the value and meaning of our lives.
In order to cope with the complexity and variability of human nature, we need to constantly learn and grow. We need to understand the weaknesses of human nature, understand the suffering of others, and at the same time improve our own abilities and wisdom. Only in this way will we be able to interact with others and deal with all kinds of complex situations with ease.
At the same time, we also need to maintain a normal and objective mindset. It is inevitable that there will be various setbacks and tribulations in life, and some people may become pessimistic and lost as a result. However, if we can maintain a normal and objective mindset, we will be better able to cope with life's challenges and difficulties. Whether in good times or bad, we need to stay calm and rational and not be swayed by emotions.
In addition, we need to learn to protect ourselves. In our dealings with others, we need to be vigilant and self-protective. Don't take the sweet words or superficial good intentions of strangers lightly. At the same time, we also need to learn to refuse and resist improper demands or behaviors to protect our rights and dignity.
Finally, we need to believe in the goodness and goodness of human nature. Although there are many complex and changeable factors in human nature, we cannot deny the beauty and goodness of human nature. There are many people in our lives who are willing to treat others with sincerity, care for others, and contribute to society. These people are our role models and sources of strength. We need to believe in this power of goodness and goodness and let it flourish in our lives.
To sum up, "the most terrifying thing in the world is not ghosts, but the unguessable human heart." This sentence expresses Mo Yan's deep insight and emotion into human nature. In the face of the complexity and changeability of human nature, we need to maintain a normal and objective attitude, continue to learn and grow, learn to protect ourselves, and firmly believe in the beauty and goodness of human nature. Only in this way can we walk more firmly and calmly on the road of life.