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Today I would like to share with you an important awakening about life. That is, after the age of 50, we no longer need to be entangled with relatives, colleagues, brothers and sisters. Let me tell you why.
First, let me briefly introduce myself. My name is Zhang Wei and I am 50 years old this year. I was born in an ordinary family, and my parents were hardworking and simple. When I grew up, I became an ordinary salaryman, busy between work and family. At the age of 50, I finally began to understand the true meaning of life.
At one time, I, like many people, felt that it was a responsibility, even an obligation, to stay close to relatives, colleagues, siblings. But as I've gotten older, I no longer want to be bound by other people's expectations and entanglements. I want to live a free and easy life.
First of all, entanglement between relatives. It is undeniable that the relationship between relatives is often limited by social traditions and ideas, and you cannot choose your own relatives. However, the relationship between relatives does not mean that we have to be unconditionally entangled with each other. I learned to keep a moderate distance and stop catering to the expectations of my relatives and live my own life.
Secondly, entanglement between colleagues. The workplace is often a competitive environment, and we need to maintain a good working relationship, but that doesn't mean we have to be close to every colleague. I learned that competence and professionalism are the most important thing at work, not how you relate to your colleagues. I know how to choose the right time to communicate with my colleagues and maintain a positive and healthy work atmosphere.
Finally, the entanglement between siblings. Siblings are the most intimate, and we have experienced the bits and pieces of childhood together. However, we also need to give each other space and respect. No more pointing fingers at siblings' lives, no more passively coping with various family gatherings. I understand that everyone has their own way of life and choices, and we should support and understand each other and not interfere too much.
By getting rid of the entanglement with relatives, colleagues, siblings, I finally found my own freedom and ease. I was able to focus more on my inner needs and pursue my interests and dreams. I no longer gave up my happiness to please others, and I began to live a life that was truly my own.
If you're feeling a similar entanglement and bondage, try letting go. Some relationships will only drain your energy and time and leave you helpless. Learn to keep a proper distance from them and not take their comments too seriously. Your life is your own, and living happily and uninhibitedly is the most important thing.
I hope today's sharing enlightened you. After the age of fifty, there is no need to entangle with relatives, colleagues, siblings. Make your life more free, easy and fulfilling!Thank you all for reading!